She just doesn't look like what she used to and I can't bare the sight of what has become of her, this has driven me to cheat on her and I feel bad about it, but what can I do, she's not what she was.
2006-11-06 04:30:12 · 51 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please talk to a trusted friend, clergyman or counselor about your feelings. If you make this grave mistake, you will regret it.
2006-11-06 04:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by ragged 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look at all the pissy women... lol
it's funny that this sort of question gets much different results from the ladies if its a "neglected" housewife who found a hot guy that can still stand the sight of her.
i know how you feel though, my ex wife was a disgusting pig. she just got fatter and fatter, and bitchier too.
i used to get sick to my stomach with guilt because i just couldnt stand to be around her at all.
eventually she left me for another guy, who lives in a different state than she does now even though they're still married.
just dont fake it anymore, there's always some dumbass out there who will tolerate anything so long as he gets to finally have sex with a real woman.
fat girls are all the same, im sure she blames all the problems on you anyway, and she'll leave you willingly as soon as the oppurtunity arises.
until then, no diet and exercise = no sex. if she gets an attitude about it ... oh well.
if her hygiene is also bad which is usually the case, thats pretty much an outright insult and there is no need to sugarcoat your feelings about it.
2006-11-08 06:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by THEMENACE47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are such a jerk. Your wife will have the baby, lose the weight and go back to looking great. You obiously don't give a crap about your child and don't deserve to be a father. Your wife will get over you , get custody, and child support, you will get to see your kid every other weekend if you are lucky and miss out on so much in their life. I hate men like you. You are a nasty scumbag. I just feel sorry for that innocent little baby inside your wifes womb, who desrves to have a real man for a father. I hope you balls rot off!
2006-11-06 06:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your not what u once were either!! i'm sure everything on you is starting to droop, or not work at all!!!
And you leaving your wife , I hope u don't ever get to see the baby, that she has. She will probably kick your *** out!!! And has all rights too!!! As for cheating, you should of never gotten married!!! To, love honor, cherish, guess that was all a joke!!!
2006-11-06 07:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r the worst man i have ever heard of.Its so shameful to leave the woman who is pregnant because of ur deeds and that too only because she has lost the graceful body.In fact u should keep her more happy and get ready for a new world with ur wife and child.
2006-11-06 04:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by coolest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you souldn't have gotten her pregnant. If you loved her you would have her go to a gym or something with you as an activity you guys do together if you don't like her current appearance but she is pregnant now and this will stress her out bad. I feel bad for her. You should have had a discussion with the way things were before you cheated and before you got her pregnant. Your a great guy
2006-11-06 04:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is really low, how could you even speak of her like that to people on here! She is having your child and she doesnt look like she use to!?!?!?! In your eyes she should be the most gorgeous creature in the world, wake up smell the roses, now why would anyone give you advice on how to leave your pregnant wife? I dont think your going to get any!
2006-11-06 04:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lin_82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello? Women's bodies do change when they are carrying children. How could they not? Society has bombarded us with images of airbrushed women who look "perfect" so real women can't possibly compete - who could? It's funny though because the men who judge women like this, never look that great themselves. They are usually below average looking, with plain, boring faces, and they have body issues - but they act like they look like Jude Law or something. Start appreciating your wife and other women for other things besides their looks. We have brains and things to contribute in life besides just being physical objects for men to gawk at and judge. And remember she's carrying your child. So if you must hurt her, respect her in the process and be kind to her and don't waste her time.
2006-11-06 04:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa R. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have never got married.
You are ignorant.
It is obvious that you have nothing good to offer anyone.
Get out of this marrage right away and do your wife a favor.
Getting you out of her life is the best thing that could happen to her.
Take a good look in the mirror and what do you really see?
You make me want to vomit.
2006-11-06 04:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, neither are you. (the same as you used to be, in case you couldn't figure that out) You sound like a spoiled brat. You never learned how to spell, and nothing drove you to cheat except your own illicit, selfish, demeanor. You are a sad, sad excuse of a man and I would be embarrassed to know you and I thank God that I don't.
2006-11-06 04:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by ladydi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you 10 years old?
Do the woman and the child a favor and leave them now so that a REAL MAN can move in and treat them with the dignity and loyalty they deserve.
2006-11-06 04:48:46 · answer #11 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋