Im not sure what she really meant by this,how would you read in to this?
2006-11-06 05:43:16 · 41 answers · asked by therarenonames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on the circumstances of when she pronounced that sentence. It could be your death sentence. She could have expressed her deepest inner desires. Are you a wealthy guy and she is your sole heir or do you have a good insurance policy? She probably hates your guts and you've never noticed it. SO, BEWARE OF THE MAD WOMAN!
2006-11-06 05:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by latinoldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I spent some time here reading. I did just have that said to me, in these exact words.... "Why can't you just die already?". I've had some health problems as well. But, I'm not ready to check out by a long shot. Those words, well - they killed it for me. I am binding my time now, and preparing for an exit. I would have negotiated it, for her benefit (money, etc.) - but now, after those words, I shall leave - with protection, and anonymity (she knows my work of course) - and that's it. You don't get away with those words in my book. I replayed the scene over and over - and it was way over the top. So - goodbye. Time change all things, but when time changes love to hate, there are plenty of warnings. This was not the first, but it is the last. GLE
2015-01-25 16:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL--I am pretty sure I can answer this with a very high percent of accuracy!
I have been married for 18 years and honestly would have to say that about 17 of those have been unhappy! Not sad, I have chosen to stay until my children are grown, and I like him enough to live with him, BUT.......
There have been many times throughout our relationship that I have thought....."It would be so much easier if he were to just die!" I know that is awful, and I feel horrible for thinking that way, but it is kinda the truth! I won't even try to explain why I feel that way for fear of the abuse I may suffer at the hands of the people reading this. However, that may be exactly what your wife is experiencing!
Work on your marriage! Try really hard to make her happy and communicate with her so she can work on making you happy!
Best of luck to you!
2006-11-06 05:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My wife of six years just told me that I wish you were dead on Christmas this year.We had an argument over moving or not. To me saying that is the last straw. I love my wife i really and truly do. But i be damn if i am going to stay in this marriage after that.When people are upset and say something like that that is usually how they really feel.So if your wife say that to yoh then she must really mean it right
2016-12-25 20:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by psychotic gypsy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that she wants out of the marriage. She might not feel that way all of the time, but that's what she felt at the time she said it. I never told my ex-husband that, but I used to think it. Mainly because I didn't think he would let me have any peace if I left him and he was still alive. But on the flip side, I fantasized about it, but didn't REALLY want him dead.
2006-11-06 05:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Well, some times people say things they don't really mean when they're in a heated discussion. I would just tell her that it really bothered you and ask why she said something so horrible. You're supposed to love each other through sickness and health, not wishing for the other person to die.
2006-11-06 05:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by imasooite 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've been told to drop dead by my husband of whom I am divorcing now. I always thought it was a way for him to think things would be alot easier for him if I was dead instead of him having to go threw a divorce. If I was gone then he could just move on with his girlfriend. Maybe she's trying to tell you something! Good luck!
2006-11-06 06:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by sapphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were having a disagreement she got mad and said, "I wish you were dead", be honest girls who hasn't said that at sometime in your marriage. She was just real angry, she doesn't want you dead that is just a way of lashing out. I bet you had really made her mad. Forget It and go on with your happy marriage, It doesn't mean a thing.
2006-11-06 05:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she means it. What did you do? I'm sure she had a reason. I'm sure she didn't just wake up and say, "Hmmm, I wish my husband was dead. I think I'll tell him that. Good morning honey, 'I wish you were dead.' "
Nope. You did something to deserve it.
2006-11-06 05:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 21:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋