I think my gilrfriend is unfaithful and i keep trying to end the relationship so she can move on, but she won't end the relationship, what do you think this mean ?
p.s. ladies i could really use your advice.
2006-11-09 18:14:42 · 22 answers · asked by ausaramenra2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi sorry about your girlfriend if she realy is cheating confront her tell her you know about the other boyfriend ! tell her how she hurt you and then say you think it would be best if we split. if she calls you after this don't pick up it . if she comes to your house don't answer the door . she is unfaithful even if she says she will break up with him i know its hard to hear but she is most likely lieing to you she does not love you if she did she would not have cheated you deserve better . i'm very sorry about what she did to you . if you are good guy you will find some one who loves you and would never cheat on you ! Hope every thing works out ! God Bless!
2006-11-09 18:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Heather F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, she won't end the relationship? You don't have to ask her permission. Tell her it's over. If you feel she's not getting the message, write her a letter and give it to her. Don't answer her calls. If she comes up to talk to you, hold up your hand and say "Enough. it's over".
Are you living together? If it's your place and she won't move out, you may have to pack up her stuff while she's out of the house, change the locks and leave her bags on the porch. If it's her place, what are you waiting for, get gone.
Are you being too kind? You need to come straight out and tell her. don't say things like "I like you very much but I need my space" or anything else you think will let her down gently. You need to tell her in no uncertain terms, that you are not in love with her anymore. It's called being cruel to be kind.
2006-11-09 18:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It only takes 1 to end a relationship. You need to make it CLEAR to her that the two of you are OVER. You may need t say it to her face. You may need to change you cell#. DO whatever it takes to get rid of herand move on. If she is "not ending" the relationship you have probably not made it clear or have sent mixed signals.
I am a female, sometimes we cling to a guy if we think there is the smallest possibility that it will pan out.... tell this girl that you are moving on w/o her.
2006-11-09 19:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by anon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a tough one it seems like you aren't telling us something
if you want out get out leave it's just that easy. You must be honest with her tell her its over and you need to see other people
if you are sure she is being unfaithful confront it head on and tell her that is just one of the reasons that you want to end the relationship.
2006-11-09 18:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gut is telling u that she's cheating, she probably is. Assuming you don't live together, if you stop seeing, talking to her and break all communication with her, then she'll get the hint. Be blunt, tell her you want to break up with her, not because of what she's doing, but because it's what YOU want.
You sound like a really great guy. There are plenty of other women who would love to have you.
2006-11-09 18:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that you aren't trying hard enough. Do you really want ot end the relationship? If so, tell her that and don't take her calls, respond to e-mails or see her. After awhile she will get the message and move on.
2006-11-09 18:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried saying to her "I would rather not talk to you or see you, the relationship is finished".
Have you tried hanging up when she rings, not answering her messages, and shutting the door in her face.
Your message to her is obviously as ambiguous as your question here.
If you want her to convince you that she wasn't
"unfaithful" so you can continue the relationship then go for it.
If you want her to convince you that she prefers you to the other person so you can continue the relationship then that is you decision.
But if you really want to end the relationship then you end it, not wait for her to make the decision and take the actions.
2006-11-09 18:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a lady. And I know these kind of problems between two lovers. The best solution is to try to talk about YOU TWO. The good and the bad moments. And try to find out if it is worth to go on. Talk about love, trust and commitment. The best solution is communication. After this talk, maybe you would like to go on, maybe not. But at least, make it clear all. This way, you two can learn from mistakes and be happy in the future.Good luck!
2006-11-09 18:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by ota marmota 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't listen to those who say follow your gut cause it could just be insecurity, lack commitment, trapped, tiered same thing, into someone else your trying to separate from her for ...are u sure if you want to leave her because u think shes unfaithful..or cause there must be something in her that keeps you around....does she live with u.... maybe she just doesn't want to move out?
2006-11-09 18:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by JustCurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure she's really being unfaithful? I'm on a relationship wid a guy hu always think of me as unfaithful, but swear, I am no cheater. only that everytime my bf threatens to leave me for his suspicions, I say "go".
we just celebrated our 4th anniversary 4 days ago..
good luck
2006-11-09 18:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by akira 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋