2006-11-06 22:34:13 · 19 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like your ex was more than ready to move on; perhaps you should do the same.
2006-11-06 22:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God only knows... Why did my estranged husband find it necessary after we split up to sleep with my daughter's childminder, to move in within within a matter of weeks get engaged, marry her and screw my baby's head up???
We're funny creatures and there is no answer to why we behave in the way we do. She could be on the rebound but could also be in love. Unfortunately now your are separated you cant chose who she has in the house. Do you pay for the house? If you do stop it, why should you pay for them both to live together, if there serious he should be contributing to the household. Do you have children? You can still provide for your children without paying for the house!
Maybe its time to get a solicitor/lawyer involved, someone that is qualified to deal with these matters for you, it's never easy but you need that support.
All the best and keep smiling :-)
2006-11-06 22:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be for many reasons. However, the reason it bothers you is because of your ego. I've come to know that most people that post questions here are descent folk. Knowing that my guess is your a descent guy so try, and this is very hard I know, not to let it bother you. Because if her doing that bothers you you're just missing out on enjoying other things in life.
When I say to try and shrink your ego I'm not implying that yours is too big but rather that if you shrink it to the point where even someone walking out on you is not about your feels but rather about that person's misguided behaviour. The pain of morning or any other stupidity she'll do won't bother you as much.
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-06 22:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it's not like you left for the weekend, you abandoned the property and left it's upkeep and financial responsibility to your 'husband'. You would be considered trespassing and he could have you removed. Believe me, the first things to get changed when you started living with another man were the locks on the doors.
2016-05-22 07:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still married to her, charge her with adultery, use their togetherness to your advantage and don't let her get away with a no fault divorce. There is a good chance she was balling that man before the two of you ever split anyway. Women look for security from men mostly, unless they are just sluts. The law has a loophole in it, if she files for legal separation, she can still be married to you and live with him and some use those credit cards to abuse you because legally you are still responsible for any joint accounts or debts. Forget her!
2006-11-06 22:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have read some of the other answers and I have to disagree with most of them. I myself split with my ex husband and in 2 1/2 months I had my current husband move in with me in the house that I shared with my ex. My feelings were.....my ex and I were done, the marriage was over, I met my husband that I have now 2 months after I split with my ex and we hit it off.......it was honestly love at first sight....I did not know him before hand. He moved in, I got my divorce, we married right after.......it is 6 years later and I would do it all over again the exact same way. I guess your wife is over you and she is just moving on.......why waste time, life is short. That isn't saying anything bad about you of course, maybe you should move on with your life also......good luck and don't take it personal, maybe she just feels that the two of you are done.
2006-11-07 03:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she's doing is flaunting her victory in front of you. It's working because it really bothers you. If you and she are divorced and she was granted in the decree the marital residence; basically you should just shut your eyes and move on!
By letting this information bother you shows you are not over the divorce---and you really need to put your emotional attachments to the marriage behind you!
2006-11-06 22:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does that really matter? It is over. You cannot control her or her boyfriend. It may have been your home at one time, but since the relationship is over, it is not "YOUR" home anymore. If you are paying for it, stop and get a lawyer..That is what you can control. Get on with your life. Good luck.
2006-11-06 23:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuse she wanted to live with him and she could.
Once you left it was hers to did with what she wanted. Which is why any lawyer, hell anyone with any sense will tel you never leave the house without a settlement.
2006-11-06 23:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wouldn't feel comfortable performing marital acts anywhere but her marital bedroom. Sneak in and join them one time, he'll leave.
2006-11-06 22:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋