its me again? we just transfered in our new house..we're unpacking our things,when i saw three condoms! it schocked me!!! we're not together and havent seen for 2.5yrs,i aksed what 's that for he told me first the hospital was giving condom,he works in military..the 2nd reason its for us...he knows im not allowed for condom it causes me irritation..the 3rd i know its the truth,he said its for emergency use!..emergency??!!..can someone give me advice on this,please.we're doing well now,i dont know what's gonna happen next..im just scared to admit of something that is obvious! we're living together now for two months,still in period of adjustment.how will i know if he's cheating?i love him,how will i know when its too much? thanks for reading,your response would appreciated.
2006-11-07 02:41:33 · 10 answers · asked by rcy123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not sure what you mean by, we're not together and haven't seen for 2.5 yrs. If this means you haven't been to together for a length of time he may have condoms laying around in his stuff. Better be safe than sorry. Now that you've moved in together he can throw them away. You won't be needing them. Take them and tell him their going in the garbage. What is he going to say or do. This should be no issue you if you both love each other. If your in a great relationship there should be no problem of feeling insecure about your mate. Sit him down and tell him you don't need to feel scared about what might happen next. On a day to day basis you can tell how much they care about you and your feelings. There should be no question if it's true love. Good Luck! Cocoa
2006-11-07 03:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The newer generations have been engrained to think they should always have a condom on hand "just in case." This isn't entirely odd.... what does strike me odd is he told you three different stories about the condoms....
The most you could do that this point is just talk to him about the condoms and tell him that there is no need for them and you'd prefer he got rid of them then watch for new condoms to surface.
Just remember to protect yourself in case he is out there having "emergent situations."
Miss Cris
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2006-11-07 02:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you and he do not use condoms, there is no other reason he would have them unless he is having sex with someone else and does not want to catch a disease or impregnate another women. The proof is in the condoms. I would not be hanging around waiting for him to become faithful to you. Either he is serious about this relationship or he is not. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-07 02:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum in all probability no longer you will be you are able to wait an entire month, yet you probably did no longer What do you propose the condom has spermicide? you need to use all 3 beginning administration, condom and spermicide. i'd use spermicide it is separate than what's presented in a condom if your era is previous due, take a attempt attempt to no longer stress, stress could make your era previous due stable success
2016-12-10 04:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once used to collect varius types of condoms, although my wife and I never used any, one day she found them and accused me of cheating, though I never did. I think it had to do when I was a young boy and condoms meant you were having sex or something stupid like that. Though I never cheated, she did not believe and that began the end of our marriage
2006-11-07 03:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The emergency is in case he is working late with a cute co-worker and needs to cover it up for a good banging!
Enjoy living in self denial!
2006-11-07 02:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
condoms...+emergency...+ u can't use b/c of irritation...= C'mon u know wht's goin on! If u can't use them who do u think he got them for? And if they give stuff out u don't have to TAKE it!!!
2006-11-07 02:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not having sex and i carry them, it is just smart thing to do!
2006-11-07 02:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I carry them because my wife makes me....
2006-11-07 02:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why get married if you give samples,
2006-11-07 03:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋