if you really love someone can you fall out of love without there being some real reason why.?

Question

no abuse in the relationship just a span of emotional neglect when work was more important

Answer 1

No, if you are truly in love with someone, in my opinion, there is no turning back, no taking it back. The only thing is when you're hurt emotionally due to indifference or lack of communication, you become hard. Your attitude changes when you can't get a response in some way. Neglect is one of the worse emotional abuse crimes there is. What really kills is the love you still have in your heart, but it isn't being returned. Kind of makes everything all futile and lonely...........good luck.........

Answer 2

i don't know if it so much as falling out of love as it is learingin to live lonely since that person hasn't emotionally been there for u.i know i got used to living it alone hence the name. i thought i fell out of love but it wasn't that i love him dearly and always will.he puts work forst and doesn't want to change but i still love am i putting my life on hold hell no not anymore. i am human and deserve happiness. counsling is always a grteat step though. giving up right away isn't the best moveall love desrves a chanceand if ur asking this question u still have some love there and u should act on it. try counsling ,explain the rut ur realtionship is in and how u want to save what is left. if he loves u he will be willing to owrk through it. if not it will hurt but then u have a chance at real happiness which we ALL deserve good luck

Answer 3

Well there is a reason "neglect". Love is the most demanding job you'll ever have because you have to work at it every day, you can't put anything to tomorrow, you absolutely can't neglect anything.

Food for thought: Primarily, we really get involved/fall in love with someone because of the way they make us feel about ourselves...

"Neglect is to love as a frost is to an orchard." Lamar Cole

Answer 4

To a certain extent, yes. To fall in love with someone, you have to be compatible with them. As in, your must be able to work with their personality and they with yours. Hence, depending on how much race, age, and religion influence one's personality, it could prove to be a hindrance to their falling in love with certain people. But then if that's the case, they were never meant to be, were they? :) So with the person you ARE meant to be, love is blind in the sense that you don't care about their faults because you know you can live with them. When you're in love, you focus on their GOOD sides.

Answer 5

No unless you were never really in love. But then that's still a reason.

Answer 6

Yes. People change. People grow apart. The reasons we fell in love may no longer exist. at first, maybe everything seemed exciting and new and now it is humdrum and boring. if you really love, then communication about how you are feeling will probably get you back on the right track. your mate may not realize he is focusing on the wrong things. lol.

Answer 7

Yeah its easy to fall out of love with someone when there paying more attention to something else, it doesnt matter what it is.*

Answer 8

infatuation comes and goes
love is a CHOICE
love communicates
love is selfless
do you fall out of love with your parents/children or do you stick with them even when the going gets tough? I can not "like" the actions of my child or my parents but it does not affect the love I feel for them.
just my opinion

Answer 9

Yes. That actually happens quite a lot in marriages. You have to work at it.

Answer 10

love is not just a feeling or emotion, it is an action. you need to work at it. you are probably just going through a rough spot, just stick with him and work it out whith him.