Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2006

With who??

2006-11-06 06:27:10 · 29 answers · asked by crazzzy 3

all right. i've come to accept that it may never happen.

so now, what I do is, I indulge in things I consider romantic; like spraying on my fave perfume, reading a nice book, going to the movies or for a walk, taking a short trip when possible, looking at the sky & the airplanes & fantasizing about the places I can't afford to visit, writing love poems/prose...

how pathetic is that

(and I do believe that love can't be found; it's all your destiny no matter how hard you try)

2006-11-06 06:23:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my husband called me and said that hes going to iraq and i cant stop crying!! right now hes 7 states away from me and i get to see him for thanksgiving but i don't want his visit to be a sad one!! 'm afraid that i just might cry the whole time he's here!! does anyone have any husbands over seas???? please tell me your storys!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-06 06:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by Cassandra 2

with his wife and family. The former mayor of New York who moved his mistress into the mayor's mansion with his wife and kids is the savior and God's appointee.

2006-11-06 06:14:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend & I have been dating for 3 years now. He knows our anniversary is today (he mentioned it 2days ago & its written on his calender) so I know he hasnt forgotten. We are both working today & probably won't get a chance to see each other :( but he hasnt called me. Its 2:15pm now, I know things can get busy but at the same time, you cant fit 2 minutes into your day for a quick phone call?? Would any of you other ladies out there be pissed too?

2006-11-06 06:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 4

sweeties, i'm talking about romance; not friends, hobbies or job

thank you

2006-11-06 06:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a divorced (7 years) father of three children, ages 15m, 13m, 9f. I am remarried now for almost 5 years. Children's mother has been remarried for 5 years. Our 15 year old is about to get his provisional drivers license at the end of December. He'll need a car to take himself to school and help taxi the other kids to/from school and sports. I pay monthly Child Support. His mother and stepfather now want to buy a car for him. She wants to "work something out" with the cost of the car, insurance and maintenance. What do most people do in this situation with regards to the finances of a vehicle for a teenager?

2006-11-06 06:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by sargeslope 2

2006-11-06 06:06:03 · 13 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

I just had my second child on Sept. 21. Everything between my husband and I has been fine--as perfect as it could be, until about 2 weeks ago. He is so caring and attentive to my needs, he always has been, but lately nothing he does is good enough. We can't even talk without me getting upset about something. I hate feeling this way. I know that I love him so I don't understand where these awful feelings are coming from. It's almost like I despise him and everything he does. The way he chews food, the way he drives, his opinions, the way he touches me...everything. I don't know if I'm just so stressed out that I deal with it by directing anger towards him? He did absolutely nothing wrong. Anyone else ever feel this way???? It's like I have gone numb towards him and I'm afraid if I don't do something now, our once happy marriage is going to fall apart.

2006-11-06 06:06:01 · 18 answers · asked by tonya 2

if so, how often do you call him/her (which is it?)?

2006-11-06 05:59:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me this. Back in the day marriage was to be special, you were not to be divorced as it was a sin, but now people are treating it as if it is part of everyday life. What about those of us that still have those values what are we supposed to do? how are we supposed to coupe with the crap? It honestly is not fair when you put in everything you possibly can into a marriage to just one day say I am over and I dont love you anymore! How do u do that? I don't understand it at all. I cant even rationalize it in my head and this has been since april.... Insight please as why people are so easy to just say forget it and start over again.

2006-11-06 05:55:29 · 19 answers · asked by just me 1

or considering one. Would you go for a married guy or a single guy?

2006-11-06 05:47:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today is his birthday and all the money I have is $26! I dont know what I can get for him or do for him... Any ideas????

2006-11-06 05:45:38 · 28 answers · asked by greygirl06 2

My wife of 1 yr is leaving and want a divorce. We have been together for 6 years. She says she loves me but isn't in love with me and had doubts even before the wedding. Not being 100% committed to the person you marry is one of the meanest things a person can do. Why would someone do that?

2006-11-06 05:45:37 · 32 answers · asked by fedup 1

Im not sure what she really meant by this,how would you read in to this?

2006-11-06 05:43:16 · 41 answers · asked by therarenonames 1

Just wondering if its true or not?He works in for a record label (rap)doing promotions hopes to be a producer he goes to regular clubs a lot to begin with?is this a guy thing? he said its like social drinking only at a strip club?he said thats where you make connections?and where he got his new job in houston?I dont like it is it true?

2006-11-06 05:35:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm entering into a civil partnership later this year. I own my own property which is solely in my name and my partner will be moving in and paying me a weekly rent. In the event of the partnership being dissolved in the future would my partner be entitled to a share of the property?

2006-11-06 05:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by Haydn S 1

Well, my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married. I was semi-planning on going back to college in January to be a teacher. Thing is, I don't want to make more money than him. The other day I got a new job and he said he would have been really upset if I made more money than him (which I didn't). He's been waiting on a raise at work for a long time now.

I went to a business college for 9 months (that's the only college I've had so far). I actually had a job for 2 months (before I met him) that made a little more than him.

I know it sounds silly, but how do guys generally feel if their girlfriends/wives make more money than them? I didn't think that I would be getting married any time soon. I could just work part-time and do housework the rest of the time.

2006-11-06 05:25:49 · 13 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4

because he wants to "jog in the mornings." I am not supposed to object. Is he serious?

2006-11-06 05:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by realistnola 1

My sister is married and talking to this guy on the phone and on the net. She hasn't told her husband. She lies to go call this man, talks about how he touches this place in her that she thought was gone, he makes her happy, and etc...She also plans to meet this man in Arizona after X-mas, but she's buying a house with her husband this year. I feel that what she's doing is way wrong and he should be told. Cheating is cheating..HELP!!!

2006-11-06 05:15:36 · 17 answers · asked by geminiblue26 3

"If you want more sex, then how about you be more romantic or help out more so I'm not so tired from doing everything?"
This is a form bartering for services "you do this for me and I'll do this for you".
Ideally a man and woman should be romantic and/or sexual with their spouse because they want to, but I've been seeing more and more questions from a spouse saying that they are already doing everything and still their spouse is not having sex with them.
Is it that their spouse has over valued sex and is wanting too much before putting out?
And should the spouse stop paying (ie. cleaning, being romantic, date night ...etc) until sex has returned to a more fair market value?

In a closed market environment like marriage the buyer and seller each can adjust the value of bartered services (in this case sex) easily by either with holding the service or payment.

So what should sex be worth in a marriage? A load of laundry/night out/flowers ...

2006-11-06 05:14:01 · 26 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

My GF & I have been dating 2 1/2 years. I moved to a foreign country to be with her & when we first began dating, she said that she would like to move with me to America. But a year ago, she began a new job that she really loves & then she changed her mind about moving. At first, I thought I should just be patient and wait for her to change her mind again. But since it had been a year, I decided to talk to her about it the other day.

We used to talk about getting married & having a family, but we also haven't talked about that for the past year. The other day, I asked her if she still thinks we'll get married & she said she didn't think so. Then she told me that we are just too different. Also, she stopped saying "I love you" a few months ago, & would only say it if I said it first. But since we talked the other day, now she is showing me much more interest & she told me she couldn't sleep last night & was crying when she thought about me leaving.

What should I do?!

2006-11-06 05:13:44 · 7 answers · asked by Bob 1

when i tell him i want to come to his office sometimes instead of going to his other bussiness he firmly denies it and gets angry, i dont understand this attitude, shd i still go to his office or not...

2006-11-06 05:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no proof that his having or has had sex with this person. All I know is that so girl texted his phone. I'm really pissed because I had no idea of this person. I called and talked to her she said they are just friends, I asked if he ever tried anything with her she said no. I asked him the same the question he said she tried to kiss him, After she tried that he stopped talking to her. He said he told her to stop calling him, but she text him anyway. I know for a fact that they have no spoken since well aleast not on his cell phone. I check it every month. My question should i let it go or let him go. Married 7yrs 1child, never caught him in a lie before.
help

2006-11-06 05:05:22 · 23 answers · asked by confused 1

After 6 years of no contact, my ex-boyfriend emailed me. After several letters we decided we want to get together for dinner. I don't want to tell my husband for fear he will be extremely upset. I really need my ex's friendship, but my husband will be furious that I have started a casual relationship with ex. Do I tell my husband or just keep it a secret?

2006-11-06 04:55:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met someone , a gentleman and I gave him my numberphone. he shows me for the begining that he likes me and he said it to me and I love him. meanwhile an other man ' ready for marriage ) wants to marry me and he is gentleman but I do ont know him, I do not even see his face, I ve heard that he is good guy. I m confused, the first guy likes me but he is not ready for marriage , should I wait?, and I m not sure of his feelings towards me, I m afraid if he is lying on me, and he wants to pass time with me (just words). and I do not know who is the good one for me , the one who i can liv e happy with him. simply, should I wait the first one if he is really wants me or marry the secnd one' I do not like him and I do not want to know him' ?.

2006-11-06 04:52:08 · 7 answers · asked by gentle whisper 3

We have 3 kids - ages 14, 12 and 9. We've not been happy for a long time, started 5 yrs ago when he discovered "chat room" girlfriends. At first he was apologetic/kind, and we worked to make our relationship better. Now he refuses to have a conversation about our relationship and has made it clear that he'll make no effort in this regard- always turns into major verbal abuse from him if I try to initiate a calm discussion.

If he moves out, chances are the kids will grow up without their father. He's even less likely to make an effort with them once he's out of the house. I think he is developing mental issues, which has contributed to him not being able to keep a job - but is in complete denial.

I know the kids want us to stay married, he is well-behaved in their presence. Should I stick out a loveless marriage until the kids are out of the house? It's getting harder to keep myself from getting depressed as the years pass. BTW- I work and can (and do) support the family

2006-11-06 04:51:34 · 32 answers · asked by happyface 1

some of you may have answered my question a few days ago about my fiance of 3 years that cheated on me in my 9th month of pregnancy which is now, im staying at my mothers until the baby comes, he wants to see her until the baby comes and then see how things work with us. i was pretty sure that no matter what i want to work it out with him, but right now he is being so selfish and was so rude when i talked to him this morning that i feel he does not deserve to be in the deivery room to see his daughter being born. i want him more than anything to be there and i really dont think i would stop him from being there, but how do i make him realize that he doesnt deserve both withouth pushing him further into her arms ?

2006-11-06 04:51:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 8 years, been together for 10 years, have a 6 year old son. This May, after a wedding, my wife says "I am not the saint you think I am, while we were engaged I had a three month affair with a co-worker".
She thinks that she was mentally ill, she doesn't know why she did it, she doesn't know why it continued, and I had no idea until now. We were engaged for 11 months, bought a house together, I was supporting her through college. I was working grave yard shift, and she was working evenings after school. While I was at work, she would go out drinking with work friends and that's how it happend. She claims she slept with him 5 or 6 times over three months.
Our marriage has been great, she is a good mother and she says (and I believe her) that it hasn't happend since. I feel like I married under false pre-tenses. She thinks it wasn't as bad before the wedding. I feel violated, for her it is 8 years ago and isn't as important. Forgiving is tough, any help?

2006-11-06 04:46:34 · 39 answers · asked by Hangin' On 1

he works in a office with a women he cheated on me with.
he has lots of business trips that i now go on, but she still works next to him and can go on the same trips .. i love him we have been together 25 years, his job is very highly paid , i'm going nuts i hate every day he is at work with her, she has a boyfrind now but she still asks my husband not to take me with him on trips, i cry every day since i found out it's been 7 mo but i lost all in my mind ,i feel so sad like my life has just been a pack of lies.. he says he loves me and is sorry, will the pain ever go away ?
what can i do ? I hate her so much we were friends, i was tricked.
some days are ok , but i think about killing my self everyday. my kids are grown and moved out, i never had a job outside the house, and now the thought of being poor and watching him have fun and traveling around the world with her is to much . he says he loves me, but i thought he loved me before i found out just going crazy,

2006-11-06 04:37:54 · 20 answers · asked by djs s 1