my husdand has left. but i find myself missing him so much. i knwo he has another woman.My friend say he has a spell on him because she cannot belive he just leave like that. she say he was so in love with me she was jellous of that so what can i do to get him back, do i just wait, visit him at our shop.
2006-11-09 00:30:58 · 13 answers · asked by pauline s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You deserve someone better,of course you miss him,that's normal.Humans have feelings,you will get over it soon.Keep yourself busy so wont think of it,whenever you are free do something like spend more time with your children.Almost forget ask him for maintenance fee.
2006-11-09 03:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by curiousmode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone love you if they don't!!And you don't want to try to cause it will just make you look pathetic and that's never good! If you go chasing after him he will think its OK for him to dog you the way hes doing and that not the kind of life you want to live I mean yeah you miss him but if hes home and treating you badly its gonna be the same as him not being there just having to deal with all of the bad **** along with it! If he loves you he will realize this all on his own and come back to you! The one thing you CAN do is act like it doesn't bother you to him don't let him know you miss him this will drive him crazy go buy yourself some nice new sexy things start a new exercise routine and make yourself feel good once you begin to feel good about yourself then he will def notice because other men will be noticing also have you ever heard of the phrase you don't know what you've got till its gone how about you don't want you have until you don't have it anymore No man wants what is right in front of him they all like a challenge Get your best look on and show this man that hes not the only man who could want you this will drive him crazy he will come running back to you and chances are once you get a taste of other mens attention and whats its like to be treated like a woman should be treated you may decide you don't want this obvious loser anyways good luck to you dear I hope everything works out right for YOUR best interest in the end!!
2006-11-09 00:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by witchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it's probably not healthy for you to keep missing some one like your husband because now that he know s that you know about the other woman doesn't meant that he is going to stop beng a bechelor for you because you have to remember if there was something there left in your marriage he wouldn't have left in the first place it's good in the end to have him gone you just have to take day by day the next thing that you know you are totally over him and you'll the pieces of your life back togehter and you'll realize that you didn't need him to be happy or have a reason to wake up in the morning
good luck
2006-11-09 00:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that's your husband go for what you know. Pick up that self esteem and change your style and your usual way of doing things put on something to make you irresistible the whole nine yards like you got a date with someone else. trot down to the shop like you got it going on and you know it and give him something to smile about and wonder why he left in the first place. Get up and get busy if you want your husband back. You knew what it took to get him now put that idea to work and your on your way to the place you know you belong. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 00:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pauline. Love yourself girl. Let go of him. That tells me that he is happy with this woman. And also tells me that you have a love waiting like no other. You will find that love. Without looking. So embrace yourself. Be proud to be you. There is something great to be found once you do. Yes there is pain. But only if you allow that pain to linger. I know you love him. I also know that you would want him to be happy. Show him you are happy for him.
2006-11-09 00:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want the looser back there a lot of nice guys out there that will treat you like your supposed to be treated get a divorce and get on with your life and dont date for a year to find your self and for sex buy a toy to pleasure your self
2006-11-09 00:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by jim & doreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl...try to be as strong as possible....im going thru the same thing right now as we type.....my bf left last night.....i was the same as you when he left i was ok with it.....but i guess when it sinks in......it really does.....i miss him already....BUT.....i also feel he tries to cheat or he has.....hes changed so much.....especially with this new job....and it only fustrates me....which makes things bad.....cause thats where the anxiety kicks in.....and right now i have to think of my health.......it is so so hard.....but you know what ....time heals all wounds....i am trying to make myself believe that........because i know there is someone out there for everyone......if he loves you ....he'll be back...if he doesnt come back then its not meant to be......dont look for him...not yet anyway...just find lots of things to keep you occupied..so you dont think of him......and i hope to take the same advice
2006-11-09 00:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by mspain719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make somebody stay who doesn't want to be there.
If he has another woman he was cheating and you don't deserve to be treated like that.
Of course you miss him, but he didn't deserve you. You will find somebody else who will treat you right.
2006-11-09 00:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DID YOU TELL HIM TO LEAVE ??? FIRST OF ALL IF YOU REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER YOU WOULD HAVE WORKED IT OUT. HE IS A COWARD AND A LOW LIFE. I THINK YOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL WORK THINGS OUT PEOPLE JUST DON'T TAKE THEIR MARRIAGE VOWS SERIOUSLY ANYMORE THE ONLY ONES THAT SUFFERS IS THE CHILDREN. AND YOUR HUBBY NEEDS TO TELL THE BIMBO SIANA RA
2006-11-09 01:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥ lou lou ♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone stay with you if they don't want to because that will bring more pain and hurt on you.
2006-11-09 00:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by marine_wife001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋