Grieving the loss of an ideal marriage with children. Many lies, pornography, tobacco, a 6 mos weekend warrior bout, he almost left us once 3 yrs ago Now in marriage counseling. Just confessed has been secretly gambling for 3 years, has cheated 3 times, all one-night stands, once before our wedding, none in last 7 years and lied about where we could live for 10 years even though I wanted to be near my family. The list goes on. I'm an educated woman, not stupid but he is a very good liar. He is getting help and we are getting help but I never imagined my life would be like this. Don't know what future holds.
Grief 2: I got over my one true love when I met my husband. However, his memory has come back now. I've contacted him despite my better sense. I got some answers I needed: he did love me and he felt it would have worked had we been able to stay together then. Now, he too is married and with children. I pray that he is happy and makes a good spouse.
I need comfort!
2006-11-15
21:13:36
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