2006-11-06 01:19:42 · 46 answers · asked by tammy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Curl up in a ball and cry!
2006-11-06 01:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Leave...if he's abusing you physically and/or emotionally, you can seek legal help through family services and the police for order of protection if necessary. If you seriously think you want to die (and I mean seriously), then you need to seek counseling. You don't need to feel this way and without knowing the background of you and your husbands troubles, I'm guessing you are not at fault for something or if you are, you need to address the situation with some professional guidance. Been there, done that, and hubby didn't get the upper hand! I took advantage of the powers within me and made him have an anxiety/stress/ or some kind of attack (he was trying not to toss his cookies) at the divorce hearing. You can break him down if you really want to. Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman and this so called "man" has brought you down. You probobly love him very much or your scared. Get yourself to a counselor and see if he will go to. If he won't go to the counselor then you go by yourself. Try to find a counselor that deals with woman empowerment. I went to one and she gave me a lot of good advise. Let your husband know how he makes you feel when he treats you like this. Let him know that you feel like you would rather die than be married to someone who treats his wife, the woman he's suppose to love, respect and cherrish, like total SHI*. If he won't stop or doesn't really care what you have to say about his actions, you will need to leave him. No man is worth your own self worth.
This situation will only get worse not better so do something now...
2006-11-06 01:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by SweetOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a divorce. No one should ever treat anyone they claim to love badly. Do onto others as you would have done onto you. If you are not treating him bad, then why would you allow him to treat you that way? I would hope that you are smart enough to understand that no one should have to put up with that. GOD wouldn't even allow that to happen in heaven, so why do you think you need to endure that here on earth? Make a choice and move on.
2006-11-06 01:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please,leave him immediately. I know maybe you feel worthless at the moment because the way he treats you and will be hard for you to end the relationship but believe me you'll get over him.You will realise the life is beautiful(won't think death) and will ask yourself why you hadn't done that earlier. (I'm very good at leaving the guys:-);if i see they're making me unhappy doesn't matter how much i love them or used to be with them i leave them eventhough finding it hard but in couple of months time i get over it and realising i did the right thing.
2006-11-06 01:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, I just read your last few questions and you seem to be in a really bad situation, is there anyone that you can get some help from, a friend or family member, my heart goes out to you, I personally would leave if my husband treated me so bad I wanted to die but some people feel they don;t have that option, there is always help out there, shelters, help lines , please reach out to someone.
2006-11-06 01:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. What could possibly be worse than how miserable he is making you? Even if you are broke, you will still have yourself. And when you give your heart to someone who doesn't love you, and instead of protecting you, puts you in danger, you start to lose your sense of self. Be strong and remember how you used to imagine your future as a younger girl, and see how this treatment was not a part of it. Then take steps to remove him from your life. If he scares you, have back-up help with you when you confront him, so he doesn't bully you back under his thumb.
2006-11-06 01:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to make a decision to leave him or continue being treated bad by him. what are you martyr? i suggest to be brave and face the fact that he disrespect you and you must not let that continue, and you deserve to have a life that is not treated badly by just that your husband. are you dependent of him? have your own work!
2006-11-06 02:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits you and leaves bruises on you must whether you want to or not take pictures of your bruises and go to the hospital to get checked out. Go to the police, Get a divorce and use the pictures and the doctor's information to get a restraining order against him.
2006-11-06 01:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should feel bad in a relationship. The point is to feel good about yourself and your partner.
Now, barring any details as to what is going on in the relationship, advice could range from anywhere to talking to him, a counselor or getting out immediately.
Miss Cris
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2006-11-06 01:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calm down,see how many times he does it 2 u.Look at da chat b-low.
1-3 times ignore.he might start 2 hit u.
4-6 times get therapy.he may stop.
7-10 times get a lawyer.
11-30 times DIVORCE HIM!!!!
2006-11-06 11:36:03 · answer #11 · answered by Karabear96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋