Marriage & Divorce - 9 November 2006

Just taking a poll!!!

Mine is awesome!!!

2006-11-09 03:40:50 · 28 answers · asked by **What??** 4

i need advice
my husband loves eaither being on the playstation or the computer chatting and playing games he hasnt taken me out in over a year and he a few weeks ago was all over me white on rice wistling at me telling me how pretty i am now its like i'm non existant i feel like he hates me or something i tell him i love you in a sweet tendervoice and hes like yeah i love you too and i was like wtf was that tone and he goes to his friends telling them how terrible of a person i am and how i never cook or clean but i'm a nanny so what time do i have to do anything for him and then he only wants sex on his time and his terms . i feel like crap b/c i'm highly allergic to make up *certain brands* and i put some on to look good for him and eh comes home and says oh you look good i had to point it out to him though. i tryed ignoring him nothing theres nothingi can do to make him understand hes hurting me.
what should i do please some help

2006-11-09 03:38:14 · 15 answers · asked by glitterladybug2003 1

mean marriage

2006-11-09 03:37:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i try more than ten times but i failed.

2006-11-09 03:33:43 · 10 answers · asked by ESSAM a 1

I know this seems contradictory but I was in a bad relationship, My ex moved up here from Florida and stalks me. She keeps buying me stuff to stay with her. She works a part time job and comes home. She dont give me time to relax (she gets off work around noon and parks in front of my house, I work from home). I keep on telling her to leave me alone and she wont

I explained to her I need my time and she wont give it to me. With all the hell I been through (see my prior question) and Im considering of being back with her, but I dont need the headache. Im going to be 30 and I just wish the bull would stop. So I will ask the same question here. How do you stop the bull?

2006-11-09 03:33:25 · 16 answers · asked by null 3

I have never got along with my inlaws. When my husband and I first starting dating, the mother was very nasty to me. I would cry and be upset all the time and asked her why she would give me grief and she never had an answer. I do not think it has anything to do with me. My husband and her never got along. She would always put him down (still does). I understand it is his mother, but everytime he goes there he comes home and yells at me. My sister in-laws and brother in-laws are also not friendly. They all hang around together (they have no friends) and always talk terrible things about me. I have tried to point out to my husband that he yells and he says he just talks loud, but my 11 month old starts screaming or crying, so I think it is more yelling at me and I do not want my son to grow up to him yelling at me. I am at wits end with this. We have been married for 5 yrs and the 4yrs that his family wasn't around (only came around b/c I had baby) there was no yelling

2006-11-09 03:24:34 · 25 answers · asked by happynay 2

We have been married for 9 years and have just went through one of the worst patches in our marriage. We have successfuly gotten through the other side and I am actually glad it all happened, because I woke up and realized how much I love my husband, and how much for granted I was taking our relationship.....I believe he feels the same way... So what is an amazing way to plan a night to show him how much i love him? He's not into all the romantic stuff ( flowers, etc)....lol although I would adore that happening from him.....I just want him to really feel how special he is to me......Help me....

2006-11-09 03:20:44 · 11 answers · asked by sifford844 2

What is the most romantic way that you have heard of a man proposing before?

2006-11-09 03:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by cbp61 2

any women who have had an affair do you feel guilty or perhaps you just carry on because it works for you.do women own up to having affairs because i suppose most of your friends would be mortified ?

2006-11-09 03:17:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife doesnt have any hobbies. We have two kids. She has been in a serious rut the past couple of years and i want to get her something extra special. She doesnt like massages or things that a strangers will have to touch her. She is not really into jewelery. She is terrified of flying and boats. So i think a vacation is out. I would love some good advise or suggestion on what to get for her for Christmas? She is a great mother on the brink of a breakdown. She has been a at home mom for 2 years.

2006-11-09 03:16:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

a person need to be happy, but what will make him or her happy? do you know what makes you happy then tell me?

2006-11-09 03:14:17 · 14 answers · asked by xmasladyon 1

and he is really nervous (and excited...but more nervous). So am I but I don't want him to freak out so I don't really say anything about it. He doesn't mind flying but he's never been someplace without family. He's going by himself. We are both rather young (we're both in early twenties). What can I do to encourage him? And what can I do to keep myself from worrying while he's away for a week?

2006-11-09 03:13:06 · 16 answers · asked by bubb1e_gir1 5

2006-11-09 03:12:19 · 3 answers · asked by justfrens2002 2

I'm not about bashing, I'd just like to know why. Booty call? Because it was there? Problems at home? What? Also, was it worth it? I define cheating as any innappropriate physical and / or emotional relationship with someone other than your spouse / significant other. I'm looking for candid comments from adults, so no silly replies from teenagers or adults unable to act their age...

2006-11-09 03:06:02 · 8 answers · asked by Le_Roche 6

2006-11-09 03:02:04 · 13 answers · asked by jov 1

i been with my husband nearly 4 years.
we having been living with each other for 3 years now. we were really mad for each other. we always used to ring each other when ever we have a chance too. just to check how each other are and to say i love u etc. we used to ring at lunch time and after work, even though we meet up in 20 min to go home to our house.

yes we did have few little rows etc, but always made up. he puts up with me and the occasional mood swings and i put up with him etc.
we married recently, nearly a month now.
recently we harldy talk to each other, we never phone each other at lunch or after work like we used to. when we at home, we dont have much to say to each other. when we go home together in the car we dont say much part from how was work. we dont cuddle and kiss like we used to. husband finds me irrititating. we have arguments about family issues, but we do still make up after argument. dont have sex that often like we used to. only 1x week or 1 in 2 weeks

2006-11-09 03:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Rosy 4

He left me for her 8 montsh ago and now he calls and comes around and wants me to go to PTA meetings with him and out for pizza with the kids ( I tell him no thanks) and he happens to show up where I have lunch and yet I am told by others that he still hangs around with the village sluuut although she tells people that they are just friends. We have kids so I can't completely divorce myself from him. I told him don't call, don't come around, we can transfer the kids through his parents or mine so that we don't have to see on another and that if there is a question aboutthe kids he can email it. Is that too harsh or not harsh enough?

2006-11-09 02:59:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

recently asked the question about having an affair with a lady from my pub,text her to say that i wasn,t happy decieving people and she has said its ok we can be friends.where do people find the time to have an affair.

2006-11-09 02:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for emotional counseling, marraige counseling,etc

2006-11-09 02:51:10 · 1 answers · asked by groovythek 2

2006-11-09 02:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by jov 1

I recently send everyone on my email list an invitation to join Hi5. I just clicked everyone on my list, and my ex of a year ago was still on there too. Well, his wife, by the way is also the same woman he cheated on me with when we were together, keeps writing me telling me how her marriage is going to last forever and how i am so jealous of her. I've told her repeatedly that i'm not interested in him at all and it was just a simple email and I meant no harm. She clearly has relationship issues and I think she is extremely jealous of me. How do I send her the message that I am completely tired of this same argument but that I won't take her mouthy behavior much longer? any ideas?

2006-11-09 02:44:45 · 35 answers · asked by Cool Callie 2

I loved my wife and am not sure why I did it, but i also thought i loved the best friend, and the grass looked greener. Now even though I am happy with my new life, I just can't get over how much I hurt her, and how selfish I was. I feel terrible about what i did, but I can never take it back, and I will always feel like a bad person. It keeps me from truly living my life, knowing I ruined hers, even if for a short while. I still have feelings for her and always will, but of course she hates me.I love my best friend and we get along well, but if i had it to do over, I never would have done this again. Can anyone help me? This isn't a joke.

2006-11-09 02:34:34 · 40 answers · asked by spencer 2

Shall i move out there to live in a beautifull country where i dont speek a word of her native languaige or do i bring her over hear away from her family to a place that she has never been to befor where she only knows only basic english

2006-11-09 02:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by barry197901 2

I just found out a couple of weeks ago that my husband cheated on me twice with the same girl, a couple of weeks apart, three years ago. We were going through a serious rough patch, having only been married a year, fighting a lot, and I was being stupid and threatening to leave him. He was only 20, and I was 23, and we had a couple of friends that used to come over and hang out at our place a lot, one of them being this 18 year old girl. I thought she and I were good friends, I treated her like a little sister. I found out that she was infatuated with my husband, took advantage of the fact that he was afraid I was going to leave him, and , seduced him with a little alcohol and the whole "I'm here and she is not". After the second time, he started distancing himself from her and the other friends, and eventually kicked them out altogether, me none the wiser. He has lied to me about it for 3 years, never telling me because he was afraid of losing me. Should I let it go or not?

2006-11-09 02:25:18 · 31 answers · asked by Jamie H 1

a friend is going through a separation and her husband is trying to make her leave the house because the house is in his name only is this legal

2006-11-09 02:25:15 · 6 answers · asked by telliswood 1

He tells me there's nothing going on and there's no feelings there but every chance he gets he's watching her somehow. His kids tell him everything she does and everywhere she goes and sometimes he checks up. Now he's mad about a cruise she's going on. Should I just get out of this?

2006-11-09 02:23:06 · 7 answers · asked by Just visiting 1

Does he love you as much today as the day he married you?

2006-11-09 02:10:46 · 22 answers · asked by S K 7

other than sexual needs...what makes a husband cheats on his wife....

2006-11-09 02:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by caramella 1

what is a husband looking for in his wife...what r husbands missing in their wives...in general what are men looking for in their dream lady....

2006-11-09 02:05:05 · 20 answers · asked by caramella 1

to have an affair with your brothers wife? Even if she wasn't willing?

2006-11-09 01:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by waxingtheturtle2 4