I have been feeling really unappriciated lately I do all of the housework and cooking of meals,washing cloths ect... I live with my bf of 2 1/2 yrs and my girls from a previous marriage ages 13 and 5 . My values have chenges a little when I was married before I took pride in doing everything for my hubby he showed great appriciation for the things I did he told me often and showed his gratitude by helping out some too even though he worked fulltime and I was a sahm . my bf now I guess expects the same treatment but,,,, he does not help at all he works m-f 7-3 and he works so hard he says for US that he thinks since I supposedly sit on my butt and watch soaps I should do it all even pick up after him he has never said this directly to me but actions speak louded than words what can I do to make him understand I want him to help out a little I have asked him but it ends up in a arguement I am a clean person but I am ready to just leave everything stay where it is to prove a point HELP
2006-11-07
07:46:24
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I guess I needed to put this in for those who say I shouldnt complain bcuz he works and I stay home I fully appriciate him for doing the outside job but... I am a mother of 2 and I am a very good one at that being active in thier activities ect... and I do not mind cooking or cleaning for all of us but what I am needing the help on is his not picking up HIS stuff socks cloths dishes he just has this attitude like oh well she will be here tomorrow she will pick it up this really causes conflict around laundry day if I dont pick his cloths up he is the only one in the house whose cloths dont get washed if I dont pick them up ...
2006-11-07
20:07:32 ·
update #1