Ladies is it true that it is always that special ex boyfriend u still keep in your heart?

Question

I mean like is it that one ex boyfriend that all the others men u have dated have not compared to him and now do u realize how special that person was to u and i know u date a lot of men in your life but is it just one man that u still think about even if u are in a new relationship. Any body have any experience with this matter please let me know about it.

Answer 1

I think that everyone has someone special that they hold dear. I always remember the first MAN who treated me like a lady unquestioning, at all times and without hesitation. I will always remember him as the man that showed me what it truly meant for a man to treat you like a treasured lady. We didn't work out, but we are still friends and I cherish the time that we spent together and I don't regret a single second of it!

Answer 2

I use to have that one guy that broke my heart and I couldn't get over. I dated him 6 yrs ago. That was until my fiancee came into my life 11 months ago. As soon as he came along the ex was booted from my mind. I have forgot all of my ex-loves, cause it turns out, I was comparing the guys I dated to the wrong guy. I should have been comparing them to my fiancee. Every time I started dating someone, people would say, yall aren't going to make it, cause you are not as happy as you were with him. Then when they asked me about the fiancee, I would tell them that he is so much more than the ex. Have a good day!!

Answer 3

Oh yes,there is this one special guy whom I will always keep close to my heart.It was years ago but feels like it was just yesterday.I can still remember his smile and hear his voice.The thing that kept him close was the fact that when we did decide to go our seperate ways,there was no hard feelings for both of us.It was the kind of relationship where there was no expectations,we understood each others needs and there was no pressure.And as much as we liked each other,we accepted that our time together was over and that we were still both young to expect each other to make lifetime commitments.And now and again,we still see each other,its more of a friendship now....but he will always be my baby.We neva exchanged the words of love and the relationship never got physical but I think thats also what made it so memorable.If I could change anything (like to be with him now) I wouldnt....Just the memories will do.Sweet sweet memories!

Answer 4

I know I have the one that got away. It's been 20 years and he still consumes my thoughts. I am married to someone else and not a day goes by that I don't think about this other person. Sometimes I still hope that when we are older and kids are grown we will find each other in some way. I haven't laid eyes on him for 20 years when suddenly this fall I have to see him once a week, and I see that he hides from me. He's a police officer that is security at my son's football games. I keep telling myself he wouldn't hide from me if he didn't care something about me.

Answer 5

i think we all have someone in our past that we can't seem to get out of our hearts or mind. the problem is they get better and better with age and memory rather than the reality of who they really are. understand that you had a good time and good memories but its time to live in the present rather than the past. there may be a awful lot of good guys out there you are dating but you are comparing them to the perfect memory of the ex you have in your mind. consider this...if he was so perfect and so special why is he an ex? meaning there had to be problems there too. hang in there , mr. right will come along and the ex will be nothing more than a pleasant memory.

Answer 6

Yes, there is always one person who you'll never forget, sometimes it's your first (lover) but sometimes it's just someone who who connected with maybe your soul mate. I'm 40 years old and I'm in a great relationship but there is someone from my past that holds a very special place in my heart.... and always will.

Answer 7

For me, it isn't my ex-boyfriend. It is my brothers friend. He was my go-to guy for everything. He had a girlfriend at the time (they are married now) and she hated me because me and him were so close. To this day, I carry a picture of him, the only picture I have, around in my wallet. I've compared every guy I've known to him, and nobody's the same. He was my built in date for dances, my fishing buddy, and my "Saturday night with nothing to do" movie date.And he never said no to me. I was the little sister he never had (he was the baby of his family.)

Answer 8

i don't think its as simple as that. obviously you hold memories of ex's as you woudl of any other people that you have known. and the time that we usually look back on them in favour is when things are going slow or wrong in our current relationship (or life in general). memories are very self-serving - i.e. they store happy/good information more than the bad stuff, so when you recall you remember the good times you had with ex. at such times when u begin to wonder whether breaking up was teh best idea, force yourself to recall why u did it and some of teh less good times and you'll probably realise that he wasnt that fab after all! and that the decision to not be with him was the right one for you.
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Answer 9

I think it's quite common for women to have that one special person they hold in their hearts. Even though we marry someone else, we never forget the one who touched our souls. I do have one like that and he will always be dear to me. I wouldn't have married him even if he asked, but I will never forget him and how he made me feel as a person and most importantly as a woman.

Answer 10

yes my one ex is very special to me but now it isn't like romance like anymore he is more like a best friend and i just watch him get married he is the one who took my jhusband out for a bachlor party when we were married and is the god father to my daughter so just because you dated someone and it didn't work out it doesn't mean there isn't a place in your heart for them.