Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2006

2006-11-06 10:42:34 · 2 answers · asked by manny_evangelista2003 1

we have sex but its not like it use to be, 1 time we would do it all the time, but now its like when ever for me, but hes ready all the time. what can i do?

2006-11-06 10:39:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 approaching 18 in three months and my boyfriend wants to marry me in MAY after our high school graduation. I really love him but I just don't want to rush things. We have been together for a year and a half. Plus another thing is that we are going to attend two different universities after we graduate. I only live once so what should I do, should I marry him in May or wait about another 2 to 4 years? (And if I do wait then how long should I wait.)

2006-11-06 10:33:07 · 33 answers · asked by queenV 2

Is 5 years too long, especially since we are saving sex for marriage? We're both 19 and have dated for more than a year, and got engaged recently... We talked about waiting until a year after we graduate to get married... Please give me how long it was for you, and what you think of our plan. Thanks!

2006-11-06 10:30:39 · 26 answers · asked by reba 1

My husband is a young HS teacher. Found out that he was talking to one of his students online. This really upset me because of an incident I had in HS. That teacher went to jail and had to start his whole life over. I am still scarred by that. I told my husband that AIM is crossing the line-I know these things because I was there. One statement taken the wrong way, and you can get in a LOT of trouble. I was really shaken up about it,so he said he would tell the student that he doesn't feel comfortable discussing things on AIM.

Since then, it seems like he quickly closes a window when I go into his office. Today he asked me to send something through his email program,and when I did,I saw a lot of msgs between him and the student. One of them started with "Oops, sorry I lost you on AIM-got distracted." Yeah right-I probably walked in and he closed the box in panic. I didn't see anything romantically inclined, but emotional, like "It's nice we have each other to listen to." HELP

2006-11-06 10:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please keep in mind that rent take up 25%, house hold stuff takes up 30%, monthly bills take up 15%. That leave 30% of my take home pay. I want to be fair, but I also want to save for the future. I figure whatever she get I get and equal share the rest can be saved. So how much should my wife and I be allowed to spend out of the 30% left over?

2006-11-06 10:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I have been working at my job for over a year. Me and the father of my child have been broken up for over a year. There is this young lady that he had been dating before me. I caught him cheating on me with her and he tried to fight me and say that he did not know her. I had a restraining order filed agasint him and wanted him to stay away from me. The girl that he said that she did not know came to court to be a witness for him and lie for him agasint me. 6 month after all this occured she came to my job and started working at my company. Now, these two just got married to weeks ago. I don't say anything to this girl she constantly tries to rub **** in my face. I just keep on. I have informed HR about her. I don't want her here. I have a higher position than she does, but the question still makes me wander did she follow me here? Is there something she needs from? Why won't she leave.

2006-11-06 10:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by hollie m 1

For the last few days, I have been talking to a lady, actually she is wife of friend of mine, who are seperated for the last few months, and I am a divorced guy for the last 3 and 1/2 years, both of us shared our past experience with our married life, which are very much similar to each other, probably it's a coincident. Now both of us getting close to each other, but I am confused what should I do, to my knowledge my friend and his wife wz 2kids getting divorced, by the way firstly I tried to solve it, but failed. What do u think I should do, I knw this will end up friendship of 25 yrs, and secondly I am getting weak on her, even though we haven't seen each other before. Lately what people wl think abt me, like my other friends and mostly my aged parents/bros/sis especially everyone. Any suggesstions..wl be appreciated

2006-11-06 10:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by fazlul k 1

i have been married 4 months and in that short time I have walkked out 5 times.. each time I come bak because I do truly love him but he is very manipulating and puts me thru some seriously pathetic arguments. My ex whom I have my only child to has said he loves me and wants me bak. we split up 6 years ago but we still love eachother, im really confused. pls giv me advice!

2006-11-06 10:10:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My future hubby is a good guy but dresses a little on the rough side and tends to act it as well. He has a little bit of a tough guy attitude and has majored in buisness and plans to work in advertising for record companys mainly(rap)or something in music industry he loves it. He has big ambitions and wants to make a lot of money but when he is around some of my family members that have money he gets insecure?He will start to act all tough and curse.I now that he did not grow up in best area but i wish he would tone this down?how to do it politley?

2006-11-06 10:04:17 · 16 answers · asked by Isabel G 1

2006-11-06 10:03:28 · 17 answers · asked by wegayehu2004 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, we have an 11 month old daughter, and I am a stay at home mom who is studying nursing at the community college 2 days a week. I cook and clean, I do laundry, make beds, etc. etc. However, my boyfriend seems very angry. When I talk to him he usually snaps at me, we argue all the time. This really hurts my feelings when he snaps at me...
Here are a few examples...
Last night we watched Silent Hill, I was scared, I read my book for a bit at 10:30pm in bed with a flashlight, at 11pm after much tossing and huffing he gets up angrily and says he can't sleep I'm keeping him awake. He goes in the bathroom and when he comes out I have put away my book and turned off my light so he can sleep. I scoot over to cuddle with him and he says... "Can I help you?!" and I said "I just want to snuggle with you" his response was "No! It's f*ing 11 o'clock, get away!"
What do I need to do to get him to not say hurtful things to me without fighting?

2006-11-06 10:01:59 · 18 answers · asked by simplegrl 2

2006-11-06 10:00:15 · 16 answers · asked by WOOMEEEE 1

Even after they know that their ex has moved on with their life and don't want anything to do with them...why do they just keep calling and get to the point of desperation that they call family members just to see how they are doing?

2006-11-06 09:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by mrsross 2

he makes me feel im always in the wrong, he plays head games and fys into jealous rages if i mention another mans name or look at anyone else. He has never hit me and he is usually gentle. Yet he is allowed to flirt with women and go out when he wants to.

2006-11-06 09:54:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

In your opinion what makes a wife a good wife

2006-11-06 09:54:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance is a great cook, understands me completely, makes me laugh and gives great hugs. I feel safe and loved with him.

But he always falls asleep the minute he gets in and goes to bed by 9pm. I'm feeling really lonely and worried I'm going to spend our entire married life watching him sleep. Do I have a serious problem or am I being silly when he has so many good things about him?

We've been together 10 years and I never regret not seeing other people or going out and getting drunk but I'm worried I might if I carry on watching him sleep night after night. I wouldn't mind but I'm 25 not 80!! What can I do and should I marry him?

2006-11-06 09:51:52 · 20 answers · asked by Melissa 1

2006-11-06 09:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by Joel L 2

A minute to say a HEART FELT Thank You to all who prayed for me , my husband & Gator Land in Florida this morning ! Prayer is awsome !
Gator Land will reopen & the Ins. will cover payroll until they do . Do you know of any other way to get in touch with people around the world to pray for you .
Once again Thanks Again ! God Bless you all !

2006-11-06 09:43:45 · 1 answers · asked by Geedebb 6

we have been seperated for about 21/2 mons now! He doesnt even make an effort 4 our girls. Married 4-0yrs and he acts like we dont exist. HOw do i just let it go, i know there is men outhere better than him. i have tried going out & everytime i just feel guilty why? i am not the one that is cheating, he is! Eventhough he denies it, my heart tells me so. He dont pick the girls he doesnt even provide. When i go out i want to meet people, i could just hang out with once in a while as all my friends, i practically last them when i got marry & the few that i have left are tight up with their own life. i have no luck meeting no one, i am not in hurry to get into another relationship but i do want to have someone i could talk 2 when i need someone. I keep finding myself looking 4 him & all he does is remind me how i dont mean nothing 2 him. why does he have 2 be so cruel, i know we had our ups & downs but does he have 2 treat me so shiety @ all times? I love him & he only uses me, Why?

2006-11-06 09:41:32 · 7 answers · asked by HelpmeFast 1

Is viewing divorce as a part of marriage causing the downfall of society?

2006-11-06 09:38:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do every thing for my wife but she mis understand me. i came aboard for earning money for her but she wants me to go back but i know when i will do that she will ask me to earn more money for better living

2006-11-06 09:37:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 2 yrs has always watched any movie or tv show with these two girls in it. Does anyone think this is strange enough to him why or confront him about it?

2006-11-06 09:37:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Va. and have been legally seperated for almost 2 years, How can I get a quick divorce without having to shell out the big bucks for a lawyer?

2006-11-06 09:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with my husband for three years our sex life has always been amazing , the past month or so weve been having a few problems he did something to really hurt me and now when we make love i feel like its just a s**g to him, he says he isant doin anything different plz help

2006-11-06 09:26:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just wish i knew weather or not he wants to marry me...i have finally brought it up and this is what i got....please tell me if you think you have ANY IDEA of how he feels MEN ARE SO CONFUSING AND I JUST WANT ANSWERS im scared he doesnt want this like i do--YEAR AND HALF-first said wants to be with me for life-then said wont be ready for engagement for 2-3years -ONE YEAR LATER says- does want me for life but just isnt ready -FOUR MONTHS AGO wants me for life -starting to "think" about kids TWO WKS AGO-wants for life -thinking more about kids-said that after about 2 months of thinking might propose but wants to make for sure that there is NO chance for divorce since are going through kinda rough spot-NITE BEFORE LAST- wants to marriage and kids in future but wants to make sure still scared of divorce
LAST NITE---BORED? said he is bored with life not me but life...i mean after 2 1/2 years of routine i guess its expected but does he REALLY WANT ME FOR LIFE? IS HE GOING TO PROPOSE SOON?

2006-11-06 09:25:58 · 14 answers · asked by crystal 3

who would you like to be with for one night!?! for me it would be Sara Evans

2006-11-06 09:23:02 · 16 answers · asked by mongo862001 5

If so, does that make you want to make more changes?

If not, does that make you reluctant to make more changes?

2006-11-06 09:22:30 · 15 answers · asked by S K 7

Hello there, I am a housewife. I don't have full time job yet. My husband and I share the household job together. How much do you think the allowance for full time housewife should be given by the husband. He give me 3% of his salary for my allowance every month. Do you think fair enough?

2006-11-06 09:20:41 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

no abuse in the relationship just a span of emotional neglect when work was more important

2006-11-06 09:20:04 · 11 answers · asked by beme67 1