This is if you are married. I mean just to be nosey and see if they are successful, or a loser or ???
Additionally have you done this?
2006-11-06 16:02:58 · 17 answers · asked by designsbyniki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married for 15 years. And very happy. Just popped in my head tonite while I was online. I haven't seen or talked to him in over 17 years, and I don't plan on it. I am happily married with 3 kids.
2006-11-06 16:08:30 · update #1
OK, I feel that most of you don't feel it is a problem, but a few asked how would I feel. The answer is....
Yeah, I would be shocked if I found out my hubby was looking up an ex. But the difference for me is that we live in the town and state he grew up in, mine is over 1,000 miles away. I have been gone from home for 15 years. But that being said, I would probably be threatened still. You are right. I will leave it alone.
Oh and to the one that talked about him having money and such, my husband makes me more happy than I think anyone else ever could. I totally love him and am devoted to him. Which is probably why, since he is not here, he's at work, I decided to ask for advice to tell me the same thing my heart was telling me.
Thanks everyone!
All good opinions!
2006-11-06 16:14:27 · update #2
Wow Tina, settle down. I am truely happy as stated. I have no reason to lie on here. You don't know me. I am a good wife. I take wonderful care of our house, children, my business, and my husband. I am good to my inlaws even though they don't deserve it sometimes. So please don't think I am some young, stupid wife who might lose her marriage soon. That won't happen, never ever. My husband and I vowed many years ago to never divorce. We both came from broken families. We are happy. So, settle down with your judgement, that is why I asked a question. Yahoo answers came up when I went to a search , so I thought I should ask before I did it.
2006-11-06 16:21:13 · update #3
i think it is fine if that is what you wanna do, whos to say that he hasnt looked you up yet. I mean if its totally innocent like you say then go for it and be nosey. There is nothing wrong with curisoty . For the most part there is some things you just might wanna know and they may be a few a that you might not wanna know but i say go for it, as long you know in your heart that it is totally innocent for the sake of yourself. I think most nor,al people are always curious about past friends and relationships. Right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well go for it
2006-11-06 16:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by prettygirl new orleans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to be nosey? Yeah, right. You sound like your not happy with your life now. Of course, its wrong. And I bet you didn't tell your husband either, did you? Sorry your hearing it from me but if you don't grow up and start treating your husband right, I'll give your marriage six months.
2006-11-06 16:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would someone else interest you if you are married? What does it matter to you how an old boyfriend fared in the game of life? Sounds to me as if you don't think YOU did so great and you want to compare lives. You must be pretty miserable to stoop that low.
2006-11-06 17:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it through friends all the time I don't want to talk to them or anything like that I just like being nosey so I don't think it's a big deal and it doesn't bother my husband
2006-11-06 16:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong at all. They were a part of your past, your history. I would absolutely look them up and stay in touch. Class reunions are a fun way to catch up with old friends.
2006-11-06 16:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your husband did this? I totally understand cause I've wanted to do the same but what if I found out he was single & rich & ...
2006-11-06 16:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong I mean would you want your husband spending his time looking up his ex's. It seems like trouble to me.
2006-11-06 16:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Selly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rofl. I do the same... married for 30 yrs here... I just do it to know what he or they are up to these days.. if married, kids , etc...... no harm done... just being nosey !!! God bless
2006-11-06 16:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong and yes i do it all the time it doesn't make me any less happily married
2006-11-06 16:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like kind of a lame way for a married woman to spend her time.
2006-11-06 16:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋