Marriage & Divorce - 9 November 2006

I think my gilrfriend is unfaithful and i keep trying to end the relationship so she can move on, but she won't end the relationship, what do you think this mean ?

p.s. ladies i could really use your advice.

2006-11-09 18:14:42 · 22 answers · asked by ausaramenra2000 2

Hi,
I have a crush on my school buddy. We had crush on eachother when we were in school, but we didnt spoke a single word at that time. 3 days back we met online and now only sending some formal emails. I still have a crush on her. But she is married recently. what should i do..should i tell her or no....has anybody gone through such scenario..Plz answer..need serious advice..

2006-11-09 18:14:16 · 19 answers · asked by knoppix4u 1

2006-11-09 18:12:50 · 26 answers · asked by 👑 Veteran Gentlemen Big Wiggly 7

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2006-11-09 18:06:27 · 31 answers · asked by monikp5836 1

2006-11-09 17:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by Viola Shumski 3

I have been married for 26 years. We married young, right out of high school. During our marriage my husband left 3 times and threatend to leave at least 4 times.

During the good times, he is loving, attentive and my family really likes him. The first two times he left was in the first 7 years of our marriage. Each time he left he called about 2-4 weeks later and begged to come home. The first time I took him back no questions, I really loved and missed him. The second time I made him live in a seperate house for six months and we dated. Things worked out and we went for about 17 years without him actually leaving, however, he did threaten to leave.

He has now left again and said it was because he doesn't want that much responsibility. He wants to spend money when he wants and on what he wants without having to talk it over with me. The problem is he spend far too much money and we were quickly heading to bankruptcy.

He wanted to come home, I said No. Mistake?

2006-11-09 17:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by smilealot 1

2006-11-09 17:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Raj 1

I come from a country where arranged marriages are the norm. And when I emigrated to America, I was so excited to get away from that—to marry someone because of love! But now I don't know. I look around and see everyone here getting divorced, or having a lot of relationship troubles—much more than I ever saw in my home country.

I still want to choose the person I want to marry, and I have met him on http://bbwcentury.com/best but I'm wondering: Do you think there's something we can learn from arranged marriages about how to stay together?

2006-11-09 17:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an interesting relationship with my ex. Since I moved out of the state, when I go to visit my kids, I stay in the house with them
(sometimes while the ex is still there, but of course different bedrooms). Now I pay a lot for child support and I split expenses on the house with my ex, so that when it is sold I can get half back. In addtion, since I prepare meals from the kitchen, sometimes i willl buy my ex take out food. My ex tells me that this is in exchange for "housing". Does anyone else have this relationship with their ex or am I justbeing a "nice guy"?
(I'll also do chores)

2006-11-09 17:41:24 · 15 answers · asked by pedidoc43 3

2006-11-09 17:38:16 · 15 answers · asked by dicky 1

i just started seeing this guy about a month ago.so far,at first,things were really great.but now,i've been worried like crazy that he's going to leave me.
when we're together,he's really good to me.he treats me with decency and respect.and he shows me a lot of attention and affection.but my problem is,i feel like he doesn't really care sometimes.he has issues of his own that he struggles with.and he has a problem with anger and hostility.
he doesn't take his anger out on me.he just makes comments about other people,that aren't very nice at times.he has gotten kind of snippy with me,though.he explained to me,that he's not trying to hurt me.it's just he gets in these moods where,he's projecting things from his past,onto present day occurrences.the pain of his past,still hurts him to the point,where he gets angry and frustrated.and i wish he weren't so angry,i wish i could help him,to feel better.but what can i do?even though he says he loves me,he still has this hurt inside him.

2006-11-09 17:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Miss yavatar girl 4

I can be on the computer, shopping or at work and be happyit seems but when my husband is involved he is always controlling and brings me down. What should I do?

2006-11-09 17:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by sis 2

2006-11-09 17:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3

Just a few days ago my husband announced to me that he wants a divorce. Now the past few days I've been in and out of feeling really hurt and upset to the point where I feel sick to my stomach, and feeling like I'm ok. Is this normal?

2006-11-09 17:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by shenab99 1

I am getting divorced but still date my husband to see if we can mend things or to comfort one another. I am sure this has happend, but yet it seems very out of the norm.

2006-11-09 17:23:36 · 4 answers · asked by galbee 3

2006-11-09 17:20:39 · 20 answers · asked by bobby.k 1

We love each other dearly and he promised me the world. We have been together for a long time. We've discussed marriage, children, our futures together. I knew I would spend the rest of my life with him. Nowadays, it seems like all we do is fight. It drives me crazy because I know that fighting can wear a relationship down and I don't want that. I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I'm afraid this fighting will take it's toll before I can attempt to fix it. Love doesn't hold a relationship together and I know that. How can I cease the fighting. I love him and I'd be lost without him.

2006-11-09 17:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by BamaBelle 2

I used to have this friend, we were really close but she always had this thing for my boyfriend. Eventually she started becoming distant with me, and stopped talking to me. I really didn't mind, until she started calling my boyfriend all the time asking him to hang out with HER and HER friends. He told her no, and brished her off... Her and I got into a few arguments, and to make a long story shortish.. we hate each other now. But she is still emailing and calling my BF. Do i tell him he should tell her to leave him alone? or is that being to controlling?

2006-11-09 17:05:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lex 2

I met this guy through a mutual friend a few weeks before he got married. There was an instant connection, but he got married anyway. We began hanging out through a mutual friend and then started seeing each other without others around. Now he spends the majority of his time with me when he's not at work or with his kids (who are not by his wife). We have a connection that is magnetic and I have never felt like this for anyone else. I know it's morally and ethically wrong, but I think I'm in love (the feeling is mutual). Any advice/help?

2006-11-09 16:57:53 · 34 answers · asked by jae 2

One of my best friends just told me that she is falling for another guy but she's married! She asked me for advice but I don't know what to tell her cause I'm not married. She says she's falling for a guy that she's talked to over the computer since she was little. I don't know what to tell her. Help!

2006-11-09 16:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by *~ riddles ~* 3

I questioned several weeks by asking shall I still keep on the relationship with a guy who is so far away from me and still on the way to get divorced, though I know the answer from the bottom of my heart. And now, seems I'm getting better day by day, trying focusing on my own things, not waiting for his call, not contacting him by my side, I'm just taking a break, from being suffocated. But I'm not saying that I'm 100% ok with that, since i'm still thinking if it's necessary to go his place to have a talk face by face.

Acutally we never decided anything yet but only to hold on after he solved his issues, neither plan in the future nor stop right now. And where he lives is a place having 12 hours time's difference from mine, I've totally no idea about what actually it is.Even the result is horrible, and the reallity would hurt me more than I can imagine.

I just need some advice more objective

2006-11-09 16:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by jennyleeyang530 1

when i feel like getting high, commiting adultry, or computer porn?

2006-11-09 16:37:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife is going to a party that started around 6PM or so, said that she did not know when she would be back home, she told that she thinks that she will be out all night. Do I have a right to be mad, or am I overacting.

2006-11-09 16:25:48 · 31 answers · asked by cooltallguy2003 1

2006-11-09 16:24:53 · 16 answers · asked by partknit 2

2006-11-09 16:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by jen 2

Tonight, my husband told me that he had been in a relationship with another woman in town and she told him she was pregnant and she broke things off and told him he was going to have to pay child support. Well, he called her up to talk about things and it turns out she made the whole thing up to get back at him because he never told her he was married. I can't believe she would be so mean to him. It's not his fault because she never asked. I'm so upset with her right now for stressing out my husband and it really made him hurt when she called off the relationship. He has been so anxious and somewhat depressed this past week and I didn't know why and its because this lady lied. What can I do to show my husband I love him and get his mind off this whole mess with that girl?

2006-11-09 16:14:45 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't help her w/the kids today. But, yesterday and the day before I tried to help. I would get up the middle of night or early morning to tend to our 6 month old. But she would just come grab her and tell me that it was OK. This happened since Tuesday. Bare in mind, I was a litle sick and so was the baby. So today I held her a while and put her down when she began to cry.Now she's upset saying I need to help her more. I was like what?? What can I say or do w/out getting into a huge argument.

2006-11-09 16:06:20 · 20 answers · asked by oaparicio2003 3

Weve always been a 2 income household basically he's never had to be the "SOLE" provider. Last week he decieded he'd quit his job because he "didnt want to deal with the crap at work and I make enough money" without discussing it with me. I wrk from 7am to 7pm I am ALWAYS tired, there is as much "crap" at my job as anyother. I wouldnt mind holding things down for a while but he isnt helping me, while on maternity leave my job was the house&baby, I cooked, cleaned made sure he had dinner. For the last week I come home at 7am and the house is a wreck, the baby is still in the crib (poop diaper) the dog hasnt been let out. I spend an hr getting the house in order. By 9 I try to sleep, he decides to work on the car, run to home depot or play video games and he leaves the baby with me - He claims if I was that tired Id be able to sleep thru the cries, what can I say to him to make him help me w/o nagging am I being unfair? I just want him to keep the baby busy for the 6hrs I sleep...

2006-11-09 16:05:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-09 16:02:41 · 13 answers · asked by partknit 2

Don't want to look like I'm begging.
It's been 5 1/2 months and it was she that broke our relationship.
I know that with this time away from each other, we both had some time to reflect.

What's worked for you people in getting back with your ex?

2006-11-09 15:57:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous