Marriage & Divorce - 9 November 2006

must we choose our partners or allow God to choose for us in obedience to his will which must always supercede ours?

2006-11-09 01:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

I am 22 yr old married female. My husband and I have a wonderful marriage. Here is my question ....... My best friend was my first love and he is in the armed forces and in Japan. When he calls me its usually about 9 or 10 at night my time and my husband an I are usually in bed or watching tv ( nothing sexual or i wouldn't answer the phone).... Am I wrong to answer the phone and have a long conversation with him at this time of night?

2006-11-09 01:57:15 · 8 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4

I have been with my bf for 6 years. We have 2 beautiful children together and lately things have been kind of rough. I love him so so so much but I don't think that I am 'in' love with him. He feels the same way. What should we do? We both never really 'dated' because we were together our senior year in high school and have been together since. We've always been faithful to one another. What should we do?

2006-11-09 01:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by KrisJH24 2

My boss (he ) married to my colleague for 4 years, they have a lovely boy. It seems a nice happy family. In work, I often need to speak to him and e-mail him, as you do in work, my boss & I also go to many different conferences, but my colleague( his wife) works as a different rule, then she is not going to the conferences and after work drinks etc. One day, my boss ( he) made a confession to my colleague (his wife) when he got home after we have been to a after work party. He said to her’ I was flirting with him…’ but I have never even think about to flirt with him, he is not attractive to me in any ways! Then of course, my colleague got very jealous. I can’t understand why did he (my boss) do it???

2006-11-09 01:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2

my husdand has left. but i find myself missing him so much. i knwo he has another woman.My friend say he has a spell on him because she cannot belive he just leave like that. she say he was so in love with me she was jellous of that so what can i do to get him back, do i just wait, visit him at our shop.

2006-11-09 01:47:11 · 13 answers · asked by pauline s 1

I just think that if there were cartoon bubbles during the wedding, the guys bubble would say, "Now, we can have sex all the time!" and the girl's bubble would say, "Thank God, now I don't have to have sex with him all the time." Thoughts?

2006-11-09 01:43:37 · 20 answers · asked by TrainerMan 5

Me and my husband have been married for two years. (No childern) He put his hands on me and say things negative to me all the time. We split up for seven months and just got back together. Now he's going back to his old ways and He hurts my feelings all the time. We were suppose to go to counsling but now he don't want to go. He's tellng people that were getting a divorce when he never said anything to me about it. Should I try to work it out or just let him go?

2006-11-09 01:43:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i am 27 male ,and i am going to get engaged soon , i never had a girl friend,and i never interacted with girls other than in my house , i was like introvert. and before getting married i had imagined certain image of a girl in my mind to get marry , i got may proposals but i did not find a girl near to my imagination , finally i gat one prosition for a girl who was beautiful but not like my as i had in my mind , but all my family liked her very much , and i also admit that i could not have got better girl than her , so after seeing her i first hesitated to say yes but as my family members were very happy with this girl and their family i said yes . i dont know what i was afraid of , may be getting responsibilty or losing my bachelor life , now we are getting engaged next month and we started talking on phone but she too seems introvert like me so and i also feel shy ,we can not talk much unlike my other friend with thier fiancees , will my marriage work ?

2006-11-09 01:39:33 · 26 answers · asked by yahoo .man 1

There are so many things that I dislike about my wife. I'm pretty sure there are many things my wife doesn't like about me. Some of the things could probably be worked out in counseling, others I don't think could be. For instance, I don't find her physically attractive anymore. She's gained some weight. She's not fat, but more overweight then I'd like and certainly heavier than when we met 14 years ago. She doesn't like the things I like to do. I like to be in social situations. She does not. I love her to dress in feminine clothes... skirts, dresses, heels, lingerie, etc, but she doesn't like to. She's bossy. We have a 3 year old son. I think if it weren't for him, I'd probably get out of the marriage. However, son or not, I don't want to be a statistic. So many people I know or am related to got divorced. And especially with our son, I don't want him having to be carted back and forth on weekends. What should I do?

2006-11-09 01:38:50 · 16 answers · asked by talker628 2

your spouce was no loger able to have sex. and you both are in your 30's. no pills, no surgery, nothing would fix it?

2006-11-09 01:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by mongo862001 5

2006-11-09 01:36:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

You fall in love with a man, who takes care of you and your kids that are not his. You want for nothing. Every thing is good. He never brings any thing home that would harm you or the children. He asks you to marry him, you know he's a thug, you know what he's about ..... Do you marry him?

2006-11-09 01:25:31 · 21 answers · asked by Me 4

2006-11-09 01:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

There are 4 couples in our group of friends. We have been friends for 15 years or so. One of the women has been having an affair for 18 months with her nephew (her husband's sister's son). Two of the other couples have known for a while. The 4th couple just found out. They are pushing the cheater to tell her husband or they will do it for her. She has stopped the affair 2 months ago, and is genuinely sorry. The couple has 2 children, and finding out will cause a complete destruction of the whole family. I don't think any of us should tell because of the horrible consequences. I don't even think she should ever tell. I know first hand how much pain and suffereing finding out your spouse cheated on you can cause. You never get over it. I am debating as to whether I should tell my friends to back away and let the cheater deal with the situation as she sees fit. Help!

2006-11-09 01:18:35 · 28 answers · asked by FelixtheCat 3

2006-11-09 01:18:02 · 6 answers · asked by mohammed a 1

When is actually the best time to tell your kids the uncensored truth as to why their parents divorced especially if it was due to adultery and abuse.Or should I just paint a pretty picture of their dad who was actually a beast to me.

2006-11-09 01:05:26 · 56 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

Whenever i am away , my wife just says me two things
1} daughter is not feeling well or 2} there is some big problem.
and she never sends apart from this any sms on my mobile, then i in work forget everything and start worrying about this,

I Just thought to try this on her,
1} i said her am having a back injury, and not feeling well, she said go to the doctor, as i have to take care of myself and both of them .

I Wanted to tell her, we both have to take care of each others,
BUT IS IT RIGHT WHAT SHE IS SAYING.? is it a universal thing .?
IS IT THAT ONLY HUSBAND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHOLE FAMILY"S CARE AND WHAT DOES WIFE do for this?

2006-11-09 01:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY EX AND I BROKE UP IN MAY WE HAD BEEN DATING AND LIVING TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS...WE HAD A BOUGHT A HOUSE, HAD BOUGHT A MOTORCYLE AND GOT A DOG...I THOUGHT WE WERE SET AND GOING TO BE TOGETHER THINGS WENT BAD AND HE ENDED IT I MOVED OUT AND THAN IN AUGUST STARTED DATING SOMEONE ELSE AND IT WAS REALLY GOOD MY EX AND I ARE CIVIL...THAN THINGS GOT SERIOUS WITH MY NEW AND MY EX STARTED COMING AROUND A LOT AND HE SAYS HOW SORRY HE IS AND MISSES ME TERRIBLY. I'M SO CONFUSED MY NEW AND I ARE SCHEDULED TO MOVE INTO OUR OWN PLACE IN 1 WEEK AND MY EX I THINK IS WANTING ME BACK I NEED HELP!!

2006-11-09 00:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sisters husband cheated on her while she was pregnant. she has taken him back. whats the chances of him doing it again?

2006-11-09 00:54:29 · 30 answers · asked by illinois girl 1

2006-11-09 00:43:45 · 14 answers · asked by neutral 2

2006-11-09 00:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by dirkthesmirk 3

my husdand has left. but i find myself missing him so much. i knwo he has another woman.My friend say he has a spell on him because she cannot belive he just leave like that. she say he was so in love with me she was jellous of that so what can i do to get him back, do i just wait, visit him at our shop.

2006-11-09 00:30:58 · 13 answers · asked by pauline s 1

i've heard that most of the cheating happens at work, since that's were you spend most of your day. has this happend to you or have you done it. also if your spouse was doing would you rather not know.

2006-11-09 00:06:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous