Can anyone tell me how a simple email to my ex turned into such a drama?

Question

I recently send everyone on my email list an invitation to join Hi5. I just clicked everyone on my list, and my ex of a year ago was still on there too. Well, his wife, by the way is also the same woman he cheated on me with when we were together, keeps writing me telling me how her marriage is going to last forever and how i am so jealous of her. I've told her repeatedly that i'm not interested in him at all and it was just a simple email and I meant no harm. She clearly has relationship issues and I think she is extremely jealous of me. How do I send her the message that I am completely tired of this same argument but that I won't take her mouthy behavior much longer? any ideas?

Answer 1

JUST DELETE HIS NAME NOW AND FORGET ABOUT HIM.....AND IT SOUNDS LIKE THERE ARE DEEPER ISSUES HERE...ELSE YOU WOULD HAVE DONE IT AND FORGOT ABOUT HIM BY NOW

Answer 2

The more you respond and talk and defend yourself , the more she knows she is right.

First off, what in the h*ll is your cheating ex's email still doing in your contact list? Sounds like you really *do* still have a thing for him. If you don't, prove it. Delete him from your life and email box.

Second, the more you reply and respond to her, it just fuels her fires. Ignore every e-mail she sends you. My god is it that difficult? Delete without opening. Block her address. You *want* drama is why every "little thing" turns into drama. You seek drama out so guess what? You find drama. Take responsibility for this, grow up, and stop communicating with these people.

They deserve each other. The best revenge is living well without them.

Answer 3

You need to stop ALL contact with your ex AND his psycho wife. Don't even give her the ammunition to use against you. Delete them from your address book and block their address from sending to you. It's easier to have NO contact them to go through this kind of stress. Clearly, the wife is not secure in the relationship or it wouldn't even be an issue to get an e-mail from you. She's probably worried he'll cheat on her the way he did on you (with her!) Just go "no contact" and you wont have a problem.

Answer 4

This is the classic symptom of a couple that started out as an affair or by two-timing certain people. She will never feel secure with him, cause she knows how and when she got him, when he was with you, and believe me if he can do it to you, he can do it to her.

I would just block her off your emails, there is nothing you can say to her that she will believe, you could talk to your blue in the face.

Block the emails and thank your lucky stars that you had a lucky escape.

Good Luck

Answer 5

Simply, just stop responding. She'll get the point. I would also remove him from your list and block her emails. This will really get the point to her and him. If you see her in public, go the other way. The only way to show you have no interest is to actually stay away, don't talk, and anyway if you are sick of the drama this will cure it.

Answer 6

block your email and your phone and anything else she has numbers too. Tell her to go to h--- . tell her she is clearly harrasing you and if it does not stop you will file charges and have her locked up and if she keeps it up then do so and show her you mean business. Sometimes that is the only way to get rid of skanks like her . Also if he cheated with her on you then what makes her think he will not do that to her . Leopards dont change their spots ya know. good luck hon and god bless you and happy thanksgiving.

Answer 7

If there is one thing I've learned In this life that I've spent nearly 70 years living, it is that the prefix "ex" is like the skull and crossbones on poisons. Any relationship with anything "ex" is prone to illogical idiocy.

If "ex" comes to mind deliberately or by accident, undo if possible, drink a shot of Southern Comfort, take a hot bath, and go to bed.

Answer 8

Yeah, well she has a major problem because she helped in the cheating and now has those same issues blowing back in her face. I would totally ignore her. If she has problems let her deal with them herself. I wouldn't waste any of my energy on her. You have to just not let it get to you. She will never have a good relationship and after a while her current one will be over and she'll bother someone else. Don't let it get to you. If it does, don't let her know it. Good Luck.

Answer 9

Crazy! She is just eating herself up with suspicion and the target is you. Odds are he's at it again with another and this is throwing her off his trail. Regardless, send her one scathing e-mail about how you find her husband repulsive since he cheated on you with some tramp and that you no longer want any contact with either of them. Then advise her to seek marriage counseling and therapy for her jealousy and anger issues (she'll love that). Wish her the best. Delete both from your address book and block them from your e-mail. Good riddance.

Answer 10

BLOCK her email from your system, it'll get sent back to her as "undeliverable" and if that doesn't shut her piehole up, then you'll have to go munya on her ace.

She sounds SO insecure--of course, she's married to a cheater and we all know once a cheater always a cheater.
The best revenge for someone like this is...To live well, Look good, and drive a Mercedes.

Take care, and block that *****!

Answer 11

Yes, the best message of all, ignore her. Don't send anymore e-mails, no communication at all. I think she will get the message. As far as her marriage goes to your ex. I think she should be more concerned with the woman he will be cheating on her with. You know it's going to happen.