is It Only a Guy , who has to take care of Himself and His Family ?

Question

Whenever i am away , my wife just says me two things
1} daughter is not feeling well or 2} there is some big problem.
and she never sends apart from this any sms on my mobile, then i in work forget everything and start worrying about this,

I Just thought to try this on her,
1} i said her am having a back injury, and not feeling well, she said go to the doctor, as i have to take care of myself and both of them .

I Wanted to tell her, we both have to take care of each others,
BUT IS IT RIGHT WHAT SHE IS SAYING.? is it a universal thing .?
IS IT THAT ONLY HUSBAND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHOLE FAMILY"S CARE AND WHAT DOES WIFE do for this?

Answer 1

50/50 both should be responsible for the family.

Answer 2

No, I don't agree with that at all. My husband and I look after each other. My husband has had surgery before and I am there for him. How could I expect him to look after himself!! That would be cruel and selfish. When I am sick, he looks after me. If he didn't, I would be extremely hurt. As for our son, it is BOTH of our responsibility to take care of him, both financially and emotionally. In this day and age, how can you put the burden on the man to do it all. It isn't 1950 anymore and times change. Unless the husband or wife has a high paying job, then the other spouse does need to work to help out.
Also, we don't call each other just to drop news of things that need to be fixed. That is just unfair. If I am home and something happens, I look after it to the best of my ability and my husband does the same.
I think it is time that you two sat down and had a real heart to heart talk about responsibilities, love & caring.
Best of luck.

Answer 3

No! And your wife needs to curb the text messages and use only for emergencies. Take a stand on that. If you are ill or have an injury. Then by all means go to a Dr. She shoudn't have to tell you that. At the same time she sounds so in need to stand for herself. Make that happen any way you can. But do so with love. Good luck.

Answer 4

it just sound like you and her are complacent about each other,,she has you,you have her and thats all,,what about all that is in between? do you send nice text messages? do you make her feel like a woman? try it,,send one,," i miss you," send something and see what you get back,you may be surprised. if she is at home all the time she has different priorities than you,,she pays the bills,budgets,worries about the kids,sees to school,runs everyone about,,and without you at work all this comes to a sudden halt so yes,,if you get her to believe you cannot support them financially she will worry as the implications will come thick and fast,,maybe it is time for you and her to take some time for yourselves and stop taking each other for granted.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

You and your wife are talking, but not communicating. Let her know in a non-defensive way how you feel.

Answer 7

you and your wife need to go to marrige counseling to work on communication. neither of you is responsible for everything. an ideal marrige is a partnership.

Answer 8

NOT EXACTLY BUT EVEN A GIRL CAN REPEAT THE SAME ACT BUT BOY HAS TO TAKE CARE OF HER ALSO THAT WHY GIRL IS DEBARRED OF HER DUTIES. RESPOSIBILITY IS ON THE BOY HAND ANYWAY U CAN LOOK AT IT.