For the last few days, I have been talking to a lady, actually she is wife of friend of mine, who are seperated for the last few months, and I am a divorced guy for the last 3 and 1/2 years, both of us shared our past experience with our married life, which are very much similar to each other, probably it's a coincident. Now both of us getting close to each other, but I am confused what should I do, to my knowledge my friend and his wife wz 2kids getting divorced, by the way firstly I tried to solve it, but failed. What do u think I should do, I knw this will end up friendship of 25 yrs, and secondly I am getting weak on her, even though we haven't seen each other before. Lately what people wl think abt me, like my other friends and mostly my aged parents/bros/sis especially everyone. Any suggesstions..wl be appreciated
2006-11-06 10:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by fazlul k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
women come and go, a good friend is 4 ever!!!!!!
2006-11-06 10:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by outlaw2737 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe it would be wise for you to betray your friend like this. If one of your other friends were in your situation, would you support them? The only connection you have to this woman is that you both feel pain from a divorce. You need more than that to create a lasting relationship.
2006-11-06 10:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well for her sake wait until after the divorce, any sign or unfaithfulness may hurt her in court..After that who cares what others think, you and her have a right to happiness..
2006-11-06 10:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone! It will only end up trouble! If it doesn't work out you will lose a longstanding friendship. There's lots of other women i the world.
2006-11-06 10:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by penny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who is more important to you.......the wife or your friend? If you think she is more important, then marry her and to hell with your friend and family etc. Can you be happy marrying her and being at odds with your family? If the answer is yes, then go ahead.
2006-11-06 11:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you value friendship then leave the friends x alone. If you don't my friend it will come back to haunt you over and over
2006-11-06 11:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd stay away from that if I were you. What if it doesn't work out between the two of you and then you've lost her and your friend both.
2006-11-06 10:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait til the divorce is final and then talk to her
2006-11-06 10:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by govtagent_2001 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it worth breaking up your friendship for ever? Do you not care about your friend. Is she worth it? Can you stand yourself afterwards? There inlies your answer.
2006-11-06 10:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude its always Bro's before Ho's
never destroy a friendship over a piece of a$$
2006-11-06 10:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋