Yesterday morning I went out and came home a couple hours later at 11 am. Anyway, my wife is in a tizzy and all upset at me. The weird thing was that when I asked her, "Whats bothering you last night you went to bed in a good mood, what changed?". She just beat around the bush but couldn't articulate it i.e. "such and such is why I am upset". She couldn't zero in on what it was until the evening.
2006-11-06 03:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can relate to your wife. At times I find myself so busy, both in life and in my head... I don't realize that things have upset me until I am 'cranky'. If I become upset, and don't realize why, it does take some time for me to process it. Sometimes it may even take a day to sort out why I feel the way I do. So if your wife gets upset and "beats around the bush", just give her time to process it, and maybe ask her again before you go guys to bed. That way you really get some good time to talk about it.
2006-11-06 03:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing, but even then, I don't know why I am in that mood. Maybe she had a dream, maybe she wanted you to stay home(whether you had any choice to go out or not). Maybe by the time you asked her what was wrong, she may have forgotten because it was so minor. I would not let it bother you. What did she say it was later that evening? Either way, good luck! :)
2006-11-06 11:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wanted you last night after you both went to bed, then you did nothing, of course, she would upset. I think you just tell her' darling, I love you... ' and look at her eyes... give her a big hot kiss. she will be fine after it.. I am sure.
2006-11-06 11:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did something and are not aware of it (obviously) she feels like you don't understand her enough and aren't on the same page. She wants you to know what you did instead of her always bringing it up.
I know I know, men and women are different but your great for being concerned.
2006-11-06 12:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's angry that you can't figure out why she's angry. It's a weird time travel paradox sort of thing that women like to do. Just turn on your cloaking field and try to enjoy the rest of the day.
2006-11-06 11:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Steven S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes, we are so upset that we need time to calm down or we'll go off. Be thankful that she didn't just blow up during the moment.
2006-11-06 11:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A woman is something that is confussing and most of the time guys will never understand us. Just like we will never understand why men are like they are. hahaha I do the sammmmmeeee thing!
2006-11-06 11:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the wifes get upset sometimes because they don't like to be left a home by themselfs
2006-11-06 11:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
us women, we don't always know why we are upset. Just give her some love and care, she will be fine!
2006-11-06 11:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was mad at you and needed time to process why exactly she was mad . By the time it came up again she wasn't mad ! Encourage her to always talk to you if something is on her mind this won't happen again.
2006-11-06 11:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋