At first I thought this person must be young to be asking this question. Then I saw your other question. Part of your religion is having an arranged marriage. So that's why you don't know how to tell your parents that you've met someone you've fell in love with and want to marry. There's no other way then just coming out and telling them. You have to eventually stand up to them. You might wanna start now. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-06 04:03:22
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answered by chellywu2 2
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Well, if you're still a teenager and want to get married...tell yourself that you're not ready yet until you finish school. Your parents definately don't want to hear that you're inlove and want to get married before you receive a high school diploma. High School Diploma comes first before love. Remember that and tell your friends that, wether they like it or not. If you still love this guy, after high school, and if he feels the same about you, then is when you may ask your parents for their blessings. You need to prepare your future before you get involved with someone. Focus on yourself first. Believe me, once you sart a relationship with someone, he's all you're going to be thinking of and you forget what's more important in your life...which is YOU, girl. You're important. Don't lose focus on yourself. Prepare yourself economically, so you can be independant. You don't want to have to depend on your boy-friend/parents all your life. Don't get married until you know you can afford your own place just incase it doesn't work out between the 2 of you. If you both love eachother, take your time in getting married. Don't rush into anything. You have to use time to really get to know eachother. Even if you think you know him, trust me, you don't know the half yet. I wish you well. Good luck, girl.
2006-11-06 04:02:43
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answered by Lisa2006 3
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The proper way is that his parents (of the person you want to marry) should contact your parents and request for the new relation. Because arranged marriages are always better than prompt and non-base marraiges.
Please dont take any risk. You know well that this life is very very short and temporary. Always obey your parents. Bcoz if you dont obey them, then yours kids will obey you as well and think of that situation how much will you be upset and disturbed. Therefore, deal each and every issue of life thru them.
2006-11-06 04:07:00
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answered by MY Regards to All 4
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Marriages are made in HEAVEN. God created love mankind created Marriages, so how come they're amde in heaven? Do u particularly think of that he's the guy whom you prefer to get married and characteristic a outstanding relatives? If definite then tell your mum and dad. look fro the suitable timing. and tell them. escpecially while they're in sturdy temper. faith is a reason the worldwide is breaking up into products. yet do no longer enable that be a reason the marriage shouldn't happen.Are you waiting to transform urself to his faith? no longer a ought to for that to happen. yet no count what happens, i advise you to no longer run and get married. without elders blessing you will no longer stay happy. Have braveness to tell your mum and dad this and be greater coureageous to stand them. sturdy success.
2016-10-15 10:50:34
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answered by ? 4
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I guess first you have to introduce your parents to your boyfriend. Then they will know that you are in love with someone.
Next when he propose to you, you will know when and how to tell your parents.
In turn they may be the one asking you when are you getting married if they know that the guy is someone they willing to give their daughter to.
2006-11-06 03:56:40
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answered by Robin 2
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You must be to young to marry if you are asking how to tell your parents you want to marry him.
2006-11-06 03:54:18
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answered by Premo Mom 5
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Just like you stated...
Sit them down, tell them that you love the man and that you want to marry him.
By the way, I hope that you're not a teen...otherwise, you should wait until your older before taking that kind of huge step.
2006-11-06 03:54:06
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answered by Royalhinney 7
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I agree with Mike. He should follow proper etiquette, and ask your father's permission for your hand. You can both visit your parents after you are engaged to make a formal announcement.
2006-11-06 03:55:12
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answered by Bill 3
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I think I would just try to calm myself and tell them i need to talk to them and then when i have there attention I would be like you guys i am in love and i want to marry him and hif they don't like it then they can kiss my butt!
2006-11-06 03:55:53
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answered by button31_us 1
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Hell tell them sincerely the same way you ask us about the question, they are your parents you would know them much better than anyone out here in yahoo! answers land...
2006-11-06 03:54:12
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answered by lasugarfree 4
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