she sleeps days i sleep nites .it like shes to tired of a morning .we have no kids . and plenty of time . so whats up???
2006-11-07 03:25:51 · 24 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your asking the wrong person talk to your partner she should have the answers
2006-11-07 03:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as far as not having sex....it really dont mean that you guys do not have a healthy relationship....it just means that you 2 dont really have the time...i mean you say that you sleep nites...she sleeps in the day....so if you think about it when is there time for it.....just give it time...dont give up, because at the end when it come to you are her having sex it well be soooooooooooooo great. ! ! ! ! !
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-07 11:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me when my wife & I were working different shifts. We arranged to have "dates" with each other on our days off which more or less rekindled those old feelings. Took a while but with a little bit of effort & rescheduling our times off we succeeded. The secret was to find things we could do together that we both enjoyed even if was only a drive in the country or a movie followed by a quiet romantic dinner afterwards. When you find the time to be together make the most of it.
2006-11-07 11:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Diablo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you both have to make time for each other. Plan a date out or book a hotel and have a romantic get away. You both need to take the time to spice your sex life back up, its a sad part of life when a couple cant make ends meet and have to bust azz. There lives end up suffering in the long run...
2006-11-07 11:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not having sex is healthy, having sex is even more healthy. It depends how long the no sex has been going on. Maybe she is tired and just wants to rest. Try to figure out how to spend time together get all romantic on her and see what happens. If still no sex maybe she is intrested in sex just not with you.
2006-11-07 11:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not healthy at all. Sex is part of a natural need and time should be made for it, even if sporadic. Usually the extemporaneous type yields the best results anyway
2006-11-07 11:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't want your relationship solely based on sex. What we do is make "sex dates" we're both so busy so we talk dirty on the phone or leave notes of what we want to do to one another and then couple times a week I rush home before picking up baby from sitters and we get down and dirty. Sometimes it would be nice to be spontaneous but you make do with the time you have.
2006-11-07 13:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by OneidaMami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her! She could really just be really tired or stressed! That does lower a sex drive, but she could also just not have a sex drive. It does happen to some women and yes there are things she can take to help that!!
2006-11-07 11:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that a rhetorical question, you say it's' healthy. Although, in a marriage, sex is a form of affection that two display with eagerness and without excuse.
2006-11-07 11:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good lord no!!! Sex is a very healthy part of any relationship.
2006-11-07 11:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not healthy. You need to open the lines of communication. You will both have to make sacrifices to boost your sex life. It is my bet that his affects her as much as it affect you, but without communication, who is to know.
2006-11-07 11:34:15 · answer #11 · answered by Bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋