He left me for her 8 montsh ago and now he calls and comes around and wants me to go to PTA meetings with him and out for pizza with the kids ( I tell him no thanks) and he happens to show up where I have lunch and yet I am told by others that he still hangs around with the village sluuut although she tells people that they are just friends. We have kids so I can't completely divorce myself from him. I told him don't call, don't come around, we can transfer the kids through his parents or mine so that we don't have to see on another and that if there is a question aboutthe kids he can email it. Is that too harsh or not harsh enough?
2006-11-09 02:59:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That sounds fair, stand your ground, I wish more women were as strong as you
2006-11-09 03:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds right to me, just harsh enough. You are doing the right thing. Good Luck
2006-11-09 04:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being perfectly right. He does not have to be coming around your house. he can do what ever he wish to, with whom ever he wants. Just leave you out of it. Let you live your own life. You are not being harsh. You need to move on. I hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-09 03:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like that you acted just fine to me he should be lucky that you are even letting him visit with the children and yeah you are right no contact just drop the kids at his folks or yours . you know they always think the grass is greener with the village sl-- but then they find out it aint. good luck to ya girl and god bless you and happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-09 03:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows he was wrong....but the fact that he still 'hangs out' with the hoochie doesn't speak well for him or his judgement. You are so right to do what you are doing. You are wonderful and strong and he doesn't deserve to talk to you!
2006-11-09 03:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing! He is still chummy with the village slut, so what does that tell you?
2006-11-09 03:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fact you are even allowing him to still breathe is good enough for him!
If it were me this happened to, I'd be looking for a place to hide the body!
2006-11-09 03:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is the village slut then what does that make him. It always take two to TANGO.
2006-11-09 03:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would be harsher. He didnt just leave you, but he also destroyed a family. It was his family.
2006-11-09 03:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by CASSIE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fair to me...
2006-11-09 03:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋