I have been working at my job for over a year. Me and the father of my child have been broken up for over a year. There is this young lady that he had been dating before me. I caught him cheating on me with her and he tried to fight me and say that he did not know her. I had a restraining order filed agasint him and wanted him to stay away from me. The girl that he said that she did not know came to court to be a witness for him and lie for him agasint me. 6 month after all this occured she came to my job and started working at my company. Now, these two just got married to weeks ago. I don't say anything to this girl she constantly tries to rub **** in my face. I just keep on. I have informed HR about her. I don't want her here. I have a higher position than she does, but the question still makes me wander did she follow me here? Is there something she needs from? Why won't she leave.
2006-11-06 10:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by hollie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like she's out to harass u. Keep your eyes open. She might try to ruin u. If she keeps on doing things to annoy u, u might want to consider filing for harassment charges on her.
2006-11-06 10:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probobly is a very insecure girl. Now that she is married to a guy that she knows has cheated in a previous relationship, she's worried that he will do it to her. Maybe if she feels that if she works with you, she can sort of keep an eye on you. Either that or she's just a crazy, wiered *****.
2006-11-06 18:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all use spell check. Secondly, to the point of your question I am sure that they are out to get you, they have nothing better to do in their relationship that follow you and ruin your day.
Love and hate are powerful emotions, the line between them is indifference, and that is even more powerful if you choose to use it. Ignore her, and I hope you are getting child support for the kid.
2006-11-06 18:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow she sounds very INSECURE so don't worry it will be on her mind for a very long time the DOUBT if you are still seeing her husband it will all be in her mind.So stay calm you get on with your life don't let that kind of person make you feel bad.
2006-11-06 18:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get some of your friends to kick her ***. Thats what I would do, that way it wont come back to you and this skank will get what she deserves..and she does deserve it for rubbing it in your face. Honestly I would lose it on her. Id probably smash her in the face as soon as she opened her mouth to rub it in my face.
2006-11-06 19:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not good that she is working at your company. However if she doesn't want to leave and you can't leave, there is not much you can do. The only thing you can do is not to talk to her and inform all your co-workers about her and that she is your "enemy"/someone you don't trust. so ask them not to divulge anything about you to her.
2006-11-06 19:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Candace not only is she a crazy weird ***** but she is afraid he may cheat on her with you.
I'd have a restraining order filed on her as well. its all sounding a little too crazy.
2006-11-06 18:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise above the situation.... act like an adult and ignore them... just think, you have better things to do than entertain their childish behavior...
2006-11-06 18:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋