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Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2006

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What would you prefer in a spouse? a good father or a good husband?

2006-11-06 04:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

I'm still in love with my wife and want to know if she is seeing someone else. We never really agreed that we would see other people, but I guess separating says we can. I am driving myself crazy not knowing what she is doing....so I feel it would be better if I knew - not that I would like the answer, but that would know what is happening. It becomes complicated because my kids (who are living with her) are always saying something about her staying out late and always gone on Friday nights, etc. I wish I didn't care. Can anyone tell me what to do?

2006-11-06 04:35:03 · 23 answers · asked by dhansen815 1

after you get married waht would u want to live like?? who would u want to marry?? how many kids??? waht kind of house?? just trying to get ideas! thanks

2006-11-06 04:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by Lindsey T 2

She just doesn't look like what she used to and I can't bare the sight of what has become of her, this has driven me to cheat on her and I feel bad about it, but what can I do, she's not what she was.

2006-11-06 04:30:12 · 51 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

is this a japanease ritual or something?

2006-11-06 04:19:09 · 12 answers · asked by loupach@sbcglobal.net 2

I am 33 and my female cousin is 40. Both of us are married and she has two kids. She is beautiful with bold features. She was abroad for 4 years and has come back to stay in the home town permenently? Her husband has come back and is likely to go abroad after a break. At first when she was alone and her husband was abroad she visited our house and I accompanied her to her house which was in the neighbourhood as it was twilight. It was only a distance of 100 metres but when we came to a lonely place she walked very close to me her hand touching mine. She said "What is there for us if our husbands are not with us" I didn't reply but accompanies silently? I already had a fascination for her and badly want to make love and enjoy sex with her if possible? Can I take this as a positive step from her to get closer? Shall I disclose to her that I wanted to have sex with her?
What will be her reaction? I suspect that she wanted to enjoy it? I dont want anybody to know on our relationship,

2006-11-06 04:19:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a good person & Treats you good.

BUT does things that annoy the HELL OUT YOU let nail bitting, picking at their toes, and very clumsy. Would you stay or I'm I taking it too far????

2006-11-06 04:17:28 · 25 answers · asked by john doe 1

The issues are between my ex husband and me, not with our children. Although they are of age that they are considered adults, it has never been my intention to make them choose between us. There is enough crap in our family that sugar coating it is impossible. He is how he is. He will always be their father. But the lies that he continues to tell them is putting them in a position that they must choose him or me. I have never and would never put conditions on my love for eithr one of the girls. They are perfectly aware of the person their father is and they are desperately trying to continue a relationship with us both. He, however, is threatening to end all ties if they continue a relationship with me. What kind of parent puts conditions like that on their children, no matter what age they are?

2006-11-06 04:12:43 · 10 answers · asked by rivergirl 1

When I was younger I always went after the guys that weren't right for me. The realtionships were intense and passionate and also unhealthy and troublesome. But in the bedroom, they were amazing. I grew up and realized what I wanted in a man and then found him. He is my best friend and extremely kind and loyal. We have been together 7 years. If we work at it can we keep the passion in our relationship indefinitely? If you have a similiar experience please share your opinion/story.

2006-11-06 04:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by Angela 2

2006-11-06 04:02:43 · 18 answers · asked by siprazin 1

I have been divorced for 2 years now....I have been on a divorced board for some time and have been chatting with a man who will be divorced at the end of the month.....we are friends and would like to meet after his divorce, only problem is that I am so far along then he is and could possibly be attracted and fall for this man....and since he is going to be newly divorce is not ready for any kind of relationship at this time....my question is, what do I do, do I meet with him as a friend and keep any feelings that I might have or get for him to myself in the future? Has anyone who has been divorced ever entered into another relationship soon after? should I just meet with him as a friend see how things go...if I find that I like what I see just continue being his friend until he is ready for a relationship in the future? and how long could it take to enter into another relationship? thanks for the replies

2006-11-06 04:00:54 · 8 answers · asked by M m 1

This is sort of a an interesting situation. My ex-husband and his new wife are thinking about moving to Ireland and they want to know if I will let the kids visit them out there. I am a little concerned about them not letting the kids return, but the kids are 12 and 9 so I think it would be okay. My biggest concern is child support and health insurance. I had child support issues in the past. He spent a couple of nights in jail and has has been better since, but in Ireland it will be harder to regulate and make him pay if he doesn't want to. Also, Ireland apparently has public health care so he would have to get individual coverage for the kids (since I don't have group) which is not as good of coverage and there is also the issue of me having a harder time enforcing the divorce decree with him out of the country. What would you do? Does anybody know anything about Ireland as it pertaints to this situation?

2006-11-06 04:00:08 · 8 answers · asked by MJL613 3

He has been leaving in California for the past 2 years but coming to visit here in Florida every weekend. He does care for me and our family, but this separation has put a wedge in our relationship. I'm not sure if I would or wouldn't cheat on him again. I do not feel the same for him as I did before, but I still want to be with him. I wonder if this is the way a relaintionship should feel like after 5 years.

2006-11-06 03:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by Mesa 2

2006-11-06 03:51:45 · 15 answers · asked by afghan angel 2

I have been married to this guy for 5 years. We have 3 kids under 5yrs. He has all control over the finances. I do work but when I get paid he makes sure it all goes to the bills. I do have a car it's in both our names. He is abusive emotionally, verbaly, and a few times physically. I do not want to go to my family's home for help. He will find me. Shelters i have contacted want a police report. What do you tell a cop ya he told me this and that. I have no marks on me. It would just seem pointless. I live in utah and am willing to relocate. I do have a job which may let me work from home for a while. i'm not too sure about that. Does any one know of any resourse or places that I may be able to stay till I can get on my feet? Or maybe able to help me money wise to get on my feet???? Or any suggestions on what I should do...Please help..

2006-11-06 03:49:44 · 24 answers · asked by grrr... 1

My husband works for Gator Land , It burned this morning . It has been here for 57 years . A Florida Landmark tourist attraction . I 've been out of work for 3 yrs , due to back injury and this is our only income . We are hoping they will rebuild
but nothing is official yet . Your YA friend , Debb Thanks !

2006-11-06 03:49:17 · 28 answers · asked by Geedebb 6

I have been married for 2 years now, and my husband is the biggest party animal, so he is always around his friends and drinking and does not have a care in the world what goes around him, life is only about him. He is 31 years now. Before I hung out with him and stayed home and partied as well, but now I feel like I wasting my life away. Now it is different, I do my things and he does his…I think it is better that way. Whenever I go to a family dinner or anything, he never comes with me, and I see all these married couples doing things together, going places together – I guess I am little envious and jealous at the same time. I think I just spoiled him too much by not making a fuss about it before. I am much more of a family person – I love being with my family and his and doing things with them, traveling, doing things outside of the home. We don’t have any children, I don’t know if I really want to with him.

2006-11-06 03:40:54 · 17 answers · asked by Yasmin76 1

Sorry for being so vague! Our girls are in their early twenties. My ex husband put or kids in the middle by making them choose between us. I caught him cheating with is second ex wife (i was his third). He is an alcoholic and was convicted of domestic abuse against me. He was also diagnosed as Bi-Polar. He quit taking his meds when he came off of prbation. He is a consumate liar and his children have been pulled into all of his drama by him. I continue to protect them from issues that do not concern them. He, however, turns all situations to make him the victim. My youngest, 25, has always tried to maintain a relationship with me against her fathers wishes. Now, after several years of his verbal attacks, she is making a turn away. He has told her things that are completely untrue. When she asks me I have tried to skirt the conversation in another direction because these are issue that have nothing to do with her or her sister.

2006-11-06 03:33:43 · 11 answers · asked by rivergirl 1

My husband (not his father) says my 13 year olds mouthiness is the reason he wants a divorce. I agree that the boy is mouthy. I flick him in his lips when he's mouthy. He is 13! He is not vulgar or disrespectful, just argumentative sometimes. I told my husband to punish him for talking back, but he won't. Now he wants a divorce because he can't stand my son.

2006-11-06 03:31:09 · 51 answers · asked by Fiery75 1

Just curious what YOUR description would entail. I'm not looking to get married again. But, would like to know what my YA peeps have to say on the subject.

2006-11-06 03:30:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone know how the court comes up with who payes the cost of the trasportation?

2006-11-06 03:24:28 · 9 answers · asked by scooby_beth2002 1

Yesterday morning I went out and came home a couple hours later at 11 am. Anyway, my wife is in a tizzy and all upset at me. The weird thing was that when I asked her, "Whats bothering you last night you went to bed in a good mood, what changed?". She just beat around the bush but couldn't articulate it i.e. "such and such is why I am upset". She couldn't zero in on what it was until the evening.

2006-11-06 03:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your opinion on telling your children the truth about their father or letting him continue to make his relationship with them conditional? I am torn.

2006-11-06 03:16:40 · 16 answers · asked by rivergirl 1

2006-11-06 03:14:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

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