Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

hours a night. constantly cleaning up at home and working yet they never give you credit for what you do only complain about what is not done.

2006-11-07 04:12:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

paranoid.

2006-11-07 04:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1

My husband does this to me and I think it's totally rude! He doesn't even realize he does it. It makes me feel like what I have to say is not important or worthy of the conversation.

Any suggestions?

2006-11-07 03:59:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance's friend is getting seperated with his wife and in my opinion it is his wifes fault 100%..without details on that how does he handle his kids not understanding whats going on and i know she talks bad about him too!! i feel so bad for him because he loves his family to death and things did not work out in marriage but the kids cry for him and when they come to visit him they cry when they leave him.. it is heart wrenching!! what can he say or do for them to make this transition easier for all involved?

2006-11-07 03:53:21 · 12 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3

he was checking his messages and i could har her through the phone... The start of her message was.."hey yooou".... She is reacently devorced and prob looking for a rebound..... should i be concerned? he says its cause she has a bubbly personalty.... I have not met her yet and its killing me that i have no clue what she looks like......

2006-11-07 03:48:11 · 34 answers · asked by wendywallet 1

I have been in 16 year realtionship and a 6 year realtionship. One resulted in divorce. I have met this wonderful man 2 1/2 months ago. He treats me special. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I have never met anyone like this before. I really feel like he is the one for me. Is it to early for an early engagement and maybe get married next year. He makes me complete in ways that I hadn't felt in years. What shall I do?

2006-11-07 03:41:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married for almost 3 years. She recently told me that she does not feel the same way she did when we got married, she said the love is gone, but I dont feel the same way. Any help on this would be great.

2006-11-07 03:39:01 · 24 answers · asked by Jason N 1

I have been in this relationship for over 7 year. We have 2 kids together also. We have talked numerous times about getting married. I have even started planning a wedding several times in the past 7 years also. But by the time I start getting everything together and ready to spending some money, things go down hill. We start fighting constantly and end up splitting up. We can fight about anything under the sun. From our sex life to how the toilet paper hangs from the roller. It doesn't matter what it is, we will fight about it. We love each other and care for each other a lot. But there is is so many issues that need to be resolved. We have both tried to change our ways, but it alwasy seems to end up the same way every time, in a fight. What should we do, just go ahead and get married, it is looking like we will be together forever anyway. Or just stay as partners and see where it goes. He wants to get married and so do I, I just don't want to be in an unhappy marriage. Please help me

2006-11-07 03:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Then they'll see how marriage doesn't solve everything. Then they'll get divorced and have to put with all the stuff that goes with that.

2006-11-07 03:34:48 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

I dont know if this is even the appropriate forum to ask this in....

Last night I tried calling my fiance. Couldnt reach him for a few hours. It was an emergency so I needed to reach him asap. I knew he would prob be at the coffee shop studying so I drove to the coffee shop and thought I would catch him there. No big deal.
When I pull into the parking lot and as im walking past a restaraunt right beside the coffee shop I see him sitting there having dinner with a woman. So I walk in and confront him. Maybe I should have trusted him and not said anything and waited. But I couldnt help it.Come to find out he met a bunch of people from work because they just closed a big deal and they were all having dinner and they ended up being the last two to leave. This girl was his intern. I am completely humiliated. What would you women do? Would you believe him if hes never given you a reason to not trust before? I am so confused and hurt. I dont know what to think.

2006-11-07 03:30:35 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-07 03:27:50 · 14 answers · asked by Julie 1

I know his name. And roughly where he was at the time of my birth.

2006-11-07 03:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by Supersammy :o) 3

she sleeps days i sleep nites .it like shes to tired of a morning .we have no kids . and plenty of time . so whats up???

2006-11-07 03:25:51 · 24 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3

My husband tries to deny the whole thing but I found an email he sent to her telling her its ok they can just keep everything to themselves. The other girl is married also. When I question my husband about his feelings for this other person he denies them but in his email to her he clearly states that he has feelings for her.
Since being caught he has done nothing or said anything to her to make her think that he doesnt care about her. He carries her picture everywhere. Im very angry and its hard to stay calm but I try so that I dont go into early labor. I want to leave but cant cause I have no money so Im stuck here until I can go back to work. I hate being here knowing that he is not being real about his feelings. I wonder if there is a place I can go to who can help me to get on my feet so I can leave now.

2006-11-07 03:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by red2lu 1

My son, whos 19, does not take showers regularly enouogh and does not wash his clothes that often, so occationally he stinks. I go round and round with him every morning just about asking him to please take a shower, please wash your clothes. Sometimes he does it sometimes he doesn't. Let me just say that other than that he is a great son. Never caused us a lick of problems. But this morning my hubby gave an ultimatum, either my son (his step-son) takes a shower and washes his clothes or he has to move. I told my husband he was being rediculous. My son is currently going to college and does not have away to support himself. My husband said, "its either him or me, you decide!" I talked to my son, I said, "Please take a shower and wash your clothes when you get home." And he said he would, but I am still stunned by my husbands ultimatum, what should I do?

2006-11-07 03:21:52 · 35 answers · asked by mitchkey 1

My partner left because I said harsh things in a depressed breakdown.. We had lived together for many years and been very happy - that's why my outburst was such a shock to her (it was to me). She says she loves and misses me but can't come back because I hurt her so badly that she can't trust me. I'm hoping that in time trust will build - we meet regularly and enjoy that. She has rented a flat and has a busy life, is coping with her job etc. From the outside so am I.

Two close friends say "Forget her - if she left she can't love you, whatever she says". But I do want to try to win her back, even if it takes time. Please advise me if you can.

2006-11-07 03:15:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i got married when we were 18 and 17 right out of high school after a year of dating we eloped. My parents could not stand him at all thought he as a looser and spoiled brat. After being married 3 months it was hard the standard of living for both of us dropped dramaticly i found out i was pregnant he was fine with it till he saw the utra sound we seperated his choice.I went back home(to my parents) and gave birth to our daughter started working for my moms buisness that she owns and going to college. I will be graduating this year with degree in finance.My husband and i have yet to file the paper work for divorce. I started seeing someone else for the last 2 yrs an old friend from kindergarden who moved away when we were young.He is wonderful with my daughter and she calls him dad. Estranged hubby just got in contact wanting to be a family again after 4 yrs i said no.Now he is demanding to meet my bf and see his daughter?

2006-11-07 03:14:54 · 17 answers · asked by Isabel G 1

I Love him, and do not, and cannot leave. I just try to walk away. How can I help him with his problem. He rarely tries to get help or realize that he needs it.

2006-11-07 03:03:42 · 40 answers · asked by bearlady 1

mates. Our friends gave us a $120.00 "gift certificates" to a really fancy restaurant. I have never been to a place like that. Don't know how to act! What can I expect? Just think how many Burger King burgers we could buy with that much money. Help this country boy to know how to act when we go in.

2006-11-07 02:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Bluebeard 1

We divorced back in May and he disappeared from our lives to go back to Tn. He only calls every once in a while, doesnt pay child support, and has recently been arrested for 4th offense dwi. I dont want to sever all contact from my kids with their dad but he is totally irresponsible and Im not sure what I should do. going after him in court is pointless because he dosent half work and even then its off the books. I just feel like its so unfair for me to have to work so hard and he always looks like a victim to the kids because hes got it so hard. Do you think I should try to get him to help more or just cut my losses and try to limit the contact he has with us? I wonder if him being around would be more harm than good.

2006-11-07 02:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by jenkins_nichole 2

Not really yealling but he was upset with me and i started crying i don't now why this has never happend to me before is weird. What do you think this is. Thanks for your help....

2006-11-07 02:57:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know if this is even the appropriate forum to ask this in....

Last night I tried calling my fiance. Couldnt reach him for a few hours. It was an emergency so I needed to reach him asap. I knew he would prob be at the coffee shop studying so I drove to the coffee shop and thought I would catch him there. No big deal.

When I pull into the parking lot and as im walking past a restaraunt right beside the coffee shop I see him sitting there having dinner with a woman.

So I walk in and confront him. Maybe I should have trusted him and not said anything and waited. But I couldnt help it.

Come to find out he met a bunch of people from work because they just closed a big deal and they were all having dinner and they ended up being the last two to leave. This girl was his intern. I am completely humiliated.

What would you women do? Would you believe him if hes never given you a reason to not trust before? I am so confused and hurt. I dont know what to think.

2006-11-07 02:54:24 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2

Does it mean anything if a married women dreams about being with another man in a sexual manner. The man in the dream is not a real person that she knows.

2006-11-07 02:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by fazugosgirl 2

Last year my boyfriend gave his ex-wife flowers for her birthday and jewlery for Christmas. It kind of bothered me. Today is her birthday and I think he may give her flowers again. Is that normal to bother me? She gave him a bottle of wine for his birthday, which I thought was practical and fine.

2006-11-07 02:51:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

its me again? we just transfered in our new house..we're unpacking our things,when i saw three condoms! it schocked me!!! we're not together and havent seen for 2.5yrs,i aksed what 's that for he told me first the hospital was giving condom,he works in military..the 2nd reason its for us...he knows im not allowed for condom it causes me irritation..the 3rd i know its the truth,he said its for emergency use!..emergency??!!..can someone give me advice on this,please.we're doing well now,i dont know what's gonna happen next..im just scared to admit of something that is obvious! we're living together now for two months,still in period of adjustment.how will i know if he's cheating?i love him,how will i know when its too much? thanks for reading,your response would appreciated.

2006-11-07 02:41:33 · 10 answers · asked by rcy123 1

she always talking to me about his new bf i cant talret this. its hurt me lot. even i was cried so many times but she dont care about me. sometimes she stop me to be physically with her but some times she also wants to be phyiscal with me

2006-11-07 02:41:15 · 12 answers · asked by saahil k 1

I have been dating this wonderful man for about 2 1/2 months. I feel like he is the one for me. He makes me feel special. I have never had a man to treat me like him before. I am falling in love with him. He wants to get married. I want to but I don't know if its too soon. What shall I do? I really want to spend the rest of my life with this man. I have never had anyone to make me feel like this before. I also have 2 kids and he wants to be a father to my kids. So what shall I do? I am confused can anyone shed some light on my situation.

2006-11-07 02:38:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

but the state she gets the ok to move too has a six month jurisdiction on the court order she is given.she is now been living in that state she was granted to for eight months nows does the court order still remain the same, or does she then have to file for another court order in the state she is in now ?

2006-11-07 02:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by jeremiah da man 1

My wife started obsessing over her 37th birthday as if that was a significant date. She radically changed a couple months before and the months since her birthday. She started using pot - against my wishes and principles. I caught her cheating - her response "don't ruin this for me". She continues to use the pot and cheat with various guys some in 3-ways. She at one point said that this(pot, cheating) was just for a short while. Now she says she wants just an open marriage because she likes F'n around.
She is doing sex acts with these guys that I will not do. I will not do a 3 way with her and another guy, as she recently asked me to do. I am not into anal sex which is one of the things she is doing with these guys.
Is this just a midlife crisis that she will get over soon? Or is she now into other things and will not go back to how things were?

I do love her. Yes we did have problems in the bedroom. She had always been the prude in the bedroom!

2006-11-07 02:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

they split up when the children were 1 1/2 yrs and 1 yr, and are now both re-married? If the children never really knew about any of it, and don't remember it and both parents have moved on(well at least one), then why talk to the children about it at all? I mean, tell them if they ask, but why say anything to them if they don't. The only thing the kids are going to end up asking is why mommy and daddy aren't married anymore(which is why I think they were told in the first place) and it will only confuse them. They are too young to understand why the parents split. The children are 5 and 6 now. But they were asking questions about mommy and daddy being married when they were 3 and 4 out of the blue. But they weren't even old enough to remember when daddy and mommy were together! And none of them were alive when they were married. The grandmother argues that it is important to the kids to know that daddy and mommy were married, but they were only together 1 1/2 yrs.

2006-11-07 02:25:19 · 15 answers · asked by Mommy2be 2