This is a good person & Treats you good.
BUT does things that annoy the HELL OUT YOU let nail bitting, picking at their toes, and very clumsy. Would you stay or I'm I taking it too far????
2006-11-06 04:17:28 · 25 answers · asked by john doe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually things are the only things that bothers me. I HAVE NOT thought about cheating. These things just annoys with hell out me especially the constant nail biting.
2006-11-06 04:40:46 · update #1
You can discuss pet peeves with your mate. More often than none, people with annoying habits, don't realize they are doing it.
It just comes naturally to them and they do it without a thought.
Talk it through. It's not worth giving up a potentially good relationship based on the petty things
2006-11-06 04:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bugs you, let them know. If it becomes a big deal, it's not worth staying with the person. Communication is key when in a relationship of any sort. If you would let a sibling know then you should let them know. You'll be able to learn a lot from how people react to confrontation. But don't just point out the problem. Before-hand, come up with some possible solutions that would be viable by both of you. Good luck.
2006-11-06 04:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with him! But you have to do what's right for you. I think you may be over reacting just a little because everyone has flaws. Accepting a person's flaws is a part of loving that person unconditionally. At the end of the day the decision is yours to make, but from my perspective you are probably maximizing his shortcomings because "you're just not that into him!" So before you go any further in this relationship you should evaluate whether or not you are really into this person or are you are just with him because he's nice and he treats you well.
2006-11-06 04:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by rain_stars_clouds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is special to you (you love them deeply), then I would sit them down and discuss these things that annoy you. Ask this person if there is any way they can be LESS annoying...make sure to balance this negative out with a few positives though. If you truly love this person, let them know how you feel. Let them know that you are only discussing this with them because you have faith & trust in your relationship & want to keep them around.
If you don't SOLVE THE ISSUES, they will stick around to haunt you & you will end up so frustrated with them that you may even end up disliking them a LOT!!
If this person is a "fly by nighter", and you aren't really serious about them, then you can easily let them go & find someone you are more compatible with....There's my 2 cents....I hope it helps. Good luck & blessed be!!
2006-11-06 04:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really love this person, maybe you can work some of this stuff out? I mean, habits like nail biting can be overridden with some work. Have you let him/her know that it annoys you? Has he/she gone on without trying to change? If the two of you can work it out, maybe he/she can overcome some of his/her habits as long as you are patient with him/her. Good luck.
PS: I'd stay.
2006-11-06 04:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Matt I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one is unfaithful ... or even thinking about being unfaithful ... then every little thing the spouse does just irritates the h-ell out of one. ... If you love someone and want to stay with them, you learn to tolerate irksome but petty annoyances without getting bent out of shape. If you don't want to stay, your partner's behavior will never please you, no matter how perfect.
In short, only YOU know whether you want to stay or go, but be honest with yourself -- it's NOT about toe picking or clumsy.
2006-11-06 04:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has pros and cons about themselves. There is no such thang as a perfect man or woman and you will find fault with whomever you get with. If you trade this model in because of his bad habits..you will only be trading in one set of bad habits for another and the next set could really be worse.
2006-11-06 04:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the good outwieghs the bad, then you should stay with them no matter what...especially if you love them. I am sure you have things about you that they don't like. Look at it this way: you could be with someone who is good-looking, has no bad habits, but treats you like shite. Which would you rather have? Good luck! :)
2006-11-06 04:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most couples infuriate each other at times, so if you are with someone who only sometimes annoys you, you are very fortunate indeed. Hang onto this person. Don't let him/her go. You may never find another.
2006-11-06 04:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Cptn. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is something more that bugging you then those annoying habits...if you really love her you will work on seeing past the little bad habits..what do you want and is there something you aren't dealing with???
2006-11-06 04:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋