2006-11-06 04:24:17 · 21 answers · asked by tinkkherbell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love him, you have to trust him. That is a big part of the relationship, trust. If you can't trust what someone is telling you, then you should not be in that relationship.
2006-11-06 04:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by bam.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation - did he leave his wife for you? Are you involved with a man who has been divorced for a short while? I'm not sure of the situation but I'd say the best bet is to discuss it with him. Tell him that you are concerned he is not over his wife and that you aren't sure his feelings for you are sincere - I'm sure you will get the reassurance you are looking for. Only you can tell if he is telling you the truth or not.
2006-11-06 12:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Don't Feed the Trolls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were having an affair while he was married to his wife, then you're never going to know. That would make both of you cheaters and liars - never being able to trust each other. Sorry, but that's the truth. Any relationship that starts with one or both people being married to someone else and is based on cheating, lying, and deception is doomed. If this is how your relationship started, do yourself a huge favor and find someone who is not married. Otherwise both of you will spend years of your life in misery because there cannot be any trust between the two of you.
2006-11-06 12:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many variables on this one. Is he in fact divorced, or merely separated? Did he start a relationship with you while still being married and or separated? Is he leaving his wife for you? Any yes answers, I would hit the ground running and find another love interest.
2006-11-06 12:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by beeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can never be over her... just as you are never going to be over your past lovers...that always hold a special place in the heart..no matter how ugly it got at the end.... Don't waste your time dwelling on it...be positive and show him your love so that he won't have a chance to reflect on the past... Spread your wings and let him come inside... it works.
2006-11-06 12:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by jnmcmlln 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't be sure by just asking him. So give it time and his actions will show if he is sincere or not.
2006-11-06 12:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. How long has he been divorced/widowed? How long have you two been together? Does the amount of time for both those things seem reasonable to you, for him to be expressing whatever level of feeling he is currently expressing to you?
If not, then proceed with caution (if you proceed at all)...
2006-11-06 12:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still a wife huh.
well untill she's an ex-wife...he's not over her yet.
and sometimes it can take years for people to move on from a marriage.
2006-11-06 12:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by jagergirl_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All interpersonal relationships involve a certain amount of risk. You have to be willing to make the necessary leap of faith.
2006-11-06 12:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if he talk about his ex all the time and mention how they mess they married up that a sign for you to leave him other then that nothing to worried about
2006-11-06 12:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋