My Gf..said me many times that,
1] if........I should leave her
2] If i am interested in someone else rather than her {when actually i was busy with my work]...i should leave her,
[3} if i dont im her.[when i am busy with something more important]. i should leave her,
and she would show she is super angry,and as if i have killed everyone on earth...I use to think ,if that is part of her nature I should accept her, be her punching bag, always be round her, so that her hands wont hurt if she punches someone{who dont care for her]
But....
1} it was her one mistake after 8 months ,
i just Shouted to check what she says .
2} I said her GET OUT OF MY LIFE..
3} She said she will follow my words..
and left has never shown yet....
WHY IT HAPPENED, like that
1}It took her -3-4 times to say me ...break our relationship...
STILL I always tried and kept saving our relationship,.
2} I JUST SAID ONCE..
and she has gone forever ?
whats wrong ? can anyone guess ?
2006-11-06 02:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First things first: if she left, then you don't want her back. Learn from this and move on.
Hard to say what was wrong from your description, but threats of leaving and telling someone to leave aren't signs of a healthy relationship.
Both partners need to respect one another. The male should be confident, supportive and affectionate while not being a doormat or punching bag. You both need to be flexible givers because relationships are about "give and take".
It sounds like she didn't feel appreciated. I don't know if this is because you didn't make an effort to show her she was appreciated every once in a while or not, if you didn't romance her every once in a while, if you changed for the worst and checked out of your relationship or not based on your description.
But if you really allowed yourself to become her punching bag, it doesn't matter if you did the other things that it takes to make a relationship work.
Chances are you screwed up, she screwed up, and it's time to learn from the experience and move on.
2006-11-06 02:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like she wanted out of the relationship but wanted you to be the one to end it so she manipulated you into ending it. Its over, move on, you deserve better.
2006-11-06 10:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are emotional beings and love attention even though are busy with your work u should have at least take five minutes and spend with her.
2006-11-06 10:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by classichristian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of hard to read...
But it sounds like she took advantage of you and your relationship.
2006-11-06 10:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I understood everything. I think you're being duped. Cut her loose ASAP.
2006-11-06 10:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a real challenge to read. Please write in sentences with proper spelling and grammar in order to receive accurate and sincere responses.
2006-11-06 10:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes' cheating on you, and wants you to end the relationship so she can be scot free.
2006-11-06 10:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you two are weird. you need to stay with each other
2006-11-06 11:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My head is totally sore now...WHAT????? Write normally please...............
2006-11-06 10:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋