What can I say so he realizes its normal for girls too?
He gets jealous bc he thinks I am thinking of other guys, and sometimes I do, should I tell him this?
I don't mind at all when he does it, why can't he be fair?
Other than this he is a great boyfriend, just a tiny bit jealous sometimes!!!
PLEASE HELP =)
2006-11-06 01:22:52 · 28 answers · asked by plenymo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know he does it to other girls and it doesn't bother me....
its not so much the actual masturbation that makes him jealous its the fact that I fantasize about OTHER GUYS...
I am open enuf to be okay with him thinking about other girls so should I try to get him to be the same way or just deny that I think about anyone but him?
2006-11-06 01:29:05 · update #1
Your boyfriend is totally nuts. There's nothing hotter than watching a girl double-click her mouse.
2006-11-06 01:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
You will not be only able to think about him when masturbating--if he masturbates he should realize that.
I think he is a bit immature in the area--he's a bit jealous. Tell him to grow up and show that you love him (and not the other guys you think about) in a way that he can understand.
2006-11-06 02:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 05:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the first time I've heard of a guy not enjoying watching his girlfriend do this! Anyway, assure him you are thinking of him, and invite him to do it with you. Maybe you can take turns doing it for each other? ( I am a right cow at times, so I'd be going out of my way to make sure he knows I'm doing it!) Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should dump him and e mail me at unionjack07@yahoo.com. I would be happy to watch you masturbate and let you have sex with other guys.,that is the difference between a boy and a man.
2006-11-06 02:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just insecure. That may be a problem later on. He may try to control you in other aspects of his life. Tell him that this is how it is and he should just learn to live with. Oh, and next time you do it? Think of me? Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are thinking of him and see where that gets you. He may even get turned on by the fact that you masturbate with him on your mind even if it's a lie!
2006-11-06 01:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend need to dump you. What in the world do you need to touch yourself for if you are in a relationship with someone? Self awareness happens when you are very young and just getting your hormones. Once you grow up and are ready for a sexual relationship, it should stop. If not, then you need some serious help. If he can't satisfy you then you really need not worry about him being jealous, you need to dump him so he can go find a girl who isn't so much into touching herself.
2006-11-06 01:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
OK so he is jealous you masturbate. DO you masturbate with him? Or just tell him about it later? If you don't invite him to join. What you masturbate about is your business esp if you masturbate about other men. UNless he would be open to this and it sounds like that is out.
Get him to masturbate with you!
2006-11-06 01:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by newtooocala 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I find that very strange that he has a problem with that. My husband enjoys watching me as it turns him on to see me enjoying myself. Oh yes and he does normally join in, so we both have fun. I don't think he would like it if l said l was thinking of other guys though. And ofcourse l don't anyway, no need my husband turns me on enough all by himself.
2006-11-06 01:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Before you start to masturbate offer to have sex with him, if for some reason he don't want to (or can't raise to the act). Handle the business your self or let him finger you himself. However, who you think about while masturbating is your business alone, he already have problems with it, so no don't tell him you think of other men.
2006-11-06 01:30:17 · answer #11 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋