2006-11-06 06:06:03 · 13 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its hard to get out of a bad marriage. I stayed in a bad relationship for 3 years because its hard to get out. Sometimes people like the comfort of having someone and dont want to be alone. My sister is in an abusive relationship but stays because of comfort. She has even filed charges, got kicked out of a hotel, and ended up in the hospital. Yet she goes back becuause of comfort and what she thinks is the best she can do. She calls it love, but doesnt know. She used to tell me to get out and now she has the same problem. I got out, so there is hope.
2006-11-06 06:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by pegasis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons. I've seen that for the most part children are involved or they are afraid to start over again. Though some marriages just lack in communication. For women in abusive households it can be fear or hope that the man will change. In men it can be the same. I'd put not enough money for a divorce at the bottom of the totem.
2006-11-06 06:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience and seeing what my female friends and family have gone through...I believe it's because people are afraid of what else they may lose once they get a divorce. But they should think of what they can gain once they leave the marriage, right?
2006-11-06 06:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most stay in a bad marriage for the sake of the children
2006-11-06 08:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by ekim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all marriages go bad from time to time. Grown ups know how to get over it.
2006-11-06 06:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, There are no past lives. We're born. We die. Some people will stay with something that they believe is safe and familiar, even if they're unhappy.
2006-11-06 06:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay cause it's not all bad & I know I can't run out when it does get bad. I think alot of my childhood trama is another reason.I know deep in my heart I love him & need to learn to love me just as much.
2006-11-06 06:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it's holding out for hope that our marriage will get better. I'm not giving up. I'm a lover and a fighter!
2006-11-06 06:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by TML ♥'er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afriad of change, kids in the picture, financial. There are many reasons that people stay.
2006-11-06 06:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people stay in the marriage because they have children
2006-11-06 06:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by smiley girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋