Please help me i m in deep trouble because of a girl?

Question

i lov a girl since last 5 years she also loves me but our marriage is never possible due to her parents now she doesnt talk to me.she is worried that i will commit suicide because i had told her if she can't marry me i will end my life.these days i m so much tensed that i started drinking wine and may be i will commit suicide plz help me.

Answer 1

u r a brave man, There are many ways to commit suicide, but u have to decide, how u want to die. Peacefully or painfully.
If u die peacefully then u will suffer even after death, but if u suffer painfully u will rest in peace.

since 5 yrs ur in love, but still she doesnt have guts to come with u. May be there is some problem with u, u could not give her so much love, that she wants. she should have felt that if i miss him, i would be missing everything in my life.
ok , now lets come to the point.

Never try to get her with help of sympathy, always talk bold, give wise solutions, let her choose. Say only one thing, what u do i accept it, but never take any decision, which seperates u from me.....................

Answer 2

If you are not marry that girl, there is no end for your life. If you commit suicide there your life ends. There are so many things to do in this world. Love failure is common. You are not going to get anything from drinking wine or committing suicide. You have to make up your mind. You can live your life MOST joyfully without that girl. You have to show her how strong you are. If she rejects you, she has to repent some other day for rejecting such a nice person like YOU. Life is very short don't make it shorter. It is very sweet, don't make it darker.

WORLD IS BEAUTIFUL OPEN YOUR EYES AND BE HAPPY.

Answer 3

Escapism is not a way. While you are taking alcohol you have selected this way. Take a deep breath and think patiently what to do? I suggest to speak to the girl openly whether she was ready for a risk. If she was ready then OK. Otherwise patiently imagine if you were in a middle of a fire you could not see any escape route what you will do or you were in a burning train that is running fast. You have no option than to suffer it. If she was not ready try to forget it and look new ways

Answer 4

Okay, you sound very depressed, and sad and confussed, you feel that your arent loved you arent appreciated or accepted, but hey, if you have been together for five years and her parents doensnt approved, shouldnt you talk to them and find out what you can do to get their approval. Maybe it is just something little that they dont approve of, but to end your life your are unfair towards yourself and your girl if you do that does the wine truly satisfy you noooooooooooo, you end up feeling worse, get up go out look at the sky and know that you are am amazing person and that you will prove it to her parents and take a shower you'll feel beter and dont cry anymore and drink WATER.

Answer 5

A long time ago, a guy asked me out whom i didn't really like in that way, and i was totally smittened with a good friend of mine. But because i didn't think he was that into me, i went out with this other guy. BIG MISTAKE!!! Because i never had real feelings for this guy, i was always miserable, and then come to find out, my friend, the one i lkied so much, liked me back! I ended up having a horrible relationship with a guy for about a year and a half and when i finally left him, he became a phsyco, and i had to get a restraining order. Moral of the story- Dont settle for someone you don't really connect with. you will highly regret it.

Answer 6

You have courage to love, you should try to face the hurdles also. You should try to convince the parents of the girl and assure them that u will take care of her properly. I dont know whether u are an employed or unemployed, if u are unemployed then no one will come forward for marriage, if u are employed atleast by assurance of the job, any assets, or properties they may come forward, for the same. Simply by saying I LOVE U, will not give u food, first u should be self employed to feed her then only any one will accept for the same.

Answer 7

My dear Friend, if ur marriage is not possible then why r u waisting ur time. whatever, the girl doing with u that is perfectly fine. And why to do suicide. Look, life is very presious don't waste it like that enjoy yur life. If one goes that dosen't mean life is end.

The rule of the life is that if one goes from yur life than definitely someone came into your life.

Just wait & watch.

Answer 8

Drinking and suicide threats are a very big warning to her about your maturity and mental stability. I am not trying to be ugly to you but you are acting very childish.
You need to straighten up your act and work and make something of yourself. Your life should depend on you and not a girl. You need to develope some interests and some self esteem and confidence and stop the head games.

Answer 9

Just think....is it worth giving your life for a girl whom you say loved you for 5 years but is going to marry someone else for the sake of their parents?? You too have parents right?? If you dont get hold of the gal whom you love go for another gal are stay single and prove your love...else ask the gal to be stubborn with her parents if nothing helps talk to her groom!! All the Best :)

Answer 10

Hey there are many in this boat with us my friend. You have to think of the friends and family that need you in their lives, and get off of that booze it ages you and makes you unattractive to everything. The answer isn't in the bottom of the bottle or the edge of a blade. Its in the strength of character you will have once you brave through and overcome. Don't let life and love defeat you, you have to conquer it in order to receive the victory your heart longs for in life.
-NmD!