Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2006

Its been 5 months since me and my partner split up,and its been hard.I still carnt stop thinking about her.I know its sad but she is the first thing i think about in the morning and the last thing i think about at night,and i dream about her when i sleep.We was togeather over 7 years and we have a son together,she "lets" me see my son for a couple of hours a month at a contact center which isnt enough,but she wants all controll of him.She shafted me out of my home and took all our belongings that we had built up over 7 years.We were not married.It feels like this void in my life will not go away and when i think it is getting better i see her again at the contact center and it all comes flooding back.She and my son were my life and my soul,and i know there is just no going back.
Does it get any better or does the pain ease?

2006-11-12 23:53:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

seem to sink in now i ve met a guy off the net who wants to give me all this what should i do i cant be unhappy forever surley please help xx

2006-11-12 23:52:54 · 7 answers · asked by mel s 1

He is very jellouse and he fusses that I wear nice tight fitting close I have three children and I think that I still have a nice body well other have said it to How can I get him to quit being so jellouse and let me feel beautiful?

2006-11-12 23:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by crazy blonde & beautiful 1

2006-11-12 23:51:36 · 16 answers · asked by neutral 2

Why marry when liveing together dont cost so much and if she or he takes off then no need to worry abot divoce

2006-11-12 23:44:31 · 9 answers · asked by jccred7 1

2006-11-12 23:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by jlrgds 3

How do you know when you're no longer in love with a person? Being in love is different than just loving someone but what are those differences?

2006-11-12 23:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by C Greene 3

I was married last year.Im having a 4 months kid .My wife was very affectionate to me and so was I.After she getting pregnant she started to feel insecure,started complaining that I would hate her after the baby is born.She was very depressed inspite of me explaning things. She doesn't like when I try to pick my baby for a while.Im very affectionate for her as always but she wouln't believe me. She is crying day by day and recently she is saying that she will commit sucide and often she is scratching her hands with a knife trying to commit sucide. She behaves normally at some point of time but after a while she repeats the same.Off late her thoughts have become more worse that she doesn't like even if Im speaking to parents. She feels insecure and says that I will hate her slowly and leave her alone at some point. I have spoke to her thousand times and explained things.I'm very concerned for her. I dont know what to do? Please help me.Should I consult a psychiatrist if so which doctor?

2006-11-12 23:22:09 · 12 answers · asked by Annoyed 1

if you are married and having cybersex and phone sex with another married person, is it an affair and how should you end it ifyou think it is getting too far? Never did it physically nor would

2006-11-12 23:10:18 · 25 answers · asked by a a 1

How do you end a internet fling when you feel it is getting out of control...never met in person, but it is getting more in depth with conversation and both are married?

2006-11-12 22:44:40 · 35 answers · asked by tundrastomer 1

2006-11-12 22:35:17 · 10 answers · asked by montra74 1

he needs his space to live, meet friends he desires, talk to people he likes but for me he does not give me my space. i am the detached type and he is the contrary always seeking attention from me. often i feel suffocated of this attitude and behaviour. pls advise

2006-11-12 22:32:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 22:30:15 · 13 answers · asked by paul c 1

I jst want a general opinion.. guys n girls..

2006-11-12 22:29:41 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you are constantly looking for a significant other to make you happy, is this healthy? Surely this can only lead to disaster

2006-11-12 22:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by pill j 1

This is our second marriage for both of us. My husband had a great offer to work abroad and make a huge amount of money years ago which would have given us a head start for our future. I supported him and followed him where ever his work took him although it was hard i was happy to do it on the hope that this would give us and our children a good future. He lied to me about how much money he was putting towards our savings and i found out that years of travel had been a complete waste of time he gambled about $150.000 if not more on horses over the internet. It wasn't easy but i forgave him, and thought we would start over. Since then he has built up debt after debt with each amount of huge debt there are huge amount of lies, although he says he has stopped gambling he over spends on, i dont know what. He says he lies because he is scared of me and makes me out to be a horrid person, yes i yell after the fact and i think i have every right to yell. He is in councelling !!

2006-11-12 22:18:25 · 16 answers · asked by angel 2

2006-11-12 22:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by one_hot_chick5 1

Because I feel so guilty about having those dreams.

2006-11-12 22:13:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 22:06:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my partner for 4 yrs almost & we've certainly had our ups & downs, we have 3 lovely children together but I'm not happy. Splitting up with him would mean my children miss out on precious times with their dad, obviously they would still see him but not as much. I don't trust him, I never have but that was down to me as I got very insecure whilst pregnant with our first child & it just hasn't gone away.

Has anyone else been in the same situation or are in this situation now? I don't know whether to give it a go or just cut our losses now, we would still be friends if we were to split!

2006-11-12 21:57:51 · 18 answers · asked by C Greene 3

i did think he was cheating until i found all the web sites. What do i do or say

2006-11-12 21:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by miss unsure 1

Message: "Had fun. E. "
There was a sexy devil emoticon after it. She doesn't know I looked at her phone, but I was just trying to be nosy. Think she may have had sex with another guy, but not sure what the E. part means. This text was one she sent to one of her girlfriends after she went out with her "friend". I think it might mean "everything"? Not really sure though. Tried to find an online text message jargon dictionary, but didn't really come up with much. Please let me know what you think.

2006-11-12 21:53:03 · 38 answers · asked by cohrsman 1

I'll keep this description short, in point form...

This man is leaving his wife of 6 years.
They have a 2 year old son.
The man has multiple disabilities.
He says that his wife is no longer interested in him.
He wanted her the way she was before their son was born.
She is a very focused person.
Before the child was born, all her focus was on him.
Now, all her focus is on the boy.
People say the man is a very difficult person to live with, requiring a lot of attention.

I have my own ideas, but I would like to get other people's perspectives on this situation.

Thanks

2006-11-12 21:51:38 · 16 answers · asked by Balaboo 5

I desperately need to fall out of love, before it turns into obsession. This has never happened to me before. I fell for a complete stranger. I don't know anything about him, but that doesn't matter anyway, we can not be together. I can't get him out of my head! I fall asleep & wake up thinking about him. It's been going on for months. First I thought I would get over him... eventually, but it's not happening. HELP!

2006-11-12 21:48:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when do you know that you have a problem with drink.i dont drink every day but when i start i dont want to stop.my wife thinks i have a problem but i have always denied it.i think its affecting our relationship,but how do you get away from drinking when all your friends drink and socialise.

2006-11-12 21:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says I am too large for her and I will hurt her. I just cant understand her and cant force myself on her. Is she being unfaithful?

2006-11-12 21:46:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met an amazing girl about four months ago, who I had been speaking to over the phone for 3 months. I asked her to marry me on the day I met her, and we married a month later. I know we can both be criticised for being impulsive and foolish, or alternatively praised for being romantic and spontaneous, but my question is not about that. We both love each other a lot and she is really an amazing character, with just the kind of loving, intelligent, refined and fun personality I could wish for in a wife. However, the physical attraction between us is fading fast. We look at each other sometimes and the spark we had in those first few days is not there, and we are having sex less and less, although there is still some attraction there. I think the relationship is becoming more like brother and sister rather than husband and wife. Should we persist with the marriage or get it annulled, which we can still do? Whatever happens we will be lifelong friends.

2006-11-12 21:14:55 · 16 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1

2006-11-12 21:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by suvada7 1

He now makes a ton of money and has met someone else and he says he will take care of me forever,

2006-11-12 20:49:56 · 4 answers · asked by yourfancyismyfreedom 1

2006-11-12 20:44:56 · 3 answers · asked by Pauline P 1