This is a masturbation question....I DO NOT fantasize about being with other guys at any other time....
I love my guy so much and he loves me too!
He admits he thinks of other girls when he masturbates and I have even caught him and I honestly think its okay and it DOES NOT bother me!
But I do the same thing and he gets jealous - should I lie and say I only think of him? OR should I confess that I fantasize about other men during masturbation? I dont want to lie if there is something I could do/say to convince him to NOT be jealous!
2006-11-06 01:34:42 · 18 answers · asked by plenymo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Prolly a decent Idea guys will get jelous about the smallest things so don't risk it. My personal veiw anyways
2006-11-06 01:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by RWAR. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on who you are fantasizing about. If your fantasy is a celebrity, go ahead and tell him. He shouldn't get jealous of that, because there is no real probability that you would ever have sex with that person - you probably would never even meet him face-to-face. However, if you are fantasizing about his best friend or the guy down the street (for example), he probably would get jealous of that because he would be insecure that you could leave him for that other person. All things considered, if he's not asking who you fantasize about, my advice would be not to offer up the information. Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
So HE does it, and he thinks that's okay.
But when you do it, he gets upset?
He's a typical hypocritical guy, he has double-standards.
Guys with double-standards are selfish. It's all about protecting their own
feelings, yet they don't care about anyone else's feelings.
2015-11-08 13:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by mg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys are funny that way. It seems perfectly fine to them to fantasize but if we do it seems as though we are affecting their manhood and secretly telling them we are wishing and longing for a bigger or better man than themselves. From experience I would tell him you do think of him during masturbation and maybe try it! Keep your fantasies yours if it upsets him that much.
2006-11-06 01:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you love touching yourself and fantasize other guy that would be fine...just dont tell him coz he is insecure with your wild imagination, after all if he gonna ask you just tell him it was he you think and imagine...!just wondering why you masturbate since you have guy who can give you a real feeling good.
2006-11-06 01:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Jerry Springer excerpt.
2006-11-06 01:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys aren't showing each other very much respect.
Respect is a key component in a lasting relationship.
You may be doomed already in terms of having a happy, healthy relationship.
2006-11-06 02:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like HE got a problem! My wife and I have similar situations when we have sex or masturbates. We enjoy doing it with a sex/porn movie on tv, like a group sex....and we talk about our past experiences and making out with ex's. It's healthy, and add spice to sex. By the way, we've been married for almost 10 years, and still doing this! I'm not going into any details about this past weekend, but it was nice.
2006-11-06 02:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just don't say anything. Masturbation is private, unless you're doing it with your partner. In which case I'd assume you're thinking about him.
2006-11-06 02:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋