2006-11-07 07:47:54 · 15 answers · asked by sheewee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you are with him do you feel valued? Do you feel respected? Do you feel safe? Do you feel you can be who you are? Do you feel you are the best person you can be? Do you feel you'd like to be even better? For me, the love of my life made me answer "yes" to all of the above. 25 years later I feel just the same.
2006-11-07 07:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can be sure of is getting the wrong man.This seems to be what women do best and then they stay with them because they're afraid to leave.
Some things you should think about.
If he's a little fat,he'll only get fatter.If his hair is thinning,he'll only get balder.If he verbally or physically abuses you,it'll only get worse.If he smokes,he's already a loser.If he lives in a trailer,run.
If you can deal with any of the above,you have low self esteem.Keep looking!!!Too many women are in a hurry to get married and settle for bad men.The reason men are like this is because women will settle for one eventually.Women need to raise their standards.
2006-11-07 16:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by oneidmnstr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure of that you just know. how I know I had the right man. 3yrs ago when I started dating my boyfriend, we went out, came home, talked and then it was time for him to go. We did not share a kiss only and hug, it was then I knew he was my soul mate because i had this feeling of safety and I was able to trust that. we are not married yet, planning it, to this day I still have that feeling when he holds me.
2006-11-07 15:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by jackson32s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smart woman who has experienced heartbreak and has learned from her mistakes knows what she wants. I knew my husband was the right choice for me on our first date.
2006-11-07 16:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by rqd2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder the same thing I guess as long as he's good to you and can take care of himself he's a good man. No man is perfect.
2006-11-07 15:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by monics_mommy06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, sweetheart. If he is the one, you will feel that you are getting closer and closer by the passage of time. If you are getting away or your relation is not progressing, you should think again. Good luck!
2006-11-07 15:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is happy, she has the right man.
2006-11-08 05:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be totally sure. You just have to take a leap of faith.
2006-11-07 17:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are a better, happier person because you are with him, you have found the right man.
2006-11-07 15:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
instant connection in which each partners simply "knows" the other is "the one"
2006-11-07 16:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Handsome Devil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋