Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2006

Just wondering if its true or not?He works in for a record label (rap)doing promotions hopes to be a producer he goes to regular clubs a lot to begin with?is this a guy thing? he said its like social drinking only at a strip club?he said thats where you make connections?and where he got his new job in houston?I dont like it is it true?

2006-11-06 03:08:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Girlfriend is 7 months pregnant and we plan on getting married in another year, she already has a son but the father has no rights to the child and he doesn't pay child support even though he is ordered by the court, If we get married i heard her son would be legally my child, if it doesnt work out will I be stuck with child support for her son as well as mine ?

2006-11-06 02:59:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 02:56:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

The question was"where does one go to cheat online?". one should never assume what another one does. I do not, will not, have not and shall not cheat online.

2006-11-06 02:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by l c 1

2006-11-06 02:44:32 · 26 answers · asked by hajira khanum 1

I've been with my husband since we were 15. We've been married now for 4 years. Recently he's asked me to call someone elses name in bed. He doesn't tell me whose name to use, he leaves that up to me. When we talked about it he said he wants me to fantasize about being with someone else. At first I played along thinking we were keeping things exciting and fun. But now, right in the middle of (you know) he says, "You know what to do". I call someone elses name and he's done in no time! This makes me feel akward. I'm very atracted to my husband and don't desire to be with anyone else. I talked to him about it and he said that he doesn't know why this turns him on so much.
Does anyone know why he's turned on by this???

2006-11-06 02:42:41 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married at 16 and am still married to the same man at 42. My oldest daughter married at 16 and had her first child at 16 making me a 36 year old grandmother. Everyone said my marriage wouldn't work because he was 8 years older than me. But we made it through the good times and bad. Anyone else out there committed forever?

2006-11-06 02:42:02 · 24 answers · asked by moose on the loose 3

she shows me as she loves me very much but her body language says someting else and facial expressions something else sometimes she cries for me at next time she smiles away like nothing happens a varied person in mood the more i think about her the more i get confused about her
(1) how could i know that she is cheating on me and faithfull to me
(2)how could i know that she really loves and she wont ditch me and remain faithfull to me

2006-11-06 02:39:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Serious though...?
What would you do if you were in a bad marriage & wanted out..But in the process, your mother is totally against it & is all for your hubby who has lied to her about everything....said ugly things to you last night? She made the remark that "poor kids, they have a sorry mom" she said this just because I want a divorce. So, I asked her what she said just to see if she would take it back but she looked at me & said.."I didn't say anything" , so I proceeded to tell my hubby it was time to go and then she made another comment and I turned around & told her that she could say things to my face instead of under her breath. She then just outright lied & I told her so. Then I proceeded to rebuke her in Jesus's name & she got all bothered & my father go involved and told me to leave from our rental house that happens to be theirs. So, I calmy looked at them & said that I forgave them of what they said and God Bless them. What would you do? (I am going to look for a place this week)

2006-11-06 02:38:00 · 19 answers · asked by T&E 2

2006-11-06 02:35:55 · 19 answers · asked by hend 1

My husband of 4 months thinks if i have a baby with him i will feel better and more secure/fill emotional void?I am 18 and attend NYU taking 16 credits and he is 24 a promoter for a record company that does rap and hopes to be a producer he travels also travels alot and goes to a lot of clubs.He was offered a job in houston so even though i dont want to go we are going i have no say because i dont work and parents pay for college.He says we can afford one but i dont think its a great idea plus i saw a tape of labor and threw up.My parents cant stand him and i dont want a problem with them.Ho do i explain that the idea scares me?

2006-11-06 02:34:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 02:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by rosy 1

My Gf..said me many times that,
1] if........I should leave her
2] If i am interested in someone else rather than her {when actually i was busy with my work]...i should leave her,
[3} if i dont im her.[when i am busy with something more important]. i should leave her,
and she would show she is super angry,and as if i have killed everyone on earth...I use to think ,if that is part of her nature I should accept her, be her punching bag, always be round her, so that her hands wont hurt if she punches someone{who dont care for her]
But....
1} it was her one mistake after 8 months ,
i just Shouted to check what she says .
2} I said her GET OUT OF MY LIFE..
3} She said she will follow my words..
and left has never shown yet....


WHY IT HAPPENED, like that
1}It took her -3-4 times to say me ...break our relationship...
STILL I always tried and kept saving our relationship,.
2} I JUST SAID ONCE..
and she has gone forever ?

whats wrong ? can anyone guess ?

2006-11-06 02:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is quite older than me and just got divorced.He said that he loved me but i don't understand why he just wants to live with me instead of getting married.Should i quit from him?

2006-11-06 02:09:10 · 22 answers · asked by sweetie 1

The worst of alI have left my husband once to she if things would change but they have'nt the best of all she go a lawyer and she was tring to take my son away from me. I leave next door to her what do I do?

2006-11-06 02:06:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been married for nearly 7 years and have children, but my mum in law hates me from day one she has tried to split us up and turn my hubbys family against me, i am very strong willed and speak my mind i certainly wont let her have a say in the way our lives should be as she likes to interfere and make every one do what she wants to do if you say no she will fall out with them, i love her son and we are extremely happy but she wont acknowledge this she just calls me names my husband has had enough and told her he doesnt want any thing to do with her unless she apologises, i dont want my husband to resent me in years for stoppin him seeing his mum but i dont deserve all the crap she gives me wot should i do...

2006-11-06 02:01:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stbx started seeing someone before we were divorcing. She took this person to the place we usually hang out and introduced him to my in-laws and our friends. What the &@#$!

2006-11-06 01:51:17 · 25 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

2006-11-06 01:50:27 · 20 answers · asked by sunil m 1

This will be me & my husbands first Christmas together. I want to start a tradition, so I thought about doing the 12 days of Christmas, where he'll get a small token of my love everyday from Dec. 13th or Dec. 25th. Any ideas on what kinds of gifts/tokens I should give?

2006-11-06 01:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by kelynn1985 3

This is a masturbation question....I DO NOT fantasize about being with other guys at any other time....

I love my guy so much and he loves me too!

He admits he thinks of other girls when he masturbates and I have even caught him and I honestly think its okay and it DOES NOT bother me!

But I do the same thing and he gets jealous - should I lie and say I only think of him? OR should I confess that I fantasize about other men during masturbation? I dont want to lie if there is something I could do/say to convince him to NOT be jealous!

2006-11-06 01:34:42 · 18 answers · asked by plenymo 2

It is getting so common that after getting married guys start beating and treating their wives like slaves.

2006-11-06 01:27:53 · 20 answers · asked by Snorty 1

It appears his mother erased his last name on the brith certificate that hes used his whole life and now finds at 56 yrs old that the name hes always used isn't his real last name. How easy or bad is this going to be in reguards to his SSecurity, army records not to mention whether we are actually legally married after 28 years?
Simple name change or huge legal situation?

2006-11-06 01:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by Tammy C 2

My husband of 2 1/2 years is a med . school student and 23 yrs old and i am a 22 yr old who works in P.R at the moment and already graduated college.We have been having major problems because we never see each other i work a lot and he is asleep or studying. I tried everything catering to him completley when i came home learned how to cook what he liked ,massages,love/miss u notes and running baths.I got completley ignored maybe a nod and smile if i was lucky!All i wanted as a few minutes of spending time with him.We had not had sex in 5 months and when i brought up our problems he said he was busy or i was being dramatic.Now he wants to seperate till he graduates med.school?can this work?

2006-11-06 01:23:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I say so he realizes its normal for girls too?

He gets jealous bc he thinks I am thinking of other guys, and sometimes I do, should I tell him this?

I don't mind at all when he does it, why can't he be fair?

Other than this he is a great boyfriend, just a tiny bit jealous sometimes!!!

PLEASE HELP =)

2006-11-06 01:22:52 · 28 answers · asked by plenymo 2

2006-11-06 01:19:42 · 46 answers · asked by tammy b 1

My husband & I have been married for 7 years, he is 25 years older then me. He was my lecture in my University, we fell in love, got married, it was very romantic story. But now I don’t find him sexually attractive anymore. He hasn’t done anything wrong, he still love me V much. We are just like best friends sharing a bed/ house together. But I can’t tell him, ‘sorry darling, I don’t find you attractive in bed anymore!’ can’t I? I can’t live without him in many ways, but I don’t want to sleep with him when he wants me. What am I going to do? I am only 30, I can’t live rest my live like that, but also, I don’t want to leave my husband only for this reason. I still love him…. What shall I do?

2006-11-06 01:14:35 · 29 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2

2006-11-06 01:04:28 · 27 answers · asked by smiley 1

I have the opposite problem I can't tolerate lies...even the smallest one...One can do a blunder and get away with if one tells me the truth but i just hate it when a person lies to me even for the smallest reason...do I over react...or how do you people react...how do you react to lies?

2006-11-06 00:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by 28March2007 1

I need to know how old my child has to be before the judge will allow her to choose which parent she wants to live with

2006-11-06 00:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by shereblack 2

I have just been reading an old question about why people cheat when they are in happy marriages, and most of the answers seemed to be "there is obviously missing from the marriage"
I dont accept that, were all human I have been married for nearly 4 years and love my husband to death our sex life and all the other stuff is great, but that doesnt mean were not attracted to other people you can't just turn it off once you have a ring on your finger men especially as it is in their nature to spread their seeds,
Did you know that when we fall in love it is actually a hormone that is released from our brains that makes us bond with that person, women produce it continuously but men only produce it for around a year and after that they only produce it when they have just orgasmed (thats why they normally tell you they love you at that point)., So if you are not making love with you partner they won't feel this bond with you and find it easier to go elswhere what are your views on cheatin

2006-11-06 00:46:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous