You fall in love with a man, who takes care of you and your kids that are not his. You want for nothing. Every thing is good. He never brings any thing home that would harm you or the children. He asks you to marry him, you know he's a thug, you know what he's about ..... Do you marry him?
2006-11-09 01:25:31 · 21 answers · asked by Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL ..... I am NOT asking for me, I want to blog about this. Women who marry thugs... so Please try to be more creative.
2006-11-09 01:32:16 · update #1
if he is like selling drugs, or anything along those lines. i wouldnt marry him, cause weather or not one day his 'work' will follow him home, and it might not be pretty, would you want your kids to be in potential danger
2006-11-09 01:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't do it! You can fall in love with the same guy that has a bangin job and brings stuff home to you! Makes you dinner! Rubs your feet without asking! And doesnt do what he does! Yea he seems perfect in all the right ways EXCEPT that one way! Is he the type of man to take home to mom! Think about it! Even though your family isnt with him, and your family isnt paying your bills, you still dont wanna bethe black sheep that married a thug! Good luck sunshine!
2006-11-09 09:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by young meat:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The term "Thug"....
In my experience with that manly man who is very territorial...can be giving and caring ...as long as it all goes the way he plans it to .....is a nice guy to those with whom he lives.... Until: they grow up, try to be something other than what he has in visioned for them, speak out with a differing opinion, make a challenge to a decision "He has Made", and the street drama of the whole thug persona spills into the family's living room.
The honeymoon for a thug wife is very short. He will be very possessive and I hope no other man dare to complement her ... she will be in the middle.
Hope that helps ...... it the whole peeing on trees thing!
2006-11-09 09:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. if he can do the right thing by you and your children and not bring all that thug drama in your house or that drama from the streets or whatever kind of work he does involved with you than marry him there's nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-09 09:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by dat chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! A thug is just that... A THUG! My niece fell in love with a thug and it cost her her life! Six months pregnant with his child and they both were shot. He was a dope dealer and gangster.
Hot ones to the head and were her reward for associating with and falling in love with a thug.
Does that sound like the type of situation ANY sane person would want to be in? I think not.
2006-11-09 09:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone here touched on this....if you are writing a blog, thugs is too general...it is an umbrella for many types of illegal activity. I saw your question and it jumped out at me...because I have an "enforcer"......we live in Chicago...the thing is, those women here that actually DO have a man like this, are not going to share information with you here on a public forum, for obvious reasons. Hope this helps.
2006-11-09 10:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of thugs...thieves, murderers,enforcers...if you can be sure that you aren't putting your children in any harms way, or that he won't ever hurt you or your kids or make you guys disappear if he should get really angry with you...then you can decide...you are going to do what you want to anyway.
2006-11-09 09:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not??? Being a thug does not discourage. You have to ask yourself if that person is special to you, Willing to be truthfull to you when married. If you don't like his thugish ways, let him know, he may see that he needs to change for the better and also to save his relationship. You don't want to change him, but let him know that you have concerns on his thugish acts and ways. That will help. Don't be mean
2006-11-09 09:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would want a thug? They live off people and never grow up:)
2006-11-09 18:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring in a thug and expect your kids to become thugs...Is that what you want your kids to see and emulate as they grow up and develop their values?
2006-11-09 09:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got involved with him for a reason. Was it because he is a thug?
2006-11-09 09:28:36 · answer #11 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋