your spouce was no loger able to have sex. and you both are in your 30's. no pills, no surgery, nothing would fix it?
2006-11-09 01:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by mongo862001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First I would cry,Then I would go to a good book store in my town and get a book on sexual aids.Then you and your partner might have to consider going to see a therapist concerning you problem.Myself I do not like therapist but,you're going to need some sort of guidance in dealing with this issure.Well I'm assuming that you are in love.If it is a strong and stable love it will get you through this until you can find a solution.I feel badly for you because,My partner and I can still have intercourse but, we do not have it as much any more.I can now say that I am lucky .Your situation is far worse.All I can say is I wish lots of luck.Try to hang in there.
2006-11-09 02:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true that intimacy, especially sexual intimacy, is important to married couples, but your marriage does not have to revolve around that one minor detail. have you tried to get in touch with your wife in another level, trying to explore not only the physical but emotional aspects of your relationship? have you tried going out more, watch a movie, eat out on restaurants, going on unplanned trips for two? maybe it's only stress and pressure that makes your sexual connection nearly impossible right now. you should try to heal emotional/mental wounds if present and start from that. the possibility of things to go back to normal is there, even without pills and surgery and stuff like that. and if you do really love your wife and value her and your marriage, you will do what it takes to save your relationship. goodluck and godbless!
2006-11-09 09:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've pondered this question. When we're in love, we call the act of sex "making love." Is that not what it's really all about? Pleasing one another and showing your spouse that he/she is the most important person in your world, and sharing something together that ONLY the two of you share. Find another way to "make love" with one another.
2006-11-09 10:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by mom of five 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it. It may get tough but if you love that person enough, you'll get thru it. There are other ways of taking care of the sexual part of the relationship. There are male toys as well as female.
2006-11-09 09:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by *Kacie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be understanding, and have the strongest for arm ever from all the new excercise it gets.
Her jaw would be pretty sore too. If you are both creative and understanding there are other ways for a couple that loves one another to please each other.,
2006-11-09 09:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by David W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For better or worse, dude. There are othere sexual ways to take care of each other.... Good luck.
2006-11-09 09:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still stand by him...sex is just a portion of what makes a relationship. If you are creative then there are other ways to please eachother.
2006-11-09 09:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my spouse could no longer have sex is one thing. Its when she chosses to not have sex that is another thing.
2006-11-09 10:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what is the problem with your partner
2006-11-09 09:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋