Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2006

My problem is this that I was proposed by a collegue some time back and he did not belong to my region. I have noticed his nature and found that quite good and arranged a meeting with my brothers and parents. Now this happened almost 1 1/2 month ago and now I am almost under pressure to take decision on my marriage issue. There are 2 more proposal from my region and caste but since I have observed my collegue's nature very closely I feel he understand me and we'll have very few problems. Now family is not agreeing to this collegue's proposal and want me to agree to any other person's proposal from our side. I do not want to take any step without my family agreeing and supporting me on my decision. So there is a clash of point of views. What should I do so that no one is hurt. I am almost crushed under this burdon. If any one can help, help immediately. bye

2006-11-06 18:15:28 · 14 answers · asked by kiran t 1

Here is the deal. I'm 21 years old, I got in a relationship in nov. of 2005, its now nov. of 2006. we fell in love really fast and she moved in with me 2 months after we began the relationship. In april which was 6 months later, I proposed to her in hawaii. I really do lover her, but my past keeps coming up in my mind. Before i met her i was always partying having many relations with women and always loving it. I was always the hit of my high school and university, being the party boy and the guy that got all of the women. I constantly question myself whether i should go through with this or not. we have alreay booked the hall, church, dj, and pre-paid the dress. My family loves her, her family loves me. I am very confused. I just question myself whether i want to party more, or if i should go through. I really need some advice. It's not like I can ask my parents. Thank you

2006-11-06 18:11:40 · 20 answers · asked by buddha 1

my mother in law hates me...i dont know why...but i guess i have not lived upto her STANDARDS..ot whatever...
finally me and my hausband after 4 years are moving into my own house...only 10 days are left for that...but she is not tlaking to me and giving me a lot of attitude...i wanna leave and goto my oms and stay there till my new house is ready to live in..
u think it is the right decision..
my father in law will do whatever my mother in law says....i have no support sys there...sometimes not even my husband..
please help

2006-11-06 17:59:55 · 15 answers · asked by happinezz 2

The last time my ex came to visit our 3 1/2-year-old son, he showed up with a girlfriend (I think) who he didn't introduce me to, didn't give me an itinerary, and withheld the girlfriend's cell phone number, the only phone number they had for the day. I let him take my son, not fully realizing the situation beforehand, but now I would like to prevent him taking my son without giving me a phone number. Anyone know legal requirements for visitation in California?

2006-11-06 17:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by joyfish 2

he has a daughter each from two marriages. he is paying a maintenance fee for 4 years. with his monthly salary, after forking out to his car loan, insurance, rd tax, petrol, maintenance fee to ex wife etc etc, he left none for himself and for his family.

2006-11-06 17:45:27 · 9 answers · asked by tomorrow will be better 1

i fell in love from last 5 months.........this is my first love........i dont know how to mainyain it or make it more strong..........

2006-11-06 17:43:55 · 10 answers · asked by Ashok kumar g 1

We broke after about 12 years. Lived toghther for 7years. We started talking again. went out couple of times. I told it was hard for me to see her.We have a good time but I dont like when its time to go. told her that I m not sure if I can see her any more. She asked if I would please try.

2006-11-06 17:39:53 · 6 answers · asked by kd 2

if he stay in orlando florida how to get get his number to call him

2006-11-06 17:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by danielle j 1

I was married several years ago by a Justice of the Peace, but the marriage lasted just under a year, at which time my spouse filed for divorce. At the time of marriage, my boyfriend and I were young and in love and entered into the union with intentions of getting married in a church later. However, the main reason we got married at the time was to take advantage of our work benefits (did I mention that I was young AND stupid?) Both my former spouse and I are confirmed Catholics.

Because we weren't married in the church, does our civil union still require us to obtain an annulment before marrying others in the eyes of the Catholic Church? I'd eventually like to get married in the Catholic Church.

Thanks in advance!

2006-11-06 17:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by lmcca22 2

it is pure arrange marriege , but she is only doughter of her family and her parents will be alone after her marriege , i do understand her problem and try to make her understand that this is everyone has to do one day , but she is becomming more and more introvert and sad as our mariege day is comming near. i feel that she dont have now any craze for our marriege . it was not always like that . when our marriege was fixed it was good 5 month and we both were very happy and she use to talk everyday 4-5 houyr with me but now its only one month remainning of our w-day so she is now very disturbed and feel very sad about thinking of her parents and thinking of how they wil manage the things after marriege and at the same time she also think of her self. i know this is only problem of one month after marriege i will make all her worries gone , but what should i do for this time ,she dont even sometimes talk to me and want to be very close to her family , i love her v. m. and want to c hapy

2006-11-06 17:29:13 · 6 answers · asked by satya c 1

2006-11-06 17:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by peoplehrd 1

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2006-11-06 17:22:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-11-06 17:16:49 · 29 answers · asked by Doctor to be 2

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2006-11-06 17:08:24 · 9 answers · asked by Doctor to be 2

Ex-girlfriend and I were together for three years. We lived together and broke up because we argued all of the time. We have been split up for 6 months with no contact. She hooked up with another guy right away. Her brother told me that she looks at my My Space page almost daily. My page doesn't have much on it and it doesn't change from day to day. Why is she looking at my page?

2006-11-06 17:08:10 · 19 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1

During the past 50 years,the divorce rate has increassed in contries all over the world.

2006-11-06 17:03:07 · 24 answers · asked by Doctor to be 2

i dont know if i love my future husbent i think i still love my exboyfriend but we cant be together.please tell me what can i do to love him

2006-11-06 17:03:02 · 11 answers · asked by dollface 1

Sticky situation here. I am in the process of a divorce. I ran into my former ex bf from 5 years ago and we hooked up. Here is where it gets sticky. His house burned down shortly after we fought about nothing. He moved in with his ex wife and it's been purely like roommates. His ex and I are like friends. So, we've been seeing each other for a while now. We made a mistake and went too far, from which I could be pregnant. He called me later on that day and said that he will do whatever I want, including moving in together. I think he's already started that, becuase he phoned me saying that his ex turned out to be jealous and that she had given him three weeks to move out. He wants this to go as smoothly as possible, so he asked me not to call for a couple of weeks to avoid any more trouble. I know for a fact they are not doing anything from knowing his ex so well and having gotten close. The three weeks thing, is he really working no getting out or is he running?

2006-11-06 16:59:34 · 4 answers · asked by Ding Dong 1

2006-11-06 16:46:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you know..please help

2006-11-06 16:40:56 · 20 answers · asked by VILMA C 1

My Husband wants to get involved in a life style of swinging and i dont want to damage our marriage. He doesnt understand why. We have been married 10 years and everything until has been great.So what happened? please Help

2006-11-06 16:38:30 · 18 answers · asked by jerseygal 1

I have been married for 20 yrs we were engaged for 6 yrs before that. My husband cheated on me about 11 yrs ago. I found out after it was all done. The woman called me and told me about it and said I should know. My son was almost a yr old at that time. I was not working. In a new state and alone so I had a fight with him and stayed. I had another baby a year ago today.. He started talking to this lady at work now it is more than just talking checked his phone he has pictures of her just say without clothing and txt msg that say how much he loves her and she loves him. But at the same time he sends me txt msg that he loves me and wants to work things out. He refuses counceling and says they are only friends. He goes to church with her and refuses to go with me..why ????

2006-11-06 16:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by quinn 2

ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE A 2 1/2 YEAR OLD BABY GIRL AND WE FIGHT CONSTANTLY.. IS BETTER FOR OUR DAUGHTER TO LIVE IN THIS ENVIRONMENT OR A BROKEN HOME???

2006-11-06 16:23:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try really hard but he never wants to do it with me, he hasn't intiated our entire marriage.It just never comes to his head to do it, he lusts after women that look nothing like me.He doesn't even notice if I wear longerie, and tells me not to give him a strip tease, he isn't interested, but he does like the stripper bars, just not me, I am 5'3 120 pounds, blonde and pretty, he doesn't want to talk to me our entire decade of marriage, he always says I am too tired, he doesn't notice I am in the room, I am only a chore to him, but he says he loves me, how come it feels like he doesn't love me?

2006-11-06 16:18:39 · 33 answers · asked by kiss me under the mistletoe 2

Apparantly I heard through the grape vine, that my husband and his ex-wife had a more interesting sex life than me and him now. the marriage ended in divorce cuz she cheated I am trying to make ours more exciting by using more sex toys. Well he told me he used alot of them and their fun. but to me why bother if he already did all that crap with her????

2006-11-06 16:13:32 · 20 answers · asked by Kelly 2

2006-11-06 16:12:56 · 29 answers · asked by nishnoush 1

I have a massive crush on an older guy at work. We're working on a project together and have been spending time during meetings, etc. I'm really not totally sure why I'm attracted to him - he's at least 15 years older than me (I'm 31). But he's got a great body, tons of energy and is a really fun person to be around. He's happily married with kids, as am I. I don't actually expect or want anything to come of this, but at the same time I find I can't stop thinking about him. Lots of sexual fantasies in my head. In reality, we have a good working relationship, though I think he has picked up on my flirting from time to time (he's a VP in the organization - pretty bright guy). Has anyone else dealt with a similiar situation and how? I'm so full of energy off of this - I don't know what to do with all my energy and emotion. I'm starting to think I need to use thoughts of him as my "muse" to accomplish other things...otherwise I'm going to get myself in trouble!!!

2006-11-06 16:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is if you are married. I mean just to be nosey and see if they are successful, or a loser or ???
Additionally have you done this?

2006-11-06 16:02:58 · 17 answers · asked by designsbyniki 2

Do you find it intimidating when a woman initiates her seductive intentions?
Nine times out of ten when I initiate sex with my husband, he starts to act nervous. He has told me that when I'm in the mood to let him know but when I do he acts strange. I don't know if he's uncomfortable about my taking the initiative but it always leads to an awkward moment where I usually end up apologizing for bothering him and leaving the room.
If you don't like your woman to play the dominate role, what are some suggestions on letting him know without making a fool out of myself?

2006-11-06 16:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by princessslave 2

my husband and i have been married for 5 years hes a great guy we have 2 kids he works hard and takes care of us. but he seems just so not very sensitive to things everything is like i dont give a ****. he didnt have a great childhood, maybe that is it.? just like he has a wall up to his feelings. he is also very lazy and uninvolved when it comes to helping with kids and household chores is this normal? is there hope? maybe a way to approach him to get him to open up?

2006-11-06 15:58:44 · 17 answers · asked by entrknmom 2