2006-11-09 03:02:04 · 13 answers · asked by jov 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well it already sounds like you can't trust him.Their are several ways to see if he has another girl on the side.
1) Do you guys see each other on the weekends or anytime that he has off from work? If he doesn't make the effort to see you, than maybe he his hiding something or someone.
2) Do you talk on the phone all the time?Sometimes hours at a time. If not than maybe he is talking to someone else.
3) Does he call when he is going out to let you know what is going on, and call you when he gets back?
2006-11-09 03:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hey Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has the long distance relationship been going on? And how long will it continue? Even a good guy feels pressure after a few days without, communicate, talk about opening up the marriage until you can live together again. It may not be the best solution but would you rather he be honest and tell you about his friend with benefits (and you tell him about yours) or stress about cheating?
2006-11-09 03:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the most difficult part of a married life.you are away from each other.anyway if he abroad,it's difficult,if he is in the same country,you can visit him without his knowledge,if he is abroad,you watch the money you receive every month,if there are changes like it become less,be aware,he will have lot of reasons,of course you will feel the changes how often he calls you now and before.is he still sweet and talking to you sweet nothings like before?if not ask him.of course you can feel the difference but be calm and try to find out the truth.you can even call to his office or to his work secretly.if you discover something, don't nag immediately.pretend you don't know anything.if you proved that he has another woman,then write him.think of a strategy you can use,but always be calm.
2006-11-09 03:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mellow Ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A surprise visit should do the trick. You would need to stay for at least a few days, and make sure he doesn't know that you are coming, so he doesn't have time to make arrangements if he is cheating. If he's not, then pretend it's a second honeymoon and enjoy being together. (But don't let him know that you are trying to check up on him, just in case he's not doing anything wrong).
2006-11-09 03:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not telling enough to make me thing you are for real. The bottom line to this is do you or do you not trust him maybe he is thinking the same about you. Sounds like you and him work to much and spend to much time away from home. You need to find out what the problem is I think I have said enough what do you think?.
2006-11-09 03:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can assume he does since you are far away-most men would. Hire a private investigator so you have proof for the divorce.
2006-11-09 03:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find out for sure, you'd have to hire a private investigator.
2006-11-09 03:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the show Cheaters and catch his a ss
2006-11-09 03:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a copy of his phone bills, and or password to his email
depending on where he is located take a suprise trip spy on him for a little while and or just pop in on him.
good luck
2006-11-09 03:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your husband and you don't live together...? Well that right there is the problem.
2006-11-09 03:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋