Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2006

2006-11-06 23:59:37 · 15 answers · asked by Ant O 1

I have always supported my husband except on the occasion when he wanted to open a business with his other woman as a partner.I thought that I was fulfilling my role as wife and best friend,mother ,daughter in law,sister in law(because thay stayed with us for a while)until my husband came home and told me that he does not fel like a husband.This was when he started having his first affair.Ihad always made or thought I made myself available to all his needs and still look good,keep a full time job with two kids and have my in laws live with us for a time.I did not know where I went wrong for my husband tocheat on me with several women and be in long term relationships with them while he gave the impression to my in laws that it was all my fault.
I am fed up of his infedelity and his abuse behavior when Iconfront him.He has said that these women gave him all their attention.Some were married themselves,involved with other men and even single moms.Will people ever really know the truth?

2006-11-06 23:56:33 · 42 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

2006-11-06 23:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by paulnewns1968 1

I will admit that my husband was not the most help around the house before, but since he has been on medical leave for wrist surgery, he has just added to the mess instead of helping clean it. I know that he can't do a whole lot of chores with only one hand, but he could put dirty clothes in the washer, put clean ones in the dryer and dry clothes in a basket, so I can fold them later. And he most certainly could pick up the stuff around the living room. He hasn't done anything since this leave started at the end of Sept. He sleeps late everyday and watches hunting shows on TV all day long. I have been expecting him to watch our daughter 3-4 days out of the week, to save on daycare since he is only bringing in a percent of his normal pay, and all he does is complain about what a brat she was all day. Funny how I dont have that problem with her on my days off and neither does her sitter. He just seems to want to treat this as a vacation and do nothing. How do I get him to at least help?

2006-11-06 23:47:28 · 18 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5

you had loved the person for a very long time (more than a decade) and after a lot of years and waiting, they finally married you and then didn't move in? Happened to me. After 6 months of being married, they refused to move in and so I said I wanted a divorce. After that, they have tried to reconcile, but I feel like it's been too much and too wierd for too long. What do you think?

2006-11-06 23:46:58 · 21 answers · asked by Cycleogical 2

She sat me down and told me that her decisions about her job were confusing her, that she had thought what it would be like to be with other people. We live apart (she lives about 50 miles away due to her job and we have been together on/off for 8 years, it is an extension of a teenage romance) and there is a new male flatmate I am pretty sure has taken her interest. However she then told me that she loves me, she likes the thought of me being the father to her children and that she loves me too much, saying that if I cheated on her she would probably take me back (I replied to this by saying that I would not put her in that position - this is the truth as I love her so much and constantly think about her being the mother to my children). She then came up to mine at the weekend and we had a really nice time, going out with my friends and hanging out, sex was good but lacked a little intimacy. However when I talk to her on the phone she is very guarded but then says I love u at the end?

2006-11-06 23:46:28 · 4 answers · asked by orangutan1001 1

anyone out there tell me if this is a low act i just in the last few weeks got divorce as the woman i call her that because to call her a lady would be totally wrong but anyhow we got married 5 years ago because i thought we was both in love well one of us was anyhow and maybe one have a child of our own but after all this time i found out 10 months through a friend of hers that she could not have children that she had the female op many years earlier but no way she buys the female items no honey you need to know cannot have kids & she only married you for the money you came across from australia with my Q is should i be angry or what for living out her lie for the 5 yrs of being with her or just put it down to yet another kick in the GUT
WOMBAT

2006-11-06 23:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by wombat4412 2

In answering a question regarding erectile disfunction and continued sexual interest, one woman responded, "I mean... I'm 33 and I'm tired of it already. I pray for the day when my husband no longer gets horny." Is this a common feeling? How do you feel about it? My wife and I weren't even married until we were 30. We have adapted to my situation, but neither of us has given up our interest. I'm merely curious about this woman's response. What do you think?

2006-11-06 23:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by brenbon1 4

Do you think that it is possible for two people to be married without one not loving or even liking the other ?
Is it possible to be tolerant and live under the same roof ? Does that make for a good marriage ?
I mean marriage is just two people spending their lives together, havin kids, and solvin issues right ? wha does love have to do with any of that ?
Thanks.

2006-11-06 23:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Ice B 1

I recently just found out that my wife has been cheating on me. This is the second time in one year, the first time when I caught her I forgive her everthing and re-build my trust. Then suddently I found out again that she cheat on me. I really don't know what to do. I really want to find the out. can somebody out there please help me i am alone and don't know where to talk to please i really need the answer as soon as possible. These days my life is not thing different from living in hell

2006-11-06 23:25:07 · 38 answers · asked by find way out 1

2006-11-06 23:20:22 · 20 answers · asked by yoyodda 3

My spouse told his ex (who cannot stand him) about a recent argument we had and all the details. His justification is b/c of their daughter (he could not get the child during our disagreement). I think this is totally wring, but he disagrees w/ me.

2006-11-06 23:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by me2 1

2006-11-06 23:03:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in the Mississauga/Oakville area of Ontario, Canada. Can anyone suggest a really good marriage counsellor? Needed ASAP.
Thanks.......

2006-11-06 23:01:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been split up for 6 months.my ex wife to be is from peru,she has been here for 3 years and as soon as she got her residents visa she was off.
ok i know i was a fool bbut thats life.
i see my son wednesday nights and all day sunday.
the problem is my ex has never had any engkish friends and she only talks to the baby in spanish.
whenever i take him anywhere he doesnt understand anyone.
im frightened that when he starts school he wont have a clue and because of this he will be mocked and picked on.
has anyone got any ideas

2006-11-06 22:59:12 · 27 answers · asked by bcfcylau 1

My husband is addicted to porn. I won't allow it in our house. I am a christian and don't believe in it. So he goes to the porn booth to veiw it. About ever 6 months or so he has sex with a hooker ( a different one each time). He doesn't tell me until 2 or 3 months after. We have a 9 month old daughter together. I love him, but have a hard time trusting him. Where do I start? Is it possible? I am dedicated to making our marriage work but how?

2006-11-06 22:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 22:55:53 · 10 answers · asked by neeti 1

Husbands are you older than your wives? If so how younger are your wives than you? Wives are you older than your husbands? If so, how older are you than your husbands?

2006-11-06 22:55:28 · 22 answers · asked by bluemiano 2

I mean like is it that one ex boyfriend that all the others men u have dated have not compared to him and now do u realize how special that person was to u and i know u date a lot of men in your life but is it just one man that u still think about even if u are in a new relationship. Any body have any experience with this matter please let me know about it.

2006-11-06 22:52:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 26 and I have four children (ages 5, 4, 2 and 4 months old).

I have a problem. Since my last pregnancy, I just don`t feel like sleeping with my hubby anymore. Not that I`m afraid of getting pregnant. It just I can`t do that... anymore.... I think.

This is making our marriage life sour and it almost breaks our relationship.

Has anybody here ever feel like me?

Pls don`t tell me that I have phsycological problem. And I am not gay either (in case anybody think that way).

Thank You.

2006-11-06 22:50:16 · 12 answers · asked by Aisya`80 1

Me and my girlfriend had broken up but she still keeps family pictures of me and her and her son which isnt my child but i had took care of him like he was mind. What does this mean because i thought when u broke up with someone u throw away all the pictures u have of that person.

2006-11-06 22:48:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, what is you and your spouse/partner's ethnic backgrounds? And how long have you been together?

2006-11-06 22:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5

Cheating husbands do you feel guilty or regret cheating on your wife even though you never did anything to rebuild your marriage?Were purposefully horrible to your wife so that she will distant herself so you will have an excuse and threatened to move out if she did not accept your behavior knowing that she still loves you?Did you ever regret your behavior knowing now that the grass is not always greener?

2006-11-06 22:41:34 · 25 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

2006-11-06 22:34:13 · 19 answers · asked by neutral 2

My husband use to tell everyone that I was the best thing that happened to him.Now he is telling me he is sick of me.When I called to ask him if he can pick me up from work because the weather was really bad I had woken him up.Thing is he was not asleep at home.I know he spent all afternoon with his other woman because he was still in his work uniform 7 hours after he finished work.She lives in town.If he was coming from home he would have taken 30-40 minutes.It took him10.Now he is smoke screening his adultery by being nasty because I did not put away laundry done before I went to work.This isn't the first time he's cheated but about the 5th and I am fed up with it but where do I go when I've got no family and friends just do not want to get involved?I am 24wks pregnant

2006-11-06 22:32:36 · 18 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

I'm the Director and sole heir to a multi-million dollar family business in Malaysia while my boyfriend is an employee of a multi-national company in Singapore with an income of US$ 35,000 a year. He asked me to marry him but I'd have to move to Singapore because he refused to come and live in Malaysia. I am allowed to go to Malaysia to take care of my business 7 days per month, yet I know that the company won't survive without constant supervision. I love him but I also do not want to disappoint my parents by leaving the family business. Do you think I should get married to this guy? What would you do if you are in this kind of situation?

2006-11-06 22:28:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

but, of course i cant and that is my age. I am 29 and he is like 55 i think. I know i act alot younger of course than he does and all that, and he says my age doesnt bother him whatsoever but it has too right? I mean I don't want him to marry me and regreat it later in life that i dont i know have the mature level he does now in life. Plus the fact im ADD/Bipolar so what do you think about this?

2006-11-06 22:22:35 · 7 answers · asked by sammy 6

i lov a girl since last 5 years she also loves me but our marriage is never possible due to her parents now she doesnt talk to me.she is worried that i will commit suicide because i had told her if she can't marry me i will end my life.these days i m so much tensed that i started drinking wine and may be i will commit suicide plz help me.

2006-11-06 22:05:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

we got married and she flipped out we broke up a month later now i want to get it anulled what should i do ?

2006-11-06 21:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Wonderingplz 3

OK here goes, If f you have read my profile you have a little idea of my life. My wonderful wife and I have been together for 17 years and married for 16. She left me two weeks ago to keep her and our children safe. The problem comes in with my attitude. I was down right nasty to them, for a long time. This is not the first time we have seperated for this, the difference this time is I knew it was happening and didn't know what to do. I was so depressed this time, I told her so. For so long I have unknowingly viewed my family as an inconvenience. I worked from the time I got out of bed till I went to bed. If I wasn't actually working I would just plan my workfor tomorrow. Now, we have dinners out and I am taking care of them financially which I do enjoy. The time together is great but saying goodbye each time is hard. How do I show her how much that I love her. I want to win back her love, I know it is there but how do I find it? I am getting couselling that I need and will continue.

2006-11-06 21:57:42 · 13 answers · asked by spbeirman 1