what is others views on liars?

Question

anyone out there tell me if this is a low act i just in the last few weeks got divorce as the woman i call her that because to call her a lady would be totally wrong but anyhow we got married 5 years ago because i thought we was both in love well one of us was anyhow and maybe one have a child of our own but after all this time i found out 10 months through a friend of hers that she could not have children that she had the female op many years earlier but no way she buys the female items no honey you need to know cannot have kids & she only married you for the money you came across from australia with my Q is should i be angry or what for living out her lie for the 5 yrs of being with her or just put it down to yet another kick in the GUT
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ps by the way i did ask her was all this true all i got was you fool i wondered how long you would take i never loved you was there for the money babe is all i got but i guess as the old saying goes in heaven we are judge

Answer 1

Keep in mind that many men are used just like that by biological women. Be glad that you got out when you did. Technology today is designed to fool people . It was wrong on many accounts and I feel bad for you. However, it is great that you did find out and got out of that bad situation. Have you seen an attorney? Find out if you can sue the @ss off of him. Hit him in the pocket.
If you can't then you must move on and don't blame yourself. I had my uterus removed for health reasons and can't get pregnant any more. There are many women just like me so there isn't any reason why you would have doubted his sex when he lied to you if for all intents and purposes his body was altered to be like a woman's. It isn't your fault don't beat yourself up. Just chalk it up to marrying a gold-digger and make a new life for yourself.

Answer 2

Sounds like you were tricked, I would have divorced her also.
She has wasted 5 years of your life, you could have had a child by now. If she had been honest with you in the beginning, the two of you could have worked things out and maybe adopted a child together. I would have been angry also, you did the right thing by dumping that liar.
Good Luck.

Answer 3

I can't stand lying. My fiancee lied or as he put it, just mislead me, cause I didn't ask the right questions, when we first got together. I told him, that better be the last time or I will be out the door. I do not cope well with lying, that is the biggest no-no in my book. I think to this day he has told me the truth, but of course you never really know. I trust him, so I am sure he has, not only that, he doesn't want to lose me. I can't believe that she hid the fact she couldn't have kids, that just blows my mine, especially knowing you wanted them. That is just nuts.

Answer 4

very tough. Have you asked her what is going on? The friend may not be acting in your best interests. I would verify with your partner, and if it is true try and talk to her about it. It will be very tough and I feel for you buddy. Take care.

Answer 5

oh that ain't even right! she walked you right into this trap! she may have loved you , maybe enough to pull the wool right over your eyes! you should be angry with her over this! a lady can still be tied or cut and still heave her monthly. she was so wrong to do this to you! if it is just cut or tied...she can have reverse serg. done and still bare childern! if she had a complete done , she can't have it done.

Answer 6

isnt it obvious. your speech means that you should be angry.
but thats in your opinion.
for me, i think you should explain and come to terms with the people you mentioned.

Answer 7

What good will it do you to stew and be angry? Let it go.