Marriage & Divorce - 9 November 2006

2006-11-09 23:51:24 · 23 answers · asked by cat1967 2

2006-11-09 23:48:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the definition of cheating for both husband and wives...and pls state your nationality...after answering the question...thankx

2006-11-09 23:46:18 · 14 answers · asked by caramella 1

what is the definition of cheating for both husband and wives...and pls state your nationality...after answering the question...thankx

2006-11-09 23:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by caramella 1

2006-11-09 23:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-09 23:26:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were making love to your (wife) and she just lay there with no excitement, no life in her body, and with her eyes closed, what would you do to change this?

2006-11-09 23:23:57 · 37 answers · asked by Confused 1

well if a european husband had an ex gf...and thn he got married...then his wife travelled abroad for a while leaving him alone...then came his ex gf ...and asked him to have dinner together to talk as friends...and he accepted...is this considered cheating for the european culture....also if he kept contact with his ex...saying she is a friend....while she still loves him....but she told him that they r friends....is that ok...can love be friendship..or its a lie...thankx...

2006-11-09 23:23:41 · 3 answers · asked by caramella 1

When ever I say anything about my wife she shrugs it off and has said she does not like it. So I don't do anything along those lines then she gets the shits because I am not paying her enough attention.
What the @@@@ is the go?

2006-11-09 23:21:40 · 14 answers · asked by I'm In Love With Delicious 3

2006-11-09 23:04:49 · 25 answers · asked by Confused 1

My wife was raped TWICE....once when she was ten and again when she was nineteen. She never told ANYONE - just me 22years after we had been married. I am troubled and need help.

2006-11-09 23:04:43 · 17 answers · asked by tooostep 1

Idon't know what to do about my marriage for various reasons. I am now 54 and although I look good for my age, my husband is 41. We had not been getting on for a long time as we had control issues(he is totally controlling) also I found out he was having an affair so that would explain his aggression and constant criticism of me. Eight months after I discovered affair, he moved out although I said I could live with it, he said because he felt trapped in the marriage and wanted to try new things and take risks (whatever they are). After moving out he started to come back to our house every weekend and has become a reformed character. We sleep together, we go on holiday together, he is nice to me but wont talk about the future. He says things that suggest he will come back, but says he is not ready. I can't decide whether I should trust him because he could be playing for time till our daughter is 18 next year so that he wont loose out on the property.
Could he be so callous?

2006-11-09 23:02:00 · 24 answers · asked by Nancy S 1

I have noticed when I have been reading questions on here regarding relationship problems that most of us seem to side with the asker without knowing anything about the other side of the story. When someone is going through a divorce or splitting from their partner, 99% of the answers say the asker should tell his ex to f*** off and not let them get away with anything.
Usually we only get their side of the story but it usually takes two to make or break a relationship.

When someone talks about their spouse having an affair, we are quick to judge and support them, saying their spouse is an ar** but when someone is discussing their own affairs, the answers usually support them and blame the other half.

Just something I have been wondering about.

2006-11-09 22:56:40 · 23 answers · asked by IC 4

This one is truly priceless:

My long-passed grandmother's birthday is coming up, and for me it is
time to reminisce. The long walks we used to take. The long drives, the
special trips she would make to pick me up so I could spend weekends
with her, and the advice she used to give!

Much was wasted because I was young when she died. If she was alive
today and sharing her pearls of wisdom, I'd be a better man. Those gems
were all good, but the one I remember most, the jewel in the crown of
grand motherly advice, came when I was only 12. We were sitting in a
park, watching children and their mothers enjoying a beautiful spring
day. She told me that one day, I'd find a great woman and start my own
family. "And son, remember this always," she said, "be sure you marry a
woman with small hands."

"How come, Grandma?" I asked her.

She answered in her soft voice... "makes your pecker look bigger."

Kinda brings a tear to your eye, doesn't it?

2006-11-09 22:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by Sangy . 4

and which of the two parents do you think has more insights in the issue of love?

2006-11-09 22:52:13 · 7 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

2006-11-09 22:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by keyslawlady 1

2006-11-09 22:48:35 · 10 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

Hi, recently me and my partner have split up (we were not married), the house and everything in it is in my name ie settee, home improvement loan, t.v literally everything, the only thing he has left at the house is his bed and lamp!!
The mortgage also came out of my bank account....he is now claiming that he wants 'something out of it' as I have everything and he has nothing...(he was the one who decided to leave me)..
Does anyone know if he would be entitled to anything..?
I have looked on some websites but the info I have involves marriage and kids (we don't have any kids)

2006-11-09 22:36:18 · 26 answers · asked by ♥ 5

I'm Italian. I'm going to get married in TN . In Italy we don't change our last name after the marriage. Can I take my husband' name for everything concerns America and at the same time keep my Italian last name, using it to keep in touch with my country? It's important to know that, if it's possible I would like to keep both and use my Italian one for every thing about Italy, and the other for to live and work in Ameruka.
Mamy thanks.
Gabriella

2006-11-09 22:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by gabguid 1

2006-11-09 22:25:40 · 19 answers · asked by babli 1

I married a man who I had known for 3 years and absolutely adhored him. We had been married 10 months when I found out he cheated on me before we were married, lied about it several times, and has a number of women he has had affairs with and is still in contact with. Its been 4 weeks since i left and I'm finding it hard to get closure. I just can't believe he threw what we had away, he comes across to everyone as such an honorable sort of bloke, but he's not, he's a fake and a sham. So why can't i get him out of head, he hasn't and will not change I know this for sure he really is in another place as far as really coming clean and hasn't even apologised for what he did, why did he marry me with such a secret hanging over us when I gave him all I had. I keep dreaming about him coming back to me.
I need to get some closure on this and move on.

2006-11-09 22:23:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

the first one you are dating becos of xtian affinity, even though you have never been for a second attracted to him. but you still date him anyway becos everyone seems to think he is the perfect one for you and he also proposed to you on this ground that he's been led to meet you as he is your God's choosen hubby. the second guy, also a xtian, but is more honest with his approach and walks up to you that he likes you and he falls more into the man of your dreams, but then, you already gave the first guy your word that you would marry him. please what would you do?

2006-11-09 22:21:21 · 9 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

2006-11-09 22:20:52 · 18 answers · asked by cute cute 1

2006-11-09 22:14:28 · 15 answers · asked by ged t 2

I will be on board for approx 3 months. I am excited and anxious as it's my first time. But how do I spend my time as my husband will be busy and I don't wish to disturb his work.

2006-11-09 22:09:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do when he shuts you out of his life,
Dosen't talk to you or let you into what he is doing,
Dosent hold you at night either,
Especially when you think he has something fishy with a girl
Been married for close to two years
I dont want to ask him about the girl cos it will make him happy and proud and make me appear insecure.
Iam also trying to make him jealous, although i have nothing going on with another man.
i've been making lots of hush-hush calls lately which is quite unlike me.i also call my phone from a call center with hidden id.
Where do you think this game is hading to????????
He is showing no sign of jealousy. what do i do,iam beautiful,mind you and iam older too.

2006-11-09 22:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by helpmegetaname 3

You think you met the guy/girl of your dreams and decided to get married. Years later, you wish you had waited. It's not necessarily that you want a divorce, you just wish you had given yourself some more time.

2006-11-09 22:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by adazhia 3

I ended up not marrying mine despite my childhood fantansies of marrying one. so i was wondering if it happens that way with most women or not?

2006-11-09 21:55:30 · 17 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

for over a year now i've been obsessing about him and can't seem to get him out of my head. it's better but for 5 months it was 24/7. i haven't told anyone, not even my buddy and especially my wife of 25 years, but it's affecting my marriage and job and i'm getting depressed over this. he's a handsome, fit and successful guy. I put a question mark by str8 because who knows about anyone's sexuality unless they tell you. this started happening about 2 months after meeting him and hanging out last fall. what's going on in my head? we haven't had contact of any kind for almost 6 months and i plan to stay away. there was no sex involved. i've never obsessed about anything in my life. i'm 48 and also successful, fit and told i'm good looking. my marriage is "ok" after 25 years. no sparks flying.

2006-11-09 21:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by Chad S 1

2006-11-09 21:44:06 · 2 answers · asked by mcdheskc 1