2006-11-06 16:12:56 · 29 answers · asked by nishnoush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(even though the other is not handsome)
2006-11-06 16:32:57 · update #1
WHAAAAAt!?!? I NEVER do...I had that problem with my husband! I think it is a matter of respect and also humans like to admire beauty I learnt. I mean just because he looks doesn't mean he's regestering perverted thoughts anymore (he said he would be good about it and I have Faith in us).... Tell her that you feel disrespected and it is not lady like, I mean you ARE married. Every couple has their own ground rules that must be followed. Open communication. Every couple is different in their own unique way so if it bothers you tell her. She will understand if she truly loves you.
2006-11-06 17:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married women are married--we are not dead! It is perfectly normal and OK for one human being to appreciate the attractiveness of another human being by looking at them--be it a women checking out a man or a man checking out a woman. I have been happily married for 8 years/ together 11 years and I still look. Hell sometimes I even do a double take. Not blatantly with my hubby right there--you still should be discreet out of respect for your spouse. But I say she should look all she wants!
2006-11-07 00:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason married men stare at other women.
2006-11-07 03:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all are going to look but for me the man has to be right in front of me in order for me to notice. I do not walk into the store thinking ok lets see how much men that I find attractive. Women also do not think the same way as men do when they look at men. A man will automatically get a sexual thought into their head while the woman will think wow he is cute.
2006-11-07 01:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason married men stare at other women.
2006-11-07 00:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Micah J. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staring or glancing? Big difference. We are all human. So, if your lady is looking, that's normal. If she's staring, well maybe you should just tell her it bothers you. Who doesn't like to look at a beautiful person? Why do you think they put magazines at the check outs? Because people want to look at the beautiful people so bad, that they will spend up to $10 for a magazine with them on the front.
2006-11-07 00:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by designsbyniki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do married men stare AND sleep with other women? Nothing wrong with looking as long as you know who you are going home with and where your heart lies.
2006-11-07 00:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by tigrlil3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same reason that married men still stare at women its human nature.
2006-11-07 00:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married women stare at other men because they have their eyes. I bet that you look at other women huh? Everyone does that even me. As long as she doesn't cheat on you don't get on her case. Be cool about it. Just don't let her get away with hers.
2006-11-07 00:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mamasita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are human. We have feelings and emotions just as we did before we got married. Nothing changes except for your love and committment to the person you are with. Just because you are married doesn't mean that you won't see attractive men. Marriage doesn't stop you from seeing (it should just stop you from doing).
2006-11-07 00:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋