Shall i move out there to live in a beautifull country where i dont speek a word of her native languaige or do i bring her over hear away from her family to a place that she has never been to befor where she only knows only basic english
2006-11-09 02:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by barry197901 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Before you do anything, check out the local filipino community and see if they can help with advice.
If you want to go there, do your homework on where you're going. If, for example you intend to settle in Palawan or Mindoro the chances are you'll get kidnapped unless you have bodyguards. Manila is OK but again, areas are dangerous expecially at night. Best option is somewhere like Baggio, Tagatay, Quezon City or Angeles City. you can live very well there on a monthly income of £400, as long as your accomodation is paid for, i.e you own a decent house. Remember the PI is a developing country so theres no constant electricity, Water is pulled up from a deep well and utilities are unreliable.
English is very widely spoken in PI, mostly at basic level but certainly enough so you don't have to learn Tagalog. The traffic, corruption and way of life suits some, but not all. Best advice is to go there a few times yourself, bring her here on a tourist Visa a couple of times (you need to provide funds in her A/C for that) and go from there.
Make sure you have all the Visa regs sorted out, an overstay makes her persona non grata. for you ging there , there are visa rules but there are ways around it through corruption.
If she comes here and improves her English then she can qualify for a work permit after 2 years (I think) and find gainful employment. Local filipino communities are very helpful and easy to find, pin a notice up in your local hospital where there are probably numerous Filipino nurses, or simply ask someone.
Also, if you bring her here she will want to call home all the time (boredom, homesickness) so get a load of cheap international phonecards.
Good luck
2006-11-09 04:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Slackbladder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 17:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you find work there? If so, it might be nice to live there for a while. But if you are settled here, and she is willing, then it is probably the safer bet to move her here. You should both learn the other person's language too, as it will be useful in the future.
2006-11-09 02:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends about who is working between the two of you. if you are the one, then she has no choice but to be uprooted and vice-versa. let's be practical here. but it doesn't mean you won't let her visit her country if money and time permits.
2006-11-09 02:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by ladyhawke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved to Japan under the same circumstances. DO IT!!
GO THERE!! You can always leave.
2006-11-09 02:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by JaMoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have to decide on this ..its not up to just one person in a relationship..... ask her what she would like to do and come come to an agreement together
2006-11-09 02:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a good idea, well thought out
2006-11-09 02:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, being with someone from overseas its great...but if you can't speak a word of it...ITS PART OF THE DEAL!
2006-11-09 11:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Val® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say, bring her to the states...my mom is filipino and says its better here than there due to poverty and misc. corruption.
2006-11-09 02:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Chief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lame... Just lame.
2006-11-09 02:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Joshua4F1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋