Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

I have a friend whos parents are separated but not divorced. his dads new gf that he has been with for 4 years is his x-best friends x-wife. she has two teenagers and he has one. they have all known eachother for about 11 years. his son and her daughter have created a relationship that started out as a friendship. they now consider themselves "together" and do everything that regular couples do. they say they have been together for about 3 1/2 years now. everyone else considers them together also. no one seems to have a problem with it including myself. it still raises the question tho. what are your thoughts and opinions?
p.s. no the parents of the couple are not married or even engaged, but they all live together now.

2006-11-07 08:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by t_200774 3

2006-11-07 08:36:53 · 55 answers · asked by Tryingtofigureitout 1

Why is so much higher than the old days?or our grandparents days?

2006-11-07 08:20:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your from NJ, raise you hand.

2006-11-07 08:16:27 · 7 answers · asked by Shocker3:16 3

Well basically, About 3 weeks ago I cheated on my boyfriend with this guy. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and hadn't seen each other in 7 months. I started feeling lonely, sad, and so on. Well I ended up kissing this guy. I told my boyfriend the next day, and after a long disussion we were 'ok'. Well, 4 days after that I ended up cheating on him again with the same guy. I was incredibly drunk, but knew what was happening. Afterwords I felt so horrible and left driving home (even though drunk). I haven't told my boyfriend that I cheated the 2nd time. We had a discussion about things that would make us say its over, and one of his was if i ever cheated again. I don't want to lose him because I love him with all of my heart, but I know that he needs to know.. what should I do?

2006-11-07 08:13:22 · 43 answers · asked by eousou 2

I have been married for 8 years. My marriage has been going down hill for the past 4. He bearly comes homes unless its to sleep. Me and my daughter bearly see him. He does pay the bills and lets me stay home with her as she isnt old enough for school till next year. He doesnt tell me he loves me anymore and I know that women call him alot but he says they are only friends I have a hard time beliveing this cause we havent had sex for months. I know I am unhappy with things they way they are but he wont go to therapy with me and has told me that he just wants more of a business relationship he pays the bills and has his life and me and my daughter have mine. Do these work out and do the find each other again or should I start looking for a job and a new home for me and my daughter?

2006-11-07 08:09:25 · 28 answers · asked by d2347 2

1)Men think about sex allot. Think about sex with their wife, wife’s sister, wife’s mother, and pretty much every lady they see. Even when they see a lady that is very physically unpleasant they think “boy I would not have sex with her” but it is still about sex. And it has nothing to do with the way they feel about you.
2)If it were not for sex no strait man would ever go near a woman because other than sex they are just not that much fun.
3)Woman see moral/ character issues in life that men just do not see. They really do not exist in our minds. Examples would be A) If you cheat on your wife before or after you have kids that is bad but if you cheat on her while she is pregante..o’man that is really bad. Why, what is the difference? B) When you leave for work or when you get home you need to say something to whoever is there in the house. Why if you look around and I am not there then I have left, then later if you look around and I am there then I have come home. That is not complicated. C) Woman believes there are times it would be nice to get together with another couple and do something with out beer. This thought does not make any sense in a mans mind.
4)The questions what are you thinking, what are your plans, what is wrong, or any other related questions are just total gibberish. Plus, woman 98% of the time if your man was HONEST with you when ask you would really not like what you heard.
5)Yea the whole honesty thing. How many times has a woman said the words “I just want you to be honest with me”. NO YOU DO NOT. What you want is an answer you like or an answer you do not like followed by a 3 hour conversation about whey that answer is wrong followed by the man changing his mind and thanking you for striating him our. See we as men just try to cut out the middle and jump strait to the answer we know you want.

So my question is why do ladies have such a hard time with these facts? Do you in fact not believe these things? Really I want to know.

2006-11-07 08:05:36 · 28 answers · asked by Brian 5

2006-11-07 08:04:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 08:04:30 · 36 answers · asked by ladybird 3

My sister has a 5 year old and had shared custody with her ex, he used to get my niece on weekends and holidays, my sister moved to another state got married and has a 1 year old now. Her ex asked for full custody and the judge gave him my niece because they say the child should stay where she was born. He never changed a diaper when my niece was born he never gave money for anything, for her first birthday the only thing he bought was a case of beer and has made my siste's life miserable. She doesnt have a job here so she cant move back, she is going to school and her husband has a good job, she can afford to stay home to raise both of them. Do you know of any other way she can get custody back?

2006-11-07 07:57:05 · 11 answers · asked by audrey 3

My husband is a crackhead and I want out. I have no money at all. How do I get a divorce?

2006-11-07 07:52:33 · 11 answers · asked by Krystal M 2

Poor pitiful me party from stbx wife.

2006-11-07 07:48:04 · 11 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

2006-11-07 07:47:54 · 15 answers · asked by sheewee 1

I have been feeling really unappriciated lately I do all of the housework and cooking of meals,washing cloths ect... I live with my bf of 2 1/2 yrs and my girls from a previous marriage ages 13 and 5 . My values have chenges a little when I was married before I took pride in doing everything for my hubby he showed great appriciation for the things I did he told me often and showed his gratitude by helping out some too even though he worked fulltime and I was a sahm . my bf now I guess expects the same treatment but,,,, he does not help at all he works m-f 7-3 and he works so hard he says for US that he thinks since I supposedly sit on my butt and watch soaps I should do it all even pick up after him he has never said this directly to me but actions speak louded than words what can I do to make him understand I want him to help out a little I have asked him but it ends up in a arguement I am a clean person but I am ready to just leave everything stay where it is to prove a point HELP

2006-11-07 07:46:24 · 6 answers · asked by ThE OnE aNd OnLy ..PEPSIGIRL 2

Lie and cheat? I mean seriously. Dont give me some bs answer like "not all of them lie" because they all do at some point. I just dont understand why? Are they all like that? Should I just accept it that a man will never be 100% honest and faithful with me?

2006-11-07 07:44:07 · 40 answers · asked by ? 2

Been together for 6 yrs, married 1, no kids. She left me becuase she says isn't in love with me anymore. Any ideas on when I will be healthy enough mentally to start looking for someone new?

2006-11-07 07:43:55 · 15 answers · asked by fedup 1

I'm leaving my controlling, alcoholic husband, who has in the past, called me names, left me stranded w/no money, cell phone, id, on the side of the road, and now i have found out that he's still talking to his ex-girlfriend, when he knows how much it bothers me..so why is it that it's hard to leave? He always twists it around on me. He says that i'm making a mistake. I don't think I am. I don't trust him. so, why do I feel guilty? We've tried everything. Counseling was going ok, but I just can't do this anymore. He drinks every day, doesn't want to talk to me for an hour, but, he can w/ the ex. I just don't get it.

2006-11-07 07:43:31 · 42 answers · asked by hellomyfriend 2

everytime she cooks her "special" lasagna, I cheat & grab Wendy's or McD's before I get home. She always mentions how little I eat those nights. It's been about 10 years now.

2006-11-07 07:41:10 · 58 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Very strange situation - married for 13 yrs but were separated for 6 mo. (March thru Sept). Another woman in the house whom is treated as "wife" - I'm just there to help with the kids, housework, and bills. I left because of past abuse and because he treated the other woman like his wife instead of me. Came back because he was doing so well with the kids and because he said he wanted to work things out with me. The abuse has stopped but he has not made any effort to work things out with me and when I try to talk to him about it he tells me I should just be happy he puts a roof over my head and food on the table. What to do?

2006-11-07 07:36:43 · 21 answers · asked by N 2

do you believe that unconditional love exists between two people? i had always thought that a truly unconditional love could only exist between a parent and child. like no matter what happens between you and the person you're with that you will love them no matter what. what do you think?

2006-11-07 07:36:01 · 16 answers · asked by *KiM* 6

I filed for divorce over 60 days ago and my lawyer gave me the drawn up papers to give to my husband. He signed them in front of a notary on Nov. 3rd but the notary forgot to change the date and stamped it Oct. 3rd instead. I didn't notice it until I got home. When I hand them to my attorney will he go ahead and set a court date for the divorce to end soon or do you think he'll request I get another copy and have to give them to him all over again? Only reply if you know for sure.

2006-11-07 07:34:26 · 3 answers · asked by CryBaby 2

My husband and I have been married for just under two years. He is older than me (15 years), we have nothing in common anymore. We have no children. I love him, but I don't know how long I can go on like this. Should we be seperating?

2006-11-07 07:32:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

like to feel the pulse of a man inside them after a nice romantic evening? or does dinner really matter?

2006-11-07 07:30:33 · 22 answers · asked by on2try 2

My husband has not been with many women, and i know sometimes he regrets it. we have been married over 10 years now. A friend of ours has made small advances toward him, and i told him maybe he should see what other women are like, he hasnt done it now but he is talking to her, he is also being honest and telling me,If i told him to stop he would, should i let him have this experience with another women.

2006-11-07 07:29:55 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

I too have been through terrible times but have made it through happier than ever. Should I just listen to her, or should I offer suggestions of what helped my husband and I?

2006-11-07 07:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by Jojo 2

He's done this a couple of times now. He usually starts hinting around by saying things like "you can't feel that can you?" and then escalates to all out humiliation where I'm talking about how good other guys are. He usually ends up wanting me to talk about having sex with a black man who's really hung. Can anyone provide insight? I'm somewhere in between surprised and o.k. with it but also thinking he's going to suggest adding a third person to our sex life. Thoughts please...and please be kind, I'm serious.

2006-11-07 07:25:49 · 27 answers · asked by run_me_some_more 1

2006-11-07 07:22:42 · 6 answers · asked by William S 1

DNA has already proved the child isnt his.Doesnt she know she will look stupid?If you need more information let me know.What does she really think she can get out of this?

2006-11-07 07:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by Peaches 2

my husband has started acting really odd i keep getting the cold shoulder i cant do right for doing wrong i havent gained weigh or changed my hair nothing he even sleeping on the couch and hes stopped taking our son out with him at weekends or go shopping with me and he isnt answering his phone to me he rings me back instead accussing me of cheaking up on him am not i usually just need something bringing in

2006-11-07 07:13:11 · 17 answers · asked by maymae 1

I am really angry at both and feel like going over to my brothers house and beating the living $h1t out of him and then kicking my wife out of the house because I pay for it. I'd take custody of the child and never let the ho see our baby again.

2006-11-07 07:10:47 · 48 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1