it is pure arrange marriege , but she is only doughter of her family and her parents will be alone after her marriege , i do understand her problem and try to make her understand that this is everyone has to do one day , but she is becomming more and more introvert and sad as our mariege day is comming near. i feel that she dont have now any craze for our marriege . it was not always like that . when our marriege was fixed it was good 5 month and we both were very happy and she use to talk everyday 4-5 houyr with me but now its only one month remainning of our w-day so she is now very disturbed and feel very sad about thinking of her parents and thinking of how they wil manage the things after marriege and at the same time she also think of her self. i know this is only problem of one month after marriege i will make all her worries gone , but what should i do for this time ,she dont even sometimes talk to me and want to be very close to her family , i love her v. m. and want to c hapy
2006-11-06 17:29:13 · 6 answers · asked by satya c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can understand how she will feel not living with her family.
But that is what marriage is all about.
How does she feel about you?
Does she love you?
Also, if after you are married, is it possible for you to live near her parents?...That way she could see them whenever she wants to.
2006-11-06 17:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry that sissy. Sorry to be so blunt but I know of two such cases where it became a huge problem and resulted into seperation/divorce. Forget all this "love her very much" business and be practical. Get the two families together and sort it out before the wedding AND BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. Good luck!
2006-11-06 19:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by HFXashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a live in son in law. She will see the sacrifice you are making and slowly come around. Don't act pissy and make her even more upset. Some women are very close to the family and hate to come out and live with another. Be nice to her.
2006-11-08 15:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a question and a point to think about it means that i wiill have to solve this case as a detective.U said that when the marrige was arranged she used to talk. after examiing ur case my detective brain says
everything will be allright
2006-11-08 01:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her wht will make her happy...
ask her for a plan B...as in now she will have to leave her parents so if u live closer to heir house or something like that might help....
other thing u can do is ask one of her family members to explain to her, that this the way the indian society works..!!
all the best
bye
2006-11-06 17:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by happinezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then move in with the parents after your married.
2006-11-06 17:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋