Marriage & Divorce - 15 November 2006

Recently I met this guy when I was taking the class. He came on strong but learned that I am married. I feel the chemistry quite strong also and he's a great guy. What do people do when situation like this happens? I don't know what to do..HELP!

2006-11-15 17:16:48 · 22 answers · asked by xyz 4

I have been dating my soon to be husband for 5 1/2 years we are getting married in 2008. He has a brother my age and they treat his brother like a god. His brother can't do no wrong. Well last year his brother and girlfiend got pregnant and then had a shotgun wedding. My soon to be in laws were extreamly excited to hear that they were going to be grandparents. Well ever sence then my boyfriend and I have been treated like crap. They have no respect for me and I am very hurt by this I have told my boyfriend and he has mentioned it to his family but nothing has changed. My family treats my boyfriend like he is one of the family and would do almost anything to help him in anyway possible, but his parents will hold down a conversation with one of our friends with me in the room and not say one word to me. I can't take it any more and I am close to telling my boyfriend that i don't want to talk to his parents at our wedding because they will just make me mad and i don't deserve that. HELP!

2006-11-15 17:04:43 · 15 answers · asked by Katie 1

You are in a relationship.Its been awhile, and you both realize that you have strong feelings for one-another.You think about them when they aren't around, you care how they feel.When you see them it brings an instant smile to your face.In short ,.... you are in-love. Do you tell them so?,OR do you wait for them to tell you so that you can tell them as well?

2006-11-15 16:51:48 · 20 answers · asked by frith25 4

I am from denver colorado as is all my family. My husband on the other hand is from a small town in texas. Where we live now. I dont want to be unfair to him, But i want to live near my parents. The big problem is that we have a baby together and his grandparents would be heartbroken if we left. However I dont feel it's fair for my mom or grandparents to miss out on her growing up. He says he wants to move, but eveytime I bring it up he brushes me off with the we dont have the money speech. I cant work here because we only have 1 means of transportation. And none of his family will keep the baby during the day. If I paid for daycare it wouldnt be worth me working. In denver I would have someone to keep her and i could take public transportation. Plus he could find a better paying job, and the baby could go to a better school. Am I being selfish?

2006-11-15 16:50:49 · 12 answers · asked by chenelle o 2

My good friend just got proposed to, and I thought she was going to choose me as a maid of honor because we are fairly close. But the other day she said that she is good friends with this other girl and all this other stuff, and she hasnt decided yet who is going to be. Im kind of dissapointed because I thought I would be even her fiance thought so. The other day she printed some papers from the internet as to what calendars and things to follow before she gets married and maid of honor duties and other things, and she gave me the papers, doesnt mean she is going to pick me. Anyways can she have to maid of honors? because I think she is going to that or Im not even sure. If in the end she doesnt decide for me I would be sad. Anyways can ppl have 2 maid or honors?

2006-11-15 16:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by Patricia 1

When everybody on earth was dead and waiting to enter paradise, God appeared and said, "I want the men to make two lines. One line for the men who were true heads of their household, and the other line for the men who were dominated by their women. I want all the women to report to St. Peter"

Soon, the women were goneand there were two lines of men. The line of the men who were dominated by their wives was 100 miles long, and in the line of men who truly were heads of their household, there was only one man.

God Said, " You men should be ashamed of yourselves, I created you to be the head of your household! You have been disobedient and have not fulfilled your purpose! Of all of you, only one obeyed. Learn from him"

God Turned to the one man, " How did you manage to be the only one in this line?" The man replied, "My wife told me to stand here"

God repeated,"How did you mange to be th only one in this line?" The man replied again, " My wife told me to stand here"

2006-11-15 16:40:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anybody got any hints how somebody should ask to marry them??

2006-11-15 16:35:37 · 18 answers · asked by ericlouisville1 1

My husband told me he wanted a divorce and that he doesn't love me, and just doesn't want to be married. I can't understand it, or receive a clear concise answer from him to understand what is happening. All he will say is point blank, he is getting a divorce no matter what and he doesn't want to be married. He says nothing more or less. It is not like we are fighting, we are very cival, he lives with his mom right now, but we still sleep together too. I asked him to come home today, and he said no. That is when he said he didn't want to be married, and didn't want to work on things, and he was getting a divorce and nothing would change that. He told our four year old that he doesn't love me anymore either. Our son point blank asked him. Anyone with ideas about this?

2006-11-15 16:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by Evie 2

My husband works a job that he is on the clock anywhere from 8 to 16 hours a day. Somedays he works hard others he doesn't even have to leave the house. I work 8 hours a day and am on my feet the entire time. My question is am I wrong asking him to help with the house work and our son. I mean he just had the last week off and sat in front of the computer and did nothing but watch our son all day while I was at work and when I came home I still was asked what was for dinner and had to put our son to bed. On my two days off for the week I cleaned the house and did laundry for the week. So am I wrong for blowing up at him last night because he would not even help me gather the laundry and put it in the truck so that I could take it the laudramat to wash it and then when I got back he didn't even help me carry it in and when I asked him why he did not help me he said because I did not ask him to. Am I just being a total B or am I right in being mad?

2006-11-15 16:18:10 · 37 answers · asked by fargone14 2

it will be embarrasing right

2006-11-15 16:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband came home late this evening as he once and and a while did.and when he took off his blue jeans his privite was hanging out of the access pouch of his BRIEFS. He looked down and said these darn briefs it is always falling out.Well we have been married for many years and I have never known that to happen.I replyed with an unkind statment and rolled over in the bed,he came around to the other side of the bed where my back was facing him and jiggled around a little and said there it goes again.I got up told him to stand up and I reached up and tore loose some of the threads to the pouch and told him that he has three hours to make it fall out in front of me and he do do anything he wanted to, to make it happen except pull it out with his hand. Well it did not happen.I told him he got caught with his pants down and because it is almost impossible to get back in while in the stiff stage he was probly going to do it before he got home and he forgot.he still says it fell out. LIE

2006-11-15 16:15:38 · 14 answers · asked by jam b 1

I have so many problems but everyone who knows me think I'm the most luckiest happiiest person.My husband is mean 85% of the time and the other time he is nice.I think its because he needs my hlp.He is turning 40 and I'm forcing myself to have this big party for him to make him happy.I help him all the time with any paper wrk(resumes, to work for him whatever) but he is never ever there when we( my kids and I) need him.I don't know if he is using me or if I'm crazy but he hurts me all the time and I can't take it anymore.please don't write anything mean I have no other way of talking to anyone because they view me as someone else.I want to get a divorce but I don't know anything about how to do any of it & I'm afraid I will not be able to take of me and the kids,I'm 12yrs younger than him and I have no interest of ever getting married or to hve another relationship, I wish I had someone that I cud talk to and not get treated differently afterwards.How long does it take to get ovr a man

2006-11-15 16:15:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to give the male stripper a blo**** job.... at my bachlorette party. I am gonna get married soon, and have seen his pictures. I just want to do this once and my girls tell me i should because this stripper lets girls do it to him. have any of you all do this when you where bride to bes? or know of any that did? should i do it? it will be just once and then i will never cheat on him.

2006-11-15 16:14:58 · 13 answers · asked by jenny h 1

I was in contact with a lady from this site and it was leading up to a possible affair. She is married but in an open relationship. I am married but in a nonsexual way. I broke it off because she has kids and now I am wondering if I did the right thing or not.

2006-11-15 16:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by unionjack07 2

where i am from a gangbang is a girl getting ****** one at a time by a bunch of guys standing and waiting there turn. 1. has anyone done this or 2. know if it happens mostly to high school girls and 3. do married girls do it who dont tell there hubbys?

2006-11-15 16:08:41 · 2 answers · asked by timmy 1

I've been bothering my b/f for the last 3yrs to really step up and make a commitment to me because I'm ready for us to move in together and get married and start a family. I finally stuck it to him a couple of weeks ago and now he's set on doing just that. It's what I've wanted for 3yrs so my question is...how come I'm questioning it? Why am I so scared? I thought I'd be excited but I've never felt so sick. Somebody plz help.

2006-11-15 16:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by leelee 3

Men can manage housework better than women. Do you agree?

2006-11-15 16:01:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

And starts ranting about their now grown children not liking me. I ignored her for a long time, but I finally told her what I felt. You know, I believe she still wants my husband even though she's remarried. Your thoughts?

2006-11-15 15:59:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 15:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by Mindy L 1

2006-11-15 15:57:22 · 7 answers · asked by gk 1

A week after my parent return from their 2nd honeymoon 2 years ago, they told me that they want to invite a lovely married couple to join us. They're in love with this couple (uncle James & aunt Sally), My mother to uncle James & my father to aunt Sally. But they'll going to divorse. Just join the 2 couple as one. I wasn't agree that time, i felt it's a weird thing, but they convince me, they told me that each man will have 2 wives and each woman will have 2 husbands, and I'm going to have 2 moms and 2 dads. They're look so happy togather, Uncle James & aunt Sally are so nice, they care for each other as they care for me too. My mother already gave birth a beatiful baby girl for uncle James, the sister i always wanted, and Aunt Sally still 5 months pragnant, we all hope it'll going to be my dad's. A lot of love and joy fill our home. We don't want this to end. Can we? can my dad marry aunt Sally and my mom marry uncle James without divorsing the previous spouse? please advise

2006-11-15 15:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 and have been married for 4.5 months. I love my husband dearly, but his family cannot stand me for the most retarded reasonsthat are too numerous to name here. Do I dare stay in my marriage or let it go before things get worse? IF I leave, how much is a divorce in Texas?

2006-11-15 15:54:42 · 36 answers · asked by behind_hazel_eyes22 1

married 16 years to a scorpio that has been divorced twice, likes nothing more than to be mad 24/7. Truely tries to have everyone around him hate him.
I don't even think he likes himself. but,,,,, he loves his kids no matter what. good provider,responsible, no communication, no nothing, we even sleep apart.

2006-11-15 15:53:44 · 20 answers · asked by aquarian 1

Im torned to whether to stick with my wife, or tell her what ive been doing and start dating her grandmother, what should i do?

2006-11-15 15:52:28 · 24 answers · asked by jpekk 1

marrages fall apart, killing with absueltion an the entertainment industry more pron to "deanile of a deasent loveing forgiving enity"

2006-11-15 15:42:34 · 30 answers · asked by allan1954 1

2006-11-15 15:40:14 · 32 answers · asked by mcthepilot 1

something spicy just me and her would know is going on?
may not a game maybe just something fun

2006-11-15 15:39:18 · 11 answers · asked by letsplaymac 1

2006-11-15 15:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by Asha 1

Okay I'm going to ask my girlfriend to marry me. She indicated to me that a marriage proposal should be romantic. I agree and I want to make this memorable for both of us. Unfortunantely we're not in the position to take any trips or vacations so that idea is out. Also I know she doesn't want to be asked in a restaurant so that idea is out as well. I need your help! Tell me what a women finds romantic....I have some ideas but I need more!

2006-11-15 15:29:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A dear friend of mine is going through a divorce after almost10 years and the thing said to him was "I love you but I am not In love with you anymore" What kind of explanation is this?

2006-11-15 15:27:41 · 14 answers · asked by rjteacup 1