Should i let my husband sleep with others?

Question

My husband has not been with many women, and i know sometimes he regrets it. we have been married over 10 years now. A friend of ours has made small advances toward him, and i told him maybe he should see what other women are like, he hasnt done it now but he is talking to her, he is also being honest and telling me,If i told him to stop he would, should i let him have this experience with another women.

Answer 1

Absolutely not! There is nothing good that can come out of giving him permission to be unfaithful.

Answer 2

First of all this world is full of all walks of life everyone will see things different. While you are comfortable with letting him adventure you should be there with him during this time. You feel comfortable with the idea of your friend and husband perhaps messing around? Would you want them to do it alone behind closed doors? Or would you want to be there even participating or controling the situation at your pace. Your the queen and he needs to be at your whim in all aspects of this activity. Do not let it happen with out you or for him to venture away with out you. You say stop or go and he listens. You are still with him, he's not leaving you and cheating. He was open about his feelings and talked to you. If you dont want any part of it then stop the show. Pull the brakes. If he loves you which I think he does then he'll stop.
It's a very touchy situation and many people have found happiness in it. It also dosent have to be somthing that overtakes your life. Me and my girl do this now. It is very exciting and she enjoys it as much as I. But remember it is about both of you. make sure you feel the same and share all aspects of it.

Answer 3

Ummm, no I wouldn't advise that you allow this to happen. Right now you may feel safe because it seems like just curiousity but what would you do if he came back to you and said he kept certain things from you, met with someone without your knowledge and without meaning to, fell in love with someone else. You would think, wait a minute, we've been married for ten years! How did this happen. Or here is another scenario, what is he brings home something he got while sleeping with that other person? Condom's can't protect you 100% from all the nasty STD's out there!

I think you know the answer to this question.

Answer 4

I would say NO also!! He married you knowing good and well he had not been with many women. Why would you let him 'try' someone else out and possibly take the risk of losing him?? So if the situation were reversed would he let you be with another man just to see what it was like?? I think you're just asking for trouble in the long run if you allow this to happen.

Answer 5

Lets say best case scenario he goes through with it nothing happens he still loves you blah blah blah. How are you going to feel? If you are absolutely ok with this and you trust him I still think its not a good idea. Although he hasnt slept with many women how is that relevant? It doesnt mean anything, do you want him to gain experience or something? I think its a mistake and maybe you should try some alternative solution. On the other hand I dont believe in one night stands.

Answer 6

Mulitiple companions regularly bring about divorce courtroom. i've got seen human beings say those issues artwork however the certainty is a techniques distinctive. you have basically been married for somewhat over 2 years and you interest is already long previous? Did you have a low sexcontinual once you attached and made have faith which you probably did no longer? if so, then you certainly have become what's expected while human beings lie to others. in case you sexcontinual has unexpectedly grow to be low, it must be a scientific or psychological situation. in case you do unlike him, why did you get married?

Answer 7

Many couples enjoy expanding their sex lives to include people outside of the relationship. Technically, it's called swinging.

IME, this opens the door for trouble. There is a lot of drama involved, and you will most likely feel incredibly betrayed after it's all said and done. The fact that this woman is your friend may only make matters worse.

I would do things to spice up you and your husband's sex life and keep others out...

Answer 8

Negative...I was a virgin until my husband (actually he was my fiance the first time but still) and I have no regrets about my inexperience.

Don't let him sleep with other women. What if he likes her better than you? And he shouldn't be complaining about it either. He's got you. A loving wife, and a sure thing. You two need some counseling.

Answer 9

You are so sweet to put your husbands happiness before your own jealousy. To want happiness for your spouse is the true meaning of love. That is selfless love at it's purest.

The fact that you 2 talk about it is good also. That way there is no need for him to go fooling around behind your back like so many men do to their wife. Talk about it and then you can do what is most comfortable for you all. It will probably make him a better lover for you also. Good luck and have fun with it.

Answer 10

You should have done this before you were married....What if he likes it too much and leaves? I don't think it is all that necessary to have tons of different parters before you settle down. In my experience, the only one that matters is my husband. I barely remember anyone else...so whats the point? I guarantee it will make you jealous and then destroy your marriage. This just seems like a bad idea.

Answer 11

I think you have lost your mind! Why in the world would you want him to bone some other woman just because he had not before you?

Put on a wig, get fake boobs, dye your hair, role play for him but don't let him do that. What happens if he likes the other ones better than you sexually? You lost him to someone else and you helped him do it.

Don't be a dummy!